Moving in & Money Parties with Sam Santos & Fiscal Femme | Ask a Matchmaker Podcast w Matchmaker Maria

In this week’s episode, Matchmaker Maria is joined by co-host Sam Santos and returning guest Ashley Feinstein Gerstley, a financial expert known as the Fiscal Femme, to discuss the crucial topic of finances in relationships  

Sam shares her personal experience of moving in with her boyfriend—how they navigate shared expenses, their approach to financial planning, and what it’s like transitioning from her own space to his family home. Ashley provides insightful tips on how to discuss money with your partner, align financial goals, and ensure both partners feel secure in their contributions.  

Maria also dives into the rules of cohabitation, the importance of clear communication about future commitments, and the value of unlearning financial habits from childhood. From splitting bills equitably to deciding who buys the better-quality garden hose, this episode is packed with relatable stories and actionable advice.  

Ashley dives into the concept of "money parties" — fun and productive budgeting sessions that remove stress and promote teamwork. She also emphasizes the importance of maintaining financial agency, such as having a "walk-away fund," and explains how to balance finances when incomes differ in a relationship.

Maria, Sam, and Ashley share personal stories about overcoming financial anxieties, turning past money trauma into positive action, and reframing financial planning as a collaborative, empowering process. Plus, Ashley offers actionable advice for managing budgets, avoiding resentment, and ensuring equality in financial decision-making.

Don’t miss Ashley’s tips, downloadable templates, and resources available on her site, along with her books The 30-Day Money Cleanse and Financial Adulting.

Follow Ashley on all social media @TheFiscalFemme and check out the links in the show notes. Be sure to also follow Sam at @MakeMeLaughSam for more fun updates!  Plus, Maria reminds listeners to *preorder her upcoming book* (available in May) to continue unlocking better dating and relationship opportunities!  

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