The Rising Leader Mark J. Silverman

Have you ever been caught off guard, struggling to respond effectively in a heated moment? That sudden spike of anxiety when you can't recall a vital piece of information—it's something we've all encountered. In today's episode of The Rising Leader, I dive into the importance of mastering the art of pause, an indispensable tool in any leader's arsenal. We'll explore why taking a moment to collect your thoughts can transform a potentially negative interaction into a constructive one, ensuring you lead with clarity and poise. Today, I'll share personal anecdotes and professional insights gleaned from over thirty years of leadership coaching and from my conversations with thousands of leaders worldwide. I'll discuss how pausing has not only prevented situations from escalating but also allowed for deeper understanding and resolution in both professional and personal contexts. "Mastering your emotional responses is the first step to mastering leadership." – Mark Silverman Today on The Rising Leader:·     The simple act of pausing can prevent many workplace conflicts.·     Pausing allows leaders to gather their thoughts and emotions effectively.·     By pausing, you demonstrate patience, empathy, and respect for others’ viewpoints.·     Effective leaders use the pause to evaluate situations from all angles before responding.·     A strategic pause can enhance your credibility and authority.·     Encourage your team to adopt pausing as a tool for better communication.·     Cultivate a culture where thoughtful responses are valued over immediate reactions.·     The best leaders understand the power of timing in communication.Resources Mentioned:- Book: The Rising Leader Handbook Grab Your Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through your company's ranks so fast that you wish you had a manual to become an effective leader? Then, The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself.Visit The Rising Leader Handbook: Turning High Achievers into Effective Leaders to grab your copy and start mastering your skills to become your team leader. Leader, It’s Time to Rise! Thanks for tuning into this week’s episode of The Rising Leader Podcast. If you enjoyed this episode, please subscribe and leave a review wherever you get your podcasts. Apple Podcasts (https://podcasts.apple.com/podcast/the-rising-leader/id1662751786) | TuneIn (https://tunein.com/radio/The-Rising-Leader-p3088211/) | Google Play (https://www.google.com/podcasts?feed=aHR0cHM6Ly9mZWVkcy5ibHVicnJ5LmNvbS9mZWVkcy8xNDcwNDM4LnhtbA) | Stitcher (https://www.stitcher.com/show/1051091) | Spotify (https://open.spotify.com/show/5Zd549HCrctjCs36zLgM8F) |

  In this week’s episode, we delve into the evolution of leadership from a rigid, old-school approach to one that embraces empathy, compassion, and authenticity. My conversation with Will Keiper, an accomplished author and...

 Leadership is often discussed regarding its impact on organizations, teams, and the larger world. However, in this episode, I explore the dimension of leadership that I believe is the foundation for all other aspects: personal t...

