21 episodes
The Trench Effect(s) Darrol Drabile and Thulani Dambuza
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4.8 • 38 Ratings
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The Trench Effect(s) aims to do exactly what it’s name stands for. On this podcast we aim to discuss all the matters limiting our potential but also exploring the ways we can light a fire for the limitless potential inside of us.
We aim to cover a myriad of topics from relationships, fitness, lifestyle, mindset, finance, sports and even the streets.
Join us on this journey as we all learn new paths, challenge old ideas and continue to discover new ways to tailor our lives.
We hope you enjoy listening to this podcast as much as we enjoyed creating it for you.
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You Gotta Work for Me | 2020 recap part 4
How persistent should we be in our relationships? What’s the thin line between chasing someone and losing all self respect? Often we have better relationships with people in our heads and not in real life and cannot admit it to ourselves. And worst of all, some people love the way you make them feel more than they love you. On this next segment, Thulani and Darrol discuss mutually beneficial and one sided relationships.
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IG: @darrol_drabile
IG: @uthulani_
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Can We Really be Friends Though? | 2020 recap part 3
On this next episode the boys continue their reflections on 2020. The conversation goes into an discussion on whether people can be friends after a relationship doesn’t work out. They also discuss how to deal with rejection and how one may come to terms with it.
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Changes, it just didn’t do it for me | 2020 recap part 2
We all need a chance to grow as people and to try out new avenues. How often do we give others an opportunity to move on from who we know them to be or are we always pitting them against what our idea of them is? The boys discus albums that just didn’t do it for them in this next segment and also touch on why when certain artists move away from the sound we are used to it may make us feel a way. The episode then ends in the boys discussing their toxic relationship with Man United.
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IG: @darrol_drabile
IG: @uthulani_
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Shut up I’m almost finished | 2020 Recap part 1
Quick question, have you ever been in so deep you don’t want to pull out? Sometimes love and other things make you feel that way. It’s just so nice and comforting that you just want to be immersed deeply into the feelings
In the following episode the boys do a recap of Darrol and Thulani’s 2020 year in terms of the music the were listening to. They dive into the different themes that this music explored and even give their top albums for the year. Please feel free to share your favorite albums for the 2020 year with us, we would love to hear your pick.
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IG: @darrol_drabile
IG: @uthulani_
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This is going Pear Shaped | Adulting Finale
On this next episode the boys wrap up the Adulting series in some style. They touch on a variety of topics ranging from finance, relationships, toxicity and conflict resolution. Thank you for joining the Trench Effect(s) on this long and dense series, we trust that you gained some value from it.
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IG: @darrol_drabile
IG: @uthulani_
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Barriers of entry | Adulting part 9
On this next segment the boys continue their colorful conversation on expectations. They touch on what barriers of entry there may be to succeed in the workspaces and how what they experienced in the office was different to their expectations. They then round up with a discussion on what exactly it means to create a “natural” friendship with someone else.
Thank you for joining us on this particular segment of the Adulting Theme.
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IG: @darrol_drabile
IG: @uthulani_
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Customer Reviews
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Well done brothers! Proud of you both. Love the fact that men can be bold and courageous enough to share themselves with the world. Both men and women need this. From my perspective as a woman, sometimes it’s easy to forget that men feel and battle with insecurities and similar issues as we do.
I’d love to hear you guys to delve further into the topic of parental and societal pressure in love/dating relationships .
How has that played out in both of your lives?
What things have your parents said and how have you reacted to this especially in your dating relationships?
Darrol taps into the importance of personal development. I loved that. Please put us on to people that you follow and listen to with regards to personal development as part of your tips 😅
Love the wrap up- it’s very necessary.
I also love how Thulani also openly shares on getting into relationship with anyone at some point. A lot of us do this and we aren’t able to acknowledge this.
Both your characters work together because we get two completely opposite views on particular topics and I think we need that.
We need this vulnerability. The world needs this.
Looking forward to seeing you both evolve and journeying with you as you do so.
Here’s to you for launching a great platform
The dynamic between you two is wonderful and so infectious. You are yourselves and it reads very well. Well done, this is a strong start!
Wrap-up 👌🏽
I love the addition of a wrap-up feature covering key takeaway points. It almost perfectly summarizes the conversation(s) from the perspective of one or both hosts, while challenging the listener for his/her understanding