Find Your Voice

Aren Deu
Find Your Voice

An empowering movement to help you combat your excuses, take control of your life, write your own story & most importantly Find Your Voice. Whatever your current situation is telling you, it is not the end. It is just a chapter or page in the book of your life. This podcast will interview people from all walks of life who have faced, adversity, anxiety, grief, death, depression, family loss etc but have found a way to persevere and win. They have found their voice & have now started to write their own story. It will also demonstrate to you that with the right mindset and correct action you too can really start taking control of your life and finding your way in life, at whatever it is that makes you happy. Finding your voice is about showcasing your true self and making decisions for you, not to please others. It is a metaphor for finding your purpose in life and taking full responsibility and accountability for your future. It's always been a goal to change the world, but I can't do this alone. I need your help. Join the movement and let’s share our stories to not only find our own voices, but to help others too. PLEASE CHECK OUT OUR NEW SPONSOR HEALTHXCEL: https://www.healthxcel.co.uk and use code: FYV10 for 10% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

  1. 10/02/2021

    The Spotlight Effect is ruining your chances of happiness

    The Spotlight effect - The spotlight effect is the phenomenon in which people tend to believe they are being noticed more than they really are. Being that one is constantly in the center of one's own world, an accurate evaluation of how much one is noticed by others is uncommon. The reason for the spotlight effect is the innate tendency to forget that although one is the center of one's own world, one is not the center of everyone else's. This tendency is especially prominent when one does something atypical. Show sponsor (Use Code FYV10 for 10% off): https://www.healthxcel.co.uk Joe Dispenza Book: https://amzn.to/3dCArR0 Episode on Perfectionism: https://shows.acast.com/findyourvoice Episode on forgiveness: https://youtu.be/Rq1oDkLYpqk Books to buy: Buy Outwitting the Devil: https://amzn.to/3c97pGq Buy Principles: https://amzn.to/2ZOk1js Buy How to stop worrying & start living: https://amzn.to/3esi4h4 Buy The 4 hour work week: https://amzn.to/3cuAwnZ Buy Essentialism: https://amzn.to/2xHUTiL Buy Mindset by Carol Dweck https://amzn.to/2QajMvZ Support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoice Podcast equipment recommended: Rodecaster Pro: https://amzn.to/2M36Lj5 Rode podmic: https://amzn.to/36yfYcy Rode NT-USB - https://amzn.to/2X7LsDp Cameras: Sony DSCHX90 Digital - https://amzn.to/2TCAfID Canon Powershot SX730 HS - https://amzn.to/2yQkbs6 Canon EOS 4000D DSLR Camera and EF-S 18-55 mm f/3.5-5.6 III Lens - https://amzn.to/2WYtWkT Nikon D5300 - https://amzn.to/3c825mN Logitech BRIO 4K webcam - https://amzn.to/3enEuA1 Sony a6500 mirrorless - https://amzn.to/2ZAOJfW Podcast host (acast): Acast: https://open.acast.com/invite/r/arendeu Links to me: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/theanxiousinvestor Website: https://www.healthxcel.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/findyourvoicepodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singh Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribe Transcript: welcome to an episode of find your voice a movement led by yours truly Aaron do a guy who was overcome crippling anxiety adversity and difficulty like so many of you in life whose main goal now is to help you combat your excuses take control of your life write your own story and most importantly find your voice so now without further ado I welcome the host of the show himself Mr Aaron do what's going on a run thank you so so much for tuning in to another episode of finding your voice my name is iron and as always I am the host of the show so today I just want a few minutes of your time just to speak about something that I think is really really important and something that I actually do not it was a natural name for it maybe you don't know either and I think hopefully at least I hope and my fingers are crossed that the end of the next few minutes you're gonna know something that will hopefully change the trajectory of at least twenty twenty one but definitely your life what I want to speak about is the spot light effect now this is a term that's used by social psychologists to refer to the tendency that we won't have to over estimate how much other people notice about us in other words yes we tend to think there was a spotlight on us at all times highlighted all of our mistakes and floors for the world to see now if you happens I eat %HESITATION you over thank then the spotlight effect definitely pays as part of your day and it certainly paid his paw throughout many years of my own life so I'm telling you this well for a few reasons actually the first is that how do I always believe that the spotlight if it was true for myself and that seven billion people in the world we're constantly looking at me wait for me to make mistakes wait for me to start a way for me to say the wrong way it's for example there probably would've got started or anything one thing I hope for well the past lists there's a current listeners and hopefully future listeners as well you may stumble acr

    5 min
  2. 02/02/2021

    From witnessing his fathers murder to building his own legacy Sirtaj Rahman shares his incredible story

    PLEASE CHECK OUT OUR NEW SPONSOR! https://www.healthxcel.co.uk - Use Code FYV10 for 10% off "Never look back" By Sirtaj Rahman A husband, a father and a professional athlete who shines his bright across his followers with his humour, candour, empathy and transparency, Sirtaj Rahman is a someone out there building his own legacy. Riddled with adversity growing up through the loss of his father which he witnessed as a ten-year-old child. Using the lessons he had learnt from his father and mother who raised him and his family, Sirtaj spends each moment trying to live without regrets and ensure his legacy is one not only would his father have been proud of, but also one that will be spoken of for many years to come. I urge you all to follow his journey as he is growing in influence and I hope you all have the best year ahead! It feels great to be back! Links to me: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/findyourvoicepodcast Website: https://www.healthxcel.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/findyourvoicepodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singh Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribe Show sponsor (Use Code FYV10 for 10% off): https://www.healthxcel.co.uk Links to Sirtaj: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sirtajrahman83/?hl=en TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@sirtajrahman07?source=h5_m YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCK8hkwQTQnEvHpsCseHmIhw? Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    44 min
  3. 25/11/2020

    How to write your own story with Bhavik Patel

    Show sponsor (Use Code FYV10 for 10% off): https://www.healthxcel.co.uk "Thinking it real" By Bhavik Patel A fascinating conversation from someone who has now started to find his way in life, or should I say found his voice. Recognising he has always been, and still is in control of his own destiny Bhavik has made bold decisions across his life to pivot towards a life he truly wants. A life worth living and one he can be proud of, and I personally couldn't be happier to see him in such a happier place than he once was. Very honest in his ups and downs, Bhavik has hit the lows, to now completely having a different perspective and outcome on what it truly means to be living a fulfilled life and one that is successful in his own mind. I am so confident this will resonate with the majority of you listening today, because sometimes we have to truly sit with ourselves and understand what makes us tick and what we truly want to get out of this world. Please follow him in the links below and show your support and more importantly, start today to write your own story and live life on your own terms. Useful timestamps: 03:00 Bhaviks 1st entrepreneurial start with £500 14:25 Tips to start a business today 26:00 Entrepreneur life realities 34:55 Broken part of his life 47:50 Don't have an opinion about things 58:40 Words of wisdom to a younger self Links to me: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/findyourvoicepodcast Website: https://www.healthxcel.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/findyourvoicepodcast/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singh Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribe Show sponsor (Use Code FYV10 for 10% off): https://www.healthxcel.co.uk Links to Bhavik: LinkedIN: https://www.linkedin.com/in/bhavik-patel-7866251b/ Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/bigger-than-the-hustle/id1515089244 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 11m
  4. 07/11/2020

    5 Ways to Avoid Panic Attacks #123

    5 Ways to Avoid Panic Attacks TRANSCRIPT FROM SHOW: So for anyone listening in the UK we are now undergoing a second lockdown, one which I know will have adverse effects on peoples mental and physical wellbeing, but sadly we are unable to do change the situation we are in.  Therefore, it is essential we all try to at least make the best of the situation and I sincerely hope you all come out of this lockdown, whenever that may be happier, more fulfilled and most importantly healthier too. Now of course that may seem a stretch, but I am certain we can use this time to reflect, heal or even just active with walks and runs to really allow ourselves to realign and focus for hopefully a nice Christmas or a much better 2021. But anyways, I thought I would do some solo episodes over this period for which I hope you will find value from. And todays episode will be around Panic Attacks. The term panic attack has been getting misused a LOT recently. People tend to use it loosely — but a panic attack is a very specific kind of experience. This is when you suddenly feel an overwhelming amount of stress. It may come from the mind, but it can cause intense physical reactions such as chills or hot flashes, nausea, numbness, shakes, dizziness or in the worst of cases, a temporary loss of consciousness. Full Video version: https://youtu.be/0XMl3gZGC84 Frequent panic attacks can become a hindrance in your daily life. But there are ways to control them, too. Here are 5 ways To Prevent Panic Attacks: 1. Deep breaths Breathing is the way our bodies get oxygen. When you’re starting to get anxious, one of the first things that happen is that your breathing gets irregular, shorter, even if you don’t realise it. This limits the amount of oxygen that makes it to your brain — triggering a stress response that can fling you into a panic attack. When you begin to feel anxious, the first thing you should do is do some breathing exercises. This is one that doesn’t require remembering anything, you just need to listen to your body, Breathe in slowly through your nose, until you take a full belly breath. Breathe out just as slowly through your mouth, You’ll feel tingles in your chest and ears, that’s the anxiety leaving with each breath. Repeat until you feel better (it can take a few minutes, keep at it, you’ll get there) 2. Catch it early on It’s easier to stop a panic attack at it’s earlier stages. If you’ve struggled with anxiety and panic attacks for a while, chances are you know the early signs of one. These signs are different for everybody. Some experience an irregular heart rate as their first sign, some have trouble breathing, others experience dizziness that slowly gets worse until they pass out. If you can figure out where your panic attack begins, you can immediately jump into breathing exercises and calm yourself down before it gets to an actual panic attack. With time, you can learn how to avoid them before the first signs even show up! 3. Close your eyes If you’re in a very busy environment with too much going on, the stimulation from the environment can make your panic attack come on a lot faster. Since this is usually in public places you can’t exactly resort to someplace that feels safe like your bedroom, the next best thing is to close your eyes and take yourself “out” of the environment. Then, you’re only dealing with the noise, inside and outside of your head. Here, you revert back to simple breathing exercises, slowly relax your shoulder, unclench your hands and try to make your mind and body relax. Try to envision the anxiety travelling from your mind, down through your shoulder, making its way out of your body through your feet. This will stop a panic attack right in its tracks. 4. Go to your happy place Panic attacks can be brought on by a lot of things. Often, it’s because you just have too many things in your mind. When you feel overwhelmed to the point that you can feel your thoughts getting

    8 min
  5. 02/11/2020

    Living with Aspergers & cerebral palsy - An unfiltered mind #122

    Telling people to choose themselves and be themselves in a world that often has our attention diverted whilst indirectly persuading us to conform, is tough. But for Daniel, he is blessed with an unfiltered mind to live life on his own terms. Well and truly, Daniel has found his own voice and also writes his only story every single day, without any concerns about the opinions of others. This conversation was also incredibly insightful due to Daniel, openly speaking about his lowered levels of empathy and the way he views and sees the world. His genuine happiness in how he lives for the days and moments is a gift for us all to take note off, regardless of whether it is down to him living with aspergers. A fascinating mind and one which hopefully helps give you all the perspective of life through someone elses eyes. PLEASE CHECK OUT OUR NEW SPONSOR: http://bit.ly/HealthXcel I urge you to follow his journey and I thank you once more for tuning in:) Joe Dispenza Book: https://amzn.to/3dCArR0 Episode on Perfectionism: https://shows.acast.com/findyourvoice Episode on forgiveness: https://youtu.be/Rq1oDkLYpqk Books to buy: Buy Outwitting the Devil: https://amzn.to/3c97pGq Buy Principles: https://amzn.to/2ZOk1js Buy How to stop worrying & start living: https://amzn.to/3esi4h4 Buy The 4 hour work week: https://amzn.to/3cuAwnZ Buy Essentialism: https://amzn.to/2xHUTiL Buy Mindset by Carol Dweck https://amzn.to/2QajMvZ Support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoice Podcast equipment recommended: Rodecaster Pro: https://amzn.to/2M36Lj5 Rode podmic: https://amzn.to/36yfYcy Rode NT-USB - https://amzn.to/2X7LsDp Cameras: Sony DSCHX90 Digital - https://amzn.to/2TCAfID Canon Powershot SX730 HS - https://amzn.to/2yQkbs6 Canon EOS 4000D DSLR Camera and EF-S 18-55 mm f/3.5-5.6 III Lens - https://amzn.to/2WYtWkT Nikon D5300 - https://amzn.to/3c825mN Logitech BRIO 4K webcam - https://amzn.to/3enEuA1 Sony a6500 mirrorless - https://amzn.to/2ZAOJfW Podcast host (acast): Acast: https://open.acast.com/invite/r/arendeu Links to me: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/findyourvoicepodcast Website: https://www.arendeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singh LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-... Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribe Links to guest: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/daniel.laing.503 The video to this will be out here soon: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbLhwrC1mwkMzOM2XyMIpEQr A channel I need to invest some time into, to share the visuals of such powerful stories. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 12m
  6. 19/10/2020

    How to Overcome the Adversities of Murder, Loss, Sexual Abuse & Lifelong Trauma

    "Our stories our powerful. Our stories matter. Our stories need to be heard." Diana Carolina Munera Gallo bravely shares one of the most remarkable stories, we have been able to record for Find Your Voice. As she is a good friend, I had to record this a second time, as the first time personally had me in tears and left me in an over emotional state. Having seen the tragic loss of her mother, the murder of her sister, the sexual abuse of her niece and so much more toxicity across her life, Diana could have thrown the towel in, or turned bitter towards the world. Yet remarkably, she stands here today, full of love, gratitude, hope and kindness, a message not just through her words, but her actions she hopes trickles down into the rest of the world around her. This is one of the most infectious, beautiful souls I have been so grateful to have connected with on Find Your Voice and I hope her lessons, allow you to change your own perspectives and also help you, dream and hope, in the midst of the adversities life will throw your way. PLEASE CHECK OUT OUR NEW SPONSOR: http://bit.ly/HealthXcel I urge you to follow her journey and I thank you once more for tuning in:) Joe Dispenza Book: https://amzn.to/3dCArR0 Episode on Perfectionism: https://shows.acast.com/findyourvoice Episode on forgiveness: https://youtu.be/Rq1oDkLYpqk Books to buy: Buy Outwitting the Devil: https://amzn.to/3c97pGq Buy Principles: https://amzn.to/2ZOk1js Buy How to stop worrying & start living: https://amzn.to/3esi4h4 Buy The 4 hour work week: https://amzn.to/3cuAwnZ Buy Essentialism: https://amzn.to/2xHUTiL Buy Mindset by Carol Dweck https://amzn.to/2QajMvZ Support the podcast: https://www.patreon.com/findyourvoice Podcast equipment recommended: Rodecaster Pro: https://amzn.to/2M36Lj5 Rode podmic: https://amzn.to/36yfYcy Rode NT-USB - https://amzn.to/2X7LsDp Cameras: Sony DSCHX90 Digital - https://amzn.to/2TCAfID Canon Powershot SX730 HS - https://amzn.to/2yQkbs6 Canon EOS 4000D DSLR Camera and EF-S 18-55 mm f/3.5-5.6 III Lens - https://amzn.to/2WYtWkT Nikon D5300 - https://amzn.to/3c825mN Logitech BRIO 4K webcam - https://amzn.to/3enEuA1 Sony a6500 mirrorless - https://amzn.to/2ZAOJfW Podcast host (acast): Acast: https://open.acast.com/invite/r/arendeu Links to me: YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/findyourvoicepodcast Website: https://www.arendeu.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/aren.deu/ Twitter: https://twitter.com/arendeu Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/aren.singh LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/aren-deu-... Podcast: https://www.findyourvoicepodcast.com/subscribe Links to guest: Instagram: https://instagram.com/freesoulbeachlover Instagram: https://instagram.com/nuqui_jewellery Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/diana.c.gallo.3 The video to this will be out here soon: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCbLhwrC1mwkMzOM2XyMIpEQr A channel I