wellbeing4mothers Dr Dunni

In this episode, Dr. Dunni discusses the idea of holding on versus letting go, drawing inspiration from the Disney movie Frozen. She considers the importance of analyzing one's goals, values, and emotions to determine whether to persist or release. Dr. Dunni encourages listeners to periodically assess their choices, emphasizing the need for self-reflection and the potential benefits of embracing change. 
KEY TAKEAWAYS
It is important to regularly analyze the things we are holding onto to ensure they align with our goals, values, and purpose.
Just like water, we should aim to be flexible and adaptable in our approach to holding onto or letting go of things in our lives.
When letting go of something significant, it is important to allow ourselves to grieve as a natural part of the process.
Incorporating regular analysis into our routine, whether quarterly, monthly, or weekly, can help us make informed decisions about what to hold onto or let go of.
Taking the time to self-reflect and ask the right questions can lead to gaining clarity and making better decisions about what to hold onto or release.
BEST MOMENTS
"There are some people that are very keen when it comes to holding on to things, and that's brilliant. It's good. Some people call that persistence."
"I made a mistake. And I know it's a very hard thing to say. Many people think that when you say I made a mistake, it means you're a failure."
"There are some times that we hold on to certain things for more than five minutes. It could be five hours, five days, five weeks, five months, five years, five decades."
"If you have a bird and you let it go, if it comes back to you, it's meant to be yours. If it doesn't, it was never meant to be."
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HOST BIO
Your host Dr Dunni is the award-winning mum empowerment coach, Family doctor, International speaker, Best-selling author of the book ‘Every Mum is a super mum’ and a mum herself who is passionate about health and wellbeing. She is proficient in using natural, scientific, and medical well-being concepts to explain in simple terms practical ways and strategies to avoid ill health and promote the overall well-being of body, mind, soul, and spirit. This is made available by the provision of online courses, books, coaching and regular events where well-being strategies and tactics are shared to enhance holistic well-being. Learn more athttps://www.drdunni.com

In this episode, Dr. Dunni delves into the challenges faced by working mothers and the importance of self-care. She metaphorically compares mothers to generals leading their armies, emphasizing the need for mothers to protect themselves with an "armor" built from their life experiences. Dr. Dunni discusses the significance of recognizing and addressing internal struggles, encouraging mothers to see, ask, feel, and express deep love for themselves to determine if they are safe to remove their armor and prioritize their well-being. 
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Mothers are like generals leading their army of children, facing significant responsibilities and stress in balancing work and home life.
Mothers have built up emotional armor over the years from various experiences, both positive and negative, to protect themselves and survive.
Dr. Dunni outlines four steps for mothers to assess their emotional well-being: see yourself, ask yourself, truly feel, and express deep love.
Expressing deep love for oneself leads to compassion and kindness, giving permission to take off the emotional armor and prioritize self-care.
It is essential for mothers to share and spread the message of self-care and well-being with other mothers to create a supportive community.
BEST MOMENTS
"Many times we as mothers are like soldiers. We are the generals that are leading our army."
"Our armor has been built on years of hurt, of pain, of shame, failure, successes, victories, celebrations, defeats."
"It's okay for us to take that armor off, Because it's then that we are free from the heavy emotions, the painful experiences, the discomfort."
"Seeing ourselves is the same and similar to our increasing self-awareness."
"Love is a word that has been used to describe so many things... deep and pure love, that love that is self-giving."
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HOST BIO
Your host Dr Dunni is the award-winning mum empowerment coach, Family doctor, International speaker, Best-selling author of the book ‘Every Mum is a super mum’ and a mum herself who is passionate about health and wellbeing. She is proficient in using natural, scientific, and medical well-being concepts to explain in simple terms practical ways and strategies to avoid ill health and promote the overall well-being of body, mind, soul, and spirit. This is made available by the provision of online courses, books, coaching and regular events where well-being strategies and tactics are shared to enhance holistic well-being. Learn more athttps://www.drdunni.com