In today's episode, I delve into a topic that is seldom talked about yet significantly impacts countless lives: the damaging effects of pornography on the brain and life. Our discussion with Devin McDermott sheds light on his personal journey through addiction and the powerful strategies he's developed to overcome its grip, alongside the profound benefits he's observed in his life post-recovery. We explore how easy access to dopamine hits can derail our best intentions and the importance of retraining our response to urges and discomfort.Devin McDermott is not only a recovery and growth coach specializing in porn addiction and masculine growth, but he's also a testament to the strength and clarity that come from reigning in one of society's silent epidemics. With four years under his belt, aiding others in their recovery, he brings a wealth of experience, empathy, and a no-nonsense approach to tackling addiction head-on. Devin's mission is to empower men to become the best version of themselves by facing their internal challenges without judgment."Your life improves exponentially when you deal with what's uncomfortable, instead of escaping into a temporary fix." – Devin McDermottToday on The Rising Leader:·     The negative impacts of porn on brain function and overall energy.·     The importance of awareness and cognitive strategies in overcoming addiction.·     Utilizing meditation and mindfulness as tools for redirecting attention.·     The development of Devin's program focused on emotional and urge management.·     Building a fulfilling life as a strategy to reduce the need for escapism.·     The comparison of dealing with temptations to a stream's movement around a rock.·     A powerful strategy: focusing on answering life's callings instead of chasing goals.·     The shared commitment to a non-judgmental approach in aiding others' growth journeys.To connect with Devin McDermott and learn more about his program and strategies, or to subscribe to his newsletter, visit his Website (https://freeforgood.co/) or reach out to him via Twitter (https://twitter.com/devinmcdermot). His insights and daily reminders are designed to encourage and support those on a journey to betterment.Resources Mentioned:- Website (https://freeforgood.co/)-Twitter (https://twitter.com/devinmcdermot)- Newsletter Subscription (https://freeforgood.co/)- Your Brain on Porn (https://www.yourbrainonporn.com/):For anyone contending with or interested in addiction recovery and personal growth, today's dialogue is a crucial listen. Remember to share this episode and join our community of listeners who are committed to fostering their development. Follow me on social media and visit our website for more invaluable content.Remember, it's never too late to address the issues that hold you back and step into a more mindful and empowered version of yourself. Grab Your Copy of The Rising Leader HandbookDo you find yourself rising through your company's ranks so fast that you wish you had a manual to become an effective leader? Then, The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you.In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need,

 In this episode, Mark delves into the unspoken truth about being overwhelmed in the workplace. As we follow the preparation for a workshop on mastering overwhelm for a software company, we come to the realizatio...

 In this episode, I'm thrilled to bring a deep dive into the often unspoken nuances of workplace relationships with my esteemed guest, Michael Bungay Stanier. We explore the critical importance of communication, the power dynamics at play between a boss and their underlying, and the significant impact these dynamics can have on the willingness to engage in open, vulnerable conversations. As we unpack the complexities of these relationships, we also touch on practical strategies for effective feedback, the art of saying "no," and how focusing on what matters can catalyze personal and professional growth. Michael Bungay Stanier is an authority in the realm of coaching and professional development. A celebrated author and speaker, Michael's work revolves around enabling leaders and individuals to break through barriers and achieve extraordinary results. With his keen insight into human behavior and a unique approach to coaching, Michael has become a go-to resource for those looking to foster stronger, more resilient work relationships. His aspirations to sell 10 million copies of his books and infect a billion people with the "possibility virus" are testaments to his dedication to impactful, positive change. "Human connections in the workplace are not just about being vulnerable; they're about being tender and honest with each other." - Michael Bungay Stanier This week on The Rising Leader Podcast:·     Understanding and navigating power dynamics are crucial for open communication in the workplace.·     Engaging in conversations at any level yields insights that can strengthen working relationships.·     Learning team members' preferences for receiving feedback can vastly improve communication and trust.·     Strategic prioritization can lead to heightened productivity and a clearer focus on impactful tasks.·     Building strong relationships in the workplace transcends personality types; it's about efficacy and mutual respect.·     Fostering vulnerability or tender honesty within professional relationships encourages deeper human connections.·     Repairing relationships is a vital skill for the health and longevity of personal and professional partnerships.·     Keystone conversations about working together can pave the way for smarter, more effective collaboration. Resources mentioned:- Michael's upcoming book "How to Work with Almost Anyone" (https://www.mbs.works/how-to-work-with-almost-anyone-book/)- mbs.works (https://www.mbs.works/) Grab Your Advanced Copy of The Rising Leader Handbook Do you find yourself rising through your company's ranks so fast that you wish you had a manual to become an effective leader? Then, The Rising Leader Handbook is right for you. In The Rising Leader Handbook, you’ll learn how to shift your perspective and gain the leadership skills you need, regardless of the breadth of your responsibilities, by leveraging the relationships you’ve built with the CEO, the Leadership Team, and the team you lead as well as your relationship with yourself. The Rising Leader Handbook will be published in January 2024, but you don’t have to wait! Visit