Queen City Poly

Coach Kay & Brian O'Neil
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Queen City Poly Podcast

Queen City Poly is a podcast dedicated to connecting real people with real solutions for their relationship goals. Focused on communication, consent, and autonomy, we discuss polyamory and ethical non-monogamy as well as broader topics concerning open relationships of all structures and configurations (polyamorous and otherwise). We also call on monogamous friends and special guests to share their views on love, sex, family, psychology, sociology, and other tangents that spark our curious minds. Based in Queen City (Charlotte, North Carolina). Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/queencitypoly/support

  1. Ep. 45 - Biphobia within Polyamory

    02/10/2019

    Ep. 45 - Biphobia within Polyamory

    On episode 45, Brian O'Neil and Coach Kay discuss polyamorous folx who have sexual orientation "preferences" for their partners, gender "preferences" for their potential metas, and the bi-phobia and bi-erasure that happens even within so-called, open-minded polyamorous communities.  Tune in to listen to us get real about this nonsense.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/queencitypoly/support

    28 min
  2. Ep. 44 - One Night Stands

    18/09/2019

    Ep. 44 - One Night Stands

    Brian O'Neil & Coach Kay discuss the general consensus among the polyamorous community (ha!) about one-night stands. They answer questions such as: Would you be upset if your partner had one and told you about it afterwards? Do you expect to be able to have one without any drama from your partner(s)? What even qualifies as a one night stand? Have you ever had one? Can you enjoy casual sex and/or one night stands within polyamorous relationships? --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/queencitypoly/support

    31 min
  3. Ep. 43 - Hierarchy

    11/09/2019

    Ep. 43 - Hierarchy

    On episode 43, Coach Kay and Brian O'Neil discuss prescriptive versus descriptive hierarchy, relationship anarchy, and a special form of hierarchy, SNEAKARCHY.  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/queencitypoly/support

    42 min
  4. Ep. 42 - Nesting Partners

    04/09/2019

    Ep. 42 - Nesting Partners

    In episode 42, Brian O’Neil and Coach Kay talk nesting partnerships and the assumptions that come having or not having partners who you cohabitate with. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/queencitypoly/support

    34 min
  5. Ep. 41 - PDA and Polyamory

    14/08/2019

    Ep. 41 - PDA and Polyamory

    You arrive to a bar and see your polyam partner in an embrace with a stranger. Their arms around this person's neck. This person's arms around your polyam partner’s waist. Just a couple of inches between their faces. Clearly they are in a flirtatious moment. The question is, is this acceptable because you are polyamorous? Check out Episode 41 - PDA and Polyamory to hear @iamcoachkay and @iambrianoneil discuss the nuances of flirting, showing affection, and dating when you have other partners that may have feelings seeing you doing any of these things in front of them. #polyamorous #charlotte #podcast #polyamory #nonmonogamy #communication #flirting #unconventionalrelationships #healthyrelationships #selfdevelopment #ethicalnonmonogamy #relationships #relationshipstatus #health #dating #loveislove #queencitypoly --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/queencitypoly/support

    42 min
  6. Ep. 40 - Communicating Non-Consent

    07/08/2019

    Ep. 40 - Communicating Non-Consent

    In episode 40, Brian O'Neil talks openly about being touched non-consensually following a recent standup gig after he talked about his polyamorous relationship style on stage. We sat down to talk about this experience as well as his experience sharing his story on Facebook.  Women are not immune to being the aggressor and perpetrator of sexual assault. Explicit, enthusiastic consent should be sought after throughout every interaction by the initiator of any and all sexual advances. But when that doesn’t happen, what can we do to communicate we do not consent in a way that feels comfortable in the moment?  #polyamorous #charlotte #podcast #consent #metoo #malesexualassault #standup #comedy #polyamory #nonmonogamy #communication #unconventionalrelationships #healthyrelationships #ethicalnonmonogamy #relationships #relationshipstatus #dating #loveislove #queencitypoly  --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/queencitypoly/support

    45 min
  7. Ep. 39 - New is No Excuse

    31/07/2019

    Ep. 39 - New is No Excuse

    In episode 39 of Queen City Poly, Brian O’Neil and Coach Kay discuss examples of “seasoned” polyamorous people accommodating newly polyamorous partners with rules and agreements that threaten their own autonomy and do not serve their or their new partners needs. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/queencitypoly/support

    47 min
  8. Ep. 38 - Polyamory Or My Marriage

    24/07/2019

    Ep. 38 - Polyamory Or My Marriage

    In Episode 38, Brian O’Neil and Coach Kay talk about Brian's internet friend who is exploring the idea of polyamory but does not know how to get through to her husband, who is not having any of it. But before they dive into responding to that difficult situation, they discuss the popular mantra, Growth Happens Outside Your Comfort Zone. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/queencitypoly/support

    39 min
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About

Queen City Poly is a podcast dedicated to connecting real people with real solutions for their relationship goals. Focused on communication, consent, and autonomy, we discuss polyamory and ethical non-monogamy as well as broader topics concerning open relationships of all structures and configurations (polyamorous and otherwise). We also call on monogamous friends and special guests to share their views on love, sex, family, psychology, sociology, and other tangents that spark our curious minds. Based in Queen City (Charlotte, North Carolina). Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/queencitypoly/support

Information

  • Creator
    Coach Kay & Brian O'Neil
  • Years Active
    2017 - 2019
  • Episodes
    45
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Coach Kay & Brian O'Neil
  • Show Website
    Queen City Poly

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