Trauma, Resilience, and Dealing with Complicated Feelings with Dr. Toya Clay How to be a Human Being in the World with Dr. Kathleen Young

This episode is a special treat for you as Kathleen invites her friend, Dr. Toya Clay, to join the conversation. Toya, a child and adolescent psychiatrist, opens up about her journey, being a single mother to a child on the autism spectrum with a rare variant called pathological demand avoidance. The two delve into their own experiences, discussing the influence of trauma on their career paths, personal lives, and the importance of understanding the complexities of human behavior. Throughout the episode, themes of trauma, resilience, and the intricate nature of relationships weave together, offering you a profound exploration of the human experience.
In a nutshell, they chat about:
- Toya's childhood experiences, including being a product of a sexually abusive relationship and navigating family dynamics.
- Accepting and navigating shame in relationships.
- The dual nature of individuals who may sacrifice for you but also pose potential harm.
- Challenges in processing and discussing difficult aspects of personal history.
- The complexities of forgiveness and the impact on relationships.
- The concept of repetition compulsion and its influence on romantic relationships.
- The intergenerational effects of trauma and the importance of acknowledging one's narrative.
- Parenting challenges and the impact of family history on children.
- The journey of self-discovery and finding hope amid complexity.
... and so much more!


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