26 min

Your Emotional Triggers - When Your Partner Triggers You Take These Steps To Reflect & Reconnect EmPowered Couples with The Freemans

    • Relationships

You know those things your partner says or does that TRIGGER you? YES trigger, meaning you have an automatic emotion that comes up that then causes you to get upset. Then from there you may both do things that hurt and keep you disconnected for hours, days, or even weeks! 
You’re not alone, we received hundreds of comments when we asked the community what triggers them in their relationship. This episode comes directly from a post on FB and Instagram about “what does your partner do that triggers you?”  
We share what many of those responses were PLUS:
The root cause of your personal triggers 3 things you can do differently when you do get triggered And how to talk calmly to your partner about triggers so they can support you  
Quotes:
“It’s not your partner’s responsibility to tip-toe around your emotional triggers. It is your opportunity to identify them, heal them and then ask them to support you.” - Jocelyn
“Become aware, then share!”  - Aaron
 
About Us:
We’re The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram
 
Resources For Your Relationship:
As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.  Get a FREE hard copy of the book 📚 The New Power Couple (just pay shipping) Get 50% OFF The Couples Workshop (online home edition) to practice communication skills, resolve recurring disagreements, and connect more than ever! Follow us on Instagram

You know those things your partner says or does that TRIGGER you? YES trigger, meaning you have an automatic emotion that comes up that then causes you to get upset. Then from there you may both do things that hurt and keep you disconnected for hours, days, or even weeks! 
You’re not alone, we received hundreds of comments when we asked the community what triggers them in their relationship. This episode comes directly from a post on FB and Instagram about “what does your partner do that triggers you?”  
We share what many of those responses were PLUS:
The root cause of your personal triggers 3 things you can do differently when you do get triggered And how to talk calmly to your partner about triggers so they can support you  
Quotes:
“It’s not your partner’s responsibility to tip-toe around your emotional triggers. It is your opportunity to identify them, heal them and then ask them to support you.” - Jocelyn
“Become aware, then share!”  - Aaron
 
About Us:
We’re The Freemans, your go-to couple for authentic and actionable relationship advice. Send us your relationship questions for the show with a DM on Instagram
 
Resources For Your Relationship:
As you listen to the episode, tag us on an IG story and let us know what you loved.  Get a FREE hard copy of the book 📚 The New Power Couple (just pay shipping) Get 50% OFF The Couples Workshop (online home edition) to practice communication skills, resolve recurring disagreements, and connect more than ever! Follow us on Instagram

26 min