Wild and Well

Dr. Hilary Claire

Here we delve into the big and little things that move the needle for children’s health and mental wellness in a modern world that doesn’t make it easy to do so.

  1. Episode 86 - Breaking Generational Cycles in Motherhood with Clinical Psychologist Dr Angele Close

    5D AGO

    Episode 86 - Breaking Generational Cycles in Motherhood with Clinical Psychologist Dr Angele Close

    Unburdening Motherhood: How Mothers Can Heal Trauma and Become Self-LedWhy Motherhood Triggers Us - and How to Heal Using Parts Work From Perfectionism to Self-Compassion: Healing Motherhood with Dr Angele Close Healing Trauma and Reparenting Yourself Through Motherhood Breaking Generational Cycles in Motherhood with Clinical Psychologist Dr Angele Close. In this episode, I’m joined by psychologist, motherhood coach, and author Dr Angele Close to explore motherhood, self-compassion, and what it really takes to move out of exhaustion and overwhelm in motherhood. Dr. Angele shares how her own journey through motherhood - and the profound challenges of matrescence, led her to shift her work toward supporting mothers’ mental and emotional wellbeing. Together, we explore how unhealed childhood patterns, cultural expectations of “good motherhood,” and internalized perfectionism can leave mothers feeling exhausted, overwhelmed, and disconnected from themselves. We discuss Internal Family Systems (IFS) and parts work, which provide a compassionate approach that supports mothers in understanding their inner world, easing self-criticism, and responding more calmly and authentically in parenting.   Dr Angele and I chat about:  What matrescence is and why it’s such a vulnerable, transformative time How cultural myths of “good motherhood” shape our inner critic and perfectionism What parts work and Internal Family Systems are (and why they’re so helpful for moms) Common “mom parts” like the perfectionist, inner critic, worrier, and mama bear How to respond more calmly to your child’s big emotions by doing your own inner work What it really means to break generational cycles How self-compassion and reparenting support both mothers and children Practical ways to begin parts work, even with limited time This episode is an invitation to move out of survival mode, reconnect with your inner wisdom, and become more self-led in motherhood. Dr Angele Close is a psychologist, motherhood coach, and author with nearly 20 years of clinical experience. Her work centers on supporting mothers in moving out of exhaustion, depletion, and overwhelm, and reclaiming a healthy, thriving identity in motherhood. Her approach is shaped not only by professional training, but by her own lived experience navigating the challenges of early motherhood. Dr Angele specializes in maternal mental health, Internal Family Systems, and cycle-breaking work for mothers. Her book, Unburdening Motherhood: A Guide to Breaking Cycles, Healing Trauma, and Becoming a Self-Led Mom, offers practical tools, reflections, and guided practices to support mothers in deep inner healing. Episode Links: Say hi to Dr Angele on Instagram Read Unburdening Motherhood  Try out some of Dr Angele’s meditations on Insight Timer  Find out more about Dr Angele on her website   Come say hello to me on Instagram  Read my books The Motherhood Reset, Nourished Mama and Mama Let It Go Grab my Picky Eating Guide

    1h 8m
  2. Episode 85 - Why Your Child Is a Picky Eater (And What to Do About It)

    FEB 16

    Episode 85 - Why Your Child Is a Picky Eater (And What to Do About It)

    Have you ever found yourself holding your breath at the dinner table? Watching what your child will (or won’t) eat. Counting bites. Wondering if you’re doing something wrong. Mealtimes can quietly become one of the most stressful parts of parenting, especially when selective or “picky” eating enters the picture. But what if it’s not just about the food? When we zoom out, we see that eating is connected to emotional safety, nervous system regulation, sensory processing, modelling, and the overall parent–child relationship. Pressure, praise, rewards, and even our own food hang-ups can unintentionally make things harder. The good news? There are practical, compassionate ways to shift the dynamic. This is what we discuss in this episode. This episode is a little different as dietitian Atheana Brown is the one asking the questions and I am answering.  Atheana and I chat about:  Why labeling kids as “picky eaters” can reinforce the behaviour The powerful role of parental modelling and nervous system regulation at mealtimes How pressure, praise, rewards, and punishment can backfire The importance of prioritizing connection over control at the table When selective eating may signal something deeper (sensory challenges, tongue ties, gut health, nutritional deficiencies, ARFID, growth concerns) Red flags that may indicate it’s time to seek professional support Practical ways to reduce stress around food and strengthen your relationship with your child If you’re feeling stuck, stressed, or overwhelmed by your child’s eating, this episode might just get you looking at it from a fresh perspective.  You don’t have to stay stuck and neither does your child.   Episode Links: Come say hello to me on Instagram  Read my books The Motherhood Reset, Nourished Mama and Mama Let It Go Grab my Picky Eating Guide Say hi to Atheana on Instagram  Listen to Diet Culture Dropout podcast

