30 episodes
This is not that Podcast with Shirley Dor and Cirocobama Shirley Dor and Cirocobama
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3.7 • 12 Ratings
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Weekly, join Shirley Dor and Cirocobama as they hold space for unapologetic conversations and laughter. Open minded chit chats on everything. Love! Sex! Friendship! Wellness! Success! Relationships! Anime and more! This is Not That Podcast is a show for therapeutic advice, risque stories, and self-discovery. This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts.
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Lets BOTH WIN when we get into a relationship, that goes for love, family, + friends
There's a huge conflation of what people are looking for in a relationship on social media. So we dug into the research on what people are REALLY looking for in partnership to give you social media versus reality. Take a moment to rank the most important traits for you in a partner before listening to the episode. Here are the common 5 on social media:
-Wealth
-Health
-Intelligence
-Being Fine or Hot
-Being Funny
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Sorceress Supreme of Hoeness
The Sharp Shooter Heaux Tales.
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Serious Question, What Are Qualities of a Good Woman?
Welcome back! It's your audio besties here. We think women who have experienced love and partnership have great insight on what qualities of a good woman. At the end of the day, they were chosen and clearly they did something right to be chosen for however long that partnership was active. Here are qualities of a good woman from single women whose exes still try to spend the block.
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Bring It/Leave It 2023: Fake Friends, 50/50 Debates, the Sassy Men Apocalypse + more (pt 1)
Welcome back! It's your audio besties here. We feel a little passionate today and we really need you guys to leave so much in 2023. From Chrisean and Blueface to baby hairs that touch your eyebrows. This is Part I of Bring it or Leave it into 2024.
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So, Red Flags?
Welcome back! Its your audio besties here. We are talking about red flags to lookout for in romantic relationships and should not ignore.
How to spot the difference between red flags and drawing boundaries?
How to deal with a guy who keeps asking you for your car?
What nationalities to be on the lookout for
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An Out in the Open Production
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EP 24 | Depressed? Isolating? Take Control of Your Life
Your audio besties are back and we’re talking about depression. The issue you face with disappointment with life is the fact that your emotions build on themselves based on responses to them.
This is NOT That podcast, we’re opinionated & experts.
In this episode we discuss:
The urges we experience when depressed like avoiding things, isolating, withdrawing, thinking of other sad things, and feeling like giving up.
Being mindful of observing our urges during depression so we can attach certain emotions and thoughts to those depressive times
Gems for this episode:
A Whole New You: An Inspirational Journal To Help You Heal From Past Trauma by Linda Vincent: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578370514/ref=cm_sw_r_as_gl_api_gl_i_7RZH5DXZEKDZZM44240F?linkCode=ml1&tag=shirleydorsai-20
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Customer Reviews
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I haven’t even listened but I’m posting this because I am Haitian and I support other Haitians…that is it…
Best At Being The Worst
This may possibly be the tackiest program I’ve ever heard. I had to listen to it for research for my new job and the second hand embarrassment is strong.
You have an American black person and a Haitian black person of whom are essentially playing
pseudo intellectual minstrel characters. If they do a YouTube show, it would actually be appropriate if they did it with coal on their faces. They contradict themselves from minute to minute.
I would say segment to segment but they don’t seem to respect their target audience enough to put in the effort to produce segments. They also have a hard time keeping up the minstrel show and regularly slip into the regular speaking voices.
These folks are entertainers and given the trajectory of this online economy, this has a legitimate probability of being successful endeavor. It’s largely the result of corporate union busting in the late 90’s but that’s for another day. Save your time and find something else.
Crap
Truly awful people