In today's episode, Dr. Dunni delves into the topic of weaknesses and vulnerabilities. She discusses the common trend of feeling ashamed or apologizing for not knowing something, which can impact mental well-being and self-image. Dr. Dunni emphasizes the importance of reframing weaknesses as potential superpowers and encourages listeners to embrace their vulnerabilities. She emphasizes the essence of authentic living and the importance of guiding children to identify and work on their weaknesses while celebrating their strengths. 
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Recognize and embrace your weaknesses: It's important to acknowledge and accept your weaknesses as they can be turned into strengths with the right mindset.
Vulnerability is a superpower: Expressing your weaknesses and vulnerabilities is a sign of strength and authenticity, not something to be ashamed of.
Self-awareness is key: Identifying your weaknesses allows you to decide whether to improve, delegate, or accept them as they are.
Celebrate diversity in strengths: Just like different animals excel in different environments, individuals have unique strengths and weaknesses that should be appreciated.
Focus on personal growth: Instead of trying to be great at everything, focus on developing your strengths and managing your weaknesses effectively.
BEST MOMENTS
"It's okay not to know things. People perhaps see me and think, oh my goodness, she knows a lot about this. Not really."
"How comfortable are you talking about your weaknesses? Now, don't get me wrong. I love to demonstrate my strength."
"The ability to see your weakness and talk about it is where it's almost like you opening up your heart, knowing that yes, there will be some trolls, there will be some nasty people."
"There's always room for improvement. And if you had all the resources, the time, the mentors, everybody, you can be great at everything, which is well, but that's, you probably need about three or four or five lifetimes to do that."
"Our children are all different. And there's some of them that are fishes, some of them are monkeys, some of them are horses, and some of them are birds."
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HOST BIO
Your host Dr Dunni is the award-winning mum empowerment coach, Family doctor, International speaker, Best-selling author of the book ‘Every Mum is a super mum’ and a mum herself who is passionate about health and wellbeing. She is proficient in using natural, scientific, and medical well-being concepts to explain in simple terms practical ways and strategies to avoid ill health and promote the overall well-being of body, mind, soul, and spirit. This is made available by the provision of online courses, books, coaching and regular events where well-being strategies and tactics are shared to enhance holistic well-being. Learn more at https://www.drdunni.com 

Today, Dr. Dunni discusses the power of gratitude in improving overall well-being. She shares personal experiences and insights on how expressing gratitude can positively impact our lives. Dr. Dunni emphasizes the importance of not only feeling grateful but also expressing it through words, writing, and gestures. She discusses the science behind gratitude, citing studies that show its effects on brain structure, stress reduction, and emotional well-being. Dr. Dunni also encourages her listeners to incorporate gratitude practices, such as keeping a gratitude journal and teaching children the value of expressing gratitude. 
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Expressing gratitude through words, actions, and gestures can significantly improve well-being.
Keeping a gratitude journal, even with just a few lines, can lead to better sleep and a sense of wellness.
Teaching children to express gratitude from a young age can positively impact their development.
Gratitude can be expressed in various ways, such as through gifts, words of affirmation, or physical touch, based on individual preferences.
Reflecting on and expressing gratitude for negative experiences can lead to personal growth and a shift in perspective.
BEST MOMENTS
"Gratitude is a special thing that we all have access to. But for some reason or the other, we forget those moments where we feel low, we feel down, we feel disempowered."
"When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change."
"Sometimes we need to think a bit deeply about what we're thankful for. Not just because it's a good thing to do, but because it actually improves our well-being."
"There's a huge thing that we need to learn, that when we give gratitude, whether it's spoken, it's written, or even in the third way of I'm going to describe in a minute, you will experience the joy and the person you're giving it to experiences the joy."
"Let us start to not just express gratitude in thoughts, words, and actions, but start to teach our children to express gratitude as well."
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Your host Dr Dunni is the award-winning mum empowerment coach, Family doctor, International speaker, Best-selling author of the book ‘Every Mum is a super mum’ and a mum herself who is passionate about health and wellbeing. She is proficient in using natural, scientific, and medical well-being concepts to explain in simple terms practical ways and strategies to avoid ill health and promote the overall well-being of body, mind, soul, and spirit. This is made available by the provision of online courses, books, coaching and regular events where well-being strategies and tactics are shared to enhance holistic well-being. Learn more athttps://www.drdunni.com

In this episode, Dr. Dunni delves into the importance of being mindful of the digital exposure children face in today's world. She discusses the evolution of communication devices, highlighting the benefits and risks associated with children having access to mobile phones and social media. Dr. Dunni emphasizes the need for parents to be vigilant about their children's online activities, addressing concerns such as oversharing, interacting with strangers, and exposure to inappropriate content.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Parents need to be actively involved in monitoring their children's online activities, especially on social media platforms, to ensure their safety and well-being.
Parents should educate their children about the potential risks of oversharing personal information, interacting with strangers, and being exposed to inappropriate content online.
It is crucial for parents to set limits on device usage, monitor the content their children access, and be willing to intervene when necessary to protect them from harmful influences.
By teaching children to be responsible and resilient in their online interactions, parents can help them navigate the digital world safely and positively contribute to society.
Encouraging a sense of community responsibility in safeguarding children can create a network of support where neighbors, friends, and other parents can help watch out for each other's children.
BEST MOMENTS
"We all want to be connected. We want to see people, hear people, experience what they're experiencing, and actually get to know what's happening in different parts."
"Many of us, perhaps depending of course on your age, would recall when you got your first mobile phone."
"We need to be very mindful of the devices and the access that the children have got to these mobile apps or social media platforms."
"Sometimes you might need to be a little overbearing. Sometimes having that can be very useful."
 
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Your host Dr Dunni is the award-winning mum empowerment coach, Family doctor, International speaker, Best-selling author of the book ‘Every Mum is a super mum’ and a mum herself who is passionate about health and wellbeing. She is proficient in using natural, scientific, and medical well-being concepts to explain in simple terms practical ways and strategies to avoid ill health and promote the overall well-being of body, mind, soul, and spirit. This is made available by the provision of online courses, books, coaching and regular events where well-being strategies and tactics are shared to enhance holistic well-being. Learn more athttps://www.drdunni.com

In this episode, Dr. Dunni delves into the concept of fairness and unfairness in various aspects of life, particularly focusing on the experiences of mothers. Dr. Dunni shares personal anecdotes about feeling unfair treatment, such as changes in product packaging and delays in work due to others. She emphasizes the importance of acknowledging feelings, seeking support, and reframing perspectives when faced with unfair situations. Dr. Dunni highlights the significance of self-care and fair communication, encouraging listeners to treat themselves and others with fairness.
KEY TAKEAWAYS
Acknowledge your feelings and lean into them to grow and learn.
Focus on what you can control and take action based on that to find relief.
Use "I" statements when communicating about unfair situations to be less confrontational.
Seek help from mentors, coaches, or professionals when facing unfair treatments.
Teach children about fairness in terms of self and others to create a ripple effect of peace in the world.
BEST MOMENTS
"Life is really unfair. Things happen that shouldn't really happen to good people."
"Whenever you acknowledge your feelings and you kind of lean into them, you grow, you learn, you become a better version of yourself."
"The more mothers out there that teach their children about fairness in terms of self and in terms of others, would help to create that ripple effect that kind of resonates through the world."
"Whenever you're leaning to your feelings or you're acknowledging your feelings, know that there's sometimes you feel, okay, yeah, I think I've gotten the full grasp of how I feel."
"Life's not like that. It's not about, oh, this is my right and you need to do it my way."
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Your host Dr Dunni is the award-winning mum empowerment coach, Family doctor, International speaker, Best-selling author of the book ‘Every Mum is a super mum’ and a mum herself who is passionate about health and wellbeing. She is proficient in using natural, scientific, and medical well-being concepts to explain in simple terms practical ways and strategies to avoid ill health and promote the overall well-being of body, mind, soul, and spirit. This is made available by the provision of online courses, books, coaching and regular events where well-being strategies and tactics are shared to enhance holistic well-being. Learn more athttps://www.drdunni.com