33 episodes
This is Not That Podcast with Shirley Dor and Cirocobama Shirley Dor and Cirocobama
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3.7 • 12 Ratings
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Weekly, join Shirley Dor and Cirocobama as they hold space for unapologetic conversations and laughter. Open minded chit chats on everything. Love! Sex! Friendship! Wellness! Success! Relationships! Anime and more! This is Not That Podcast is a show for therapeutic advice, risque stories, and self-discovery. This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts.
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What People Think of You When Dating in Your 30 something’s.
There is an idea that once you hit 30, dating becomes a challenge or even less satisfying. For whatever reason it’s connected to societal pressure for women and the lack thereof for men. Let’s dig into Dating VS Relationships: And It’s Constructs !
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Don't Find Love in the Club
Welcome back! It's your audio besties here. Apparently people are finding love in the club and other people online are not feeling it. Us, DO NOT FIND LOVE IN THE CLUB.
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We Can’t Promise We Will Stay On Topic
Shirley is currently watching sex in the city and she feels so secure in the conversation that dating in the 90's is not that quite different from dating in 2020's. All that has changed is the access to technology and people. The same issues in love, sex, dating, and relationships explore in Miranda's sex column, are surfacing in today's day age.
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Lets BOTH WIN when we get into a relationship, that goes for love, family, + friends
There's a huge conflation of what people are looking for in a relationship on social media. So we dug into the research on what people are REALLY looking for in partnership to give you social media versus reality. Take a moment to rank the most important traits for you in a partner before listening to the episode. Here are the common 5 on social media:
-Wealth
-Health
-Intelligence
-Being Fine or Hot
-Being Funny
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Sorceress Supreme of Hoeness
The Sharp Shooter Heaux Tales.
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Serious Question, What Are Qualities of a Good Woman?
Welcome back! It's your audio besties here. We think women who have experienced love and partnership have great insight on what qualities of a good woman. At the end of the day, they were chosen and clearly they did something right to be chosen for however long that partnership was active. Here are qualities of a good woman from single women whose exes still try to spend the block.
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Customer Reviews
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I haven’t even listened but I’m posting this because I am Haitian and I support other Haitians…that is it…
Best At Being The Worst
This may possibly be the tackiest program I’ve ever heard. I had to listen to it for research for my new job and the second hand embarrassment is strong.
You have an American black person and a Haitian black person of whom are essentially playing
pseudo intellectual minstrel characters. If they do a YouTube show, it would actually be appropriate if they did it with coal on their faces. They contradict themselves from minute to minute.
I would say segment to segment but they don’t seem to respect their target audience enough to put in the effort to produce segments. They also have a hard time keeping up the minstrel show and regularly slip into the regular speaking voices.
These folks are entertainers and given the trajectory of this online economy, this has a legitimate probability of being successful endeavor. It’s largely the result of corporate union busting in the late 90’s but that’s for another day. Save your time and find something else.
Crap
Truly awful people