    36 min
  3. Episode 84 - Motherhood, Money, and Entrepreneurship with Co-Founder and CEO of Willful Erin Bury

    FEB 12

    Episode 84 - Motherhood, Money, and Entrepreneurship with Co-Founder and CEO of Willful Erin Bury

    In this episode, I chat with Erin Bury, Co-Founder and CEO of Willful, to explore the intersection of entrepreneurship, motherhood, and financial wellbeing. Erin shares her unconventional path into entrepreneurship, from journalism to tech startups, and what she’s learned about taking risks, validating ideas, and building a business without being a “born entrepreneur.”  She opens up about the realities of running a company while raising two young children, including time constraints, invisible labour, and the importance of supportive partnerships, all while rejecting the myth of perfection.   Erin and I chat about:  Balancing leadership, parenting, and personal wellbeing Why modeling values matters more than doing it “all” The mental and emotional load mothers carry, even in supportive households Teaching kids about money, financial literacy, and entrepreneurship Practical steps parents can take to support their children’s financial futures Why estate planning is an act of care, and how it can bring peace of mind, not fear This episode is a conversation for parents who are building careers, raising children, and trying to navigate it all with intention, without burning out. Named one of The Globe & Mail’s Changemakers in 2025, Erin Bury is an entrepreneur, startup advisor. and a former marketer and technology journalist. Erin is the co-founder and CEO at online estate planning platform Willful, where she drives the company’s mission to ensure every Canadian has a will. Erin secured a deal for the company on TV’s Dragons’ Den in December 2021 Erin is also a columnist at The Globe and Mail, where she writes about parenting and personal finance. She is also a board member for Save the Children Canada. She lives in Prince Edward County, Ontario with her husband and two young daughters. Episode Links: Say hi to Erin on Instagram Check out Willful on Instagram and on their website    Come say hello to me on Instagram  Read my books The Motherhood Reset, Nourished Mama and Mama Let It Go Grab my Picky Eating Guide

    55 min
  4. Episode 83 - Attachment Focused Infant Sleep Solutions with Nurture Neuroscience Practitioner and Infant Sleep Coach Gabrielle Ferrara

    FEB 5

    Episode 83 - Attachment Focused Infant Sleep Solutions with Nurture Neuroscience Practitioner and Infant Sleep Coach Gabrielle Ferrara

    As parents, we are all desperate for our babies to sleep.  Yet we’re often unsure how to support our infants to sleep in a way that feels right. Harsh sleep training methods don’t sit well, but neither does chronic exhaustion. The good news is that there is an alternative: one that is attachment-focused, keeps us connected to our babies even during the night, and importantly, supports the whole family. In this episode, I am joined by Gabrielle Ferrara, a nurture neuroscience practitioner, infant sleep coach, and licensed clinical social worker with training in perinatal mental health. Gabrielle shares a neuroscience-informed look at infant and toddler sleep, challenging common myths around independence, self-soothing, and sleep training. Together, we explore what’s developmentally normal for babies, why frequent night waking is protective, and how connection and responsiveness support healthy brain development.   Gabrielle and I chat about:  What biologically normal infant sleep really looks like Why babies need closeness to feel safe – day and night The impact of parental stress on baby sleep Common but overlooked sleep disruptors (reflux, iron, airway issues) Co-sleeping vs. bed sharing and how to do it safely Why sleep is a biological function, not a behavior to be trained   Gabrielle is a Licensed Clinical Social Worker in New Jersey and Florida, Certified in Perinatal Mental Health and a Nurture Neuroscience Practitioner trained through The Nurture Revolution by Dr Greer Kirshenbaum. She supports parents using a nurturing, neuroscience-informed approach to infant sleep, emotional regulation, and maternal mental health. Gabrielle’s own transition into motherhood deeply shapes her work. After relocating from New Jersey to Tampa, Florida during her third trimester, she became the primary caregiver to a high-needs baby, navigating reflux, feeding challenges, and significant sleep struggles. This lived experience informs her compassionate, non–sleep-training approach to supporting families. She offers 1:1 sleep support for parents of babies ages 0–3, pregnancy and parent circles, and nurturing sleep and parenting workshops. She is passionate about helping parents feel supported, regulated, and less alone in early motherhood. Resources that Gabrielle mentioned: The Nurture Revolution – Dr Greer Kirshenbaum Safe Infant Sleep – Dr James McKenna How Babies Sleep – Dr Helen Ball Instagram: @cosleepy   Episode Links: Say hi to Gabrielle on Instagram Learn more about Gabrielle and how to work with you on her website Grab Tiffany from @cosleepy’s Bedsharing Beginner’s Guide    Come say hello to me on Instagram  Read my books The Motherhood Reset, Nourished Mama and Mama Let It Go Grab my Picky Eating Guide

    1h 2m
  5. Episode 82 - Nervous System Support for Mothers with Clinical Psychologist and Yoga Instructor Dr Lauren Tober

    FEB 1

    Episode 82 - Nervous System Support for Mothers with Clinical Psychologist and Yoga Instructor Dr Lauren Tober

    How can yoga and psychology support our nervous system and our mental health in everyday life? In this episode of Wild & Well, I’m joined by Dr Lauren Tober, a clinical psychologist, yoga teacher, and founder of the Yoga Psychology Institute, to explore how yoga and psychology can work together to support mental health, nervous system regulation, and emotional wellbeing. We discuss accessible, practical tools for navigating stress, anxiety, and overwhelm, especially during motherhood and busy seasons of life.   Dr Lauren and I talk about: How yoga and psychology complement one another in mental health care The role of breathwork in nervous system regulation Understanding the window of tolerance How body awareness supports emotional wellbeing What “mental health–aware yoga” means Simple grounding practices for overwhelm Supporting kids’ emotional regulation through breath and play How to anchor nervous system practices into everyday life as a parent The importance of self-compassion and checking in with yourself Dr Lauren Tober is a clinical psychologist, yoga teacher, and author of Mental Health Aware Yoga, who bridges psychology and yoga to support mental health and nervous system regulation. Her work is evidence-based yet soulful, grounded in the belief that happiness is our true nature and can be cultivated through practices like breath, compassion, creativity, and community.   Episode Links: Say hi to Dr Lauren on Instagram  Learn more about the Yoga Psychology Institute or on Instagram  Grab her book Mental Health Aware Yoga  Listen to Dr Lauren’s podcast A Grateful Life Podcast  Get her free Yoga Nidra   Come say hello to me on Instagram  Read my books The Motherhood Reset, Nourished Mama and Mama Let It Go Grab my Picky Eating Guide

    54 min
  6. Episode 81 - Owning Our Kids’ Mental Health with CEO and Founder of Tell My Story Jason Reid

    JAN 25

    Episode 81 - Owning Our Kids’ Mental Health with CEO and Founder of Tell My Story Jason Reid

    It is our responsibility as parents to care for our children’s mental health just as we do their physical health. We nourish them with food, support healthy sleep, and make space for time outdoors in fresh air. Tending to our kids’ mental health matters just as much. This can be as simple as opening up conversation with them.  In this episode, I’m joined by Jason Reid, an entrepreneur, father, and founder of Tell My Story, an organization dedicated to transforming how families, schools, and communities talk about mental health. Jason shares the heartbreaking story that changed his life forever – the loss of his 14-year-old son – and how that experience led him to dedicate his life to helping parents better understand, recognize, and support their children’s mental health. Jason reminds us that mental health is not something to react to once there’s a crisis. It’s something we must actively take responsibility for, just like our kids’ physical health.   Jason and I chat about:  Why mental health struggles often go unseen, even in “happy” kids The difference between fixing vs listening, and why listening matters most How depression and anxiety can begin as early as ages 6–7 Why today’s kids carry far more emotional weight than previous generations Subtle signs that your child may be struggling emotionally How screens, global news, and social pressure impact young nervous systems Creating safe, non-threatening spaces for meaningful conversations Why kids often open up more in the car, on walks, or during shared activities The importance of family dinners and everyday connection How hobbies, passions, and purpose can support mental health at any age Why our own mental health and joy matter deeply as parents and role models   Jason Reid is the founder of TellMyStory.org and a leading advocate for youth mental health. After losing his 14-year-old son to suicide in 2018, Jason made it his mission to help parents have the conversations that can save lives. Through documentaries, school programs, talks, and resources, Tell My Story equips parents to take ownership of their children’s mental health with compassion and awareness. A serial entrepreneur and executive coach, Jason brings a practical, grounded approach to prevention rooted in lived experience. Above all, he is a husband and father of four, committed to turning personal loss into meaningful change. Episode Links: Say hi to Jason on Instagram or Facebook or LinkedIn Learn more about Tell My Story and check out his documentaries and resources     Come say hello to me on Instagram  Read my books The Motherhood Reset, Nourished Mama and Mama Let It Go Grab my Picky Eating Guide

    56 min
  7. Episode 80 - Food Sensitivities Explained with Dietitian Christa Biegler

    JAN 18

    Episode 80 - Food Sensitivities Explained with Dietitian Christa Biegler

    Food sensitivities are more common than ever. But they’re rarely just about the food.  In this episode, I’m joined by dietitian and functional health nutritionist Christa Biegler to unpack what food sensitivities really are, why restriction often backfires, and what your symptoms may actually be trying to tell you. We explore the roles of stress, digestion, the nervous system, and environmental factors like mold, and where to start if you’re feeling reactive to everything.   Christa and I talk about: What food sensitivities actually are (and how they differ from allergies and intolerances) Why food sensitivity testing can be misleading — and when it may (or may not) be helpful How stress and the nervous system impact digestion and immune responses Why restriction can create more reactivity and food fear The connection between gut health, digestion, and food reactions Why symptoms are signals, not problems to suppress How toxic burden (including mold exposure) can drive hypersensitivity Why reacting to “everything” is a sign the body is overwhelmed Simple, practical starting points if you suspect mold or environmental triggers How nervous system support plays a critical role in healing food sensitivities Why expanding, not shrinking, is often part of true recovery Christa Biegler, RD is an award-winning dietitian and root-cause nutritionist, and the owner of Less Stressed Life Nutrition. She helps people resolve food sensitivities, inflammation, and eczema without unnecessary restriction, endless supplementation, or costly testing. She lives with her unicycling husband & kids in the Midwest. Episode Links: Say hi to Christa on Instagram  Learn more about Christa and how to work with you on her at Less Stressed Life Nutrition  Listen to the Less Stressed Life podcast    Come say hello to me on Instagram  Read my books The Motherhood Reset, Nourished Mama and Mama Let It Go Grab my Picky Eating Guide

    1h 5m
  8. Episode 79 - Dismantling bounce back culture with Dietitian Atheana Brown

    JAN 15

    Episode 79 - Dismantling bounce back culture with Dietitian Atheana Brown

    Have you ever felt pressure to “bounce back” after having a baby?  When we become mothers, our identity, brain, values, priorities and bodies shift. Yet, there is immense societal pressure to be the same as we were before having children including looking like we never gave birth. This is what we cover in this episode.  I am joined by Dietitian Atheana Brown to talk about mom bod pressure and how to drop out of diet culture.  We dive deep into the concept of ‘mom bod pressure’ – the unrealistic societal expectations placed on mothers to “bounce back” after birth – and unpack how this pressure is rooted in broader systems of oppression, diet culture, and body shaming.  Atheana sheds light on how these harmful ideals manifest in everyday life, the impact they have on mothers’ mental and emotional wellbeing, and how we can begin dismantling these norms both personally and collectively. She explains how harmful body ideals show up in everyday life, how they affect mothers’ wellbeing, and what we can do – both individually and as a society – to start breaking them down. Atheana and I talk about:  What mom bod pressure  How bounce back culture shows up in our day-to-day lives as mothers  How body shame shows up for mothers in both subtle and overt ways The deep ties between body shame, patriarchy, and systemic injustice How to push back against diet culture and reconnect with body trust Raising body-confident children in a world obsessed with appearance Reclaiming the word “fat” and reframing it without stigma Practical tools for moms to resist harmful body narratives Why intuitive eating can be a revolutionary act of selfcare  Atheana Brown is a trauma-informed, fat-positive, and body-inclusive Registered Dietitian who practices through a Health at Every Size lens. As a Certified Intuitive Eating Counsellor, she helps people of all ages heal their relationship with food and body. With over a decade of experience in primary and long-term care, Atheana is passionate about breaking the cycle of dieting and body shame through a compassionate, collaborative approach. Episode Links: Say hi to Atheana on Instagram  Learn more about Atheana and how to work with you on her at Peacefully Nourished  Listen to Diet Culture Dropout podcast  Books Atheana recommended:  Fearing the Black Body  The Body is Not an Apology    Come say hello to me on Instagram  Read my books The Motherhood Reset, Nourished Mama and Mama Let It Go Grab my Picky Eating Guide

    47 min

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Here we delve into the big and little things that move the needle for children’s health and mental wellness in a modern world that doesn’t make it easy to do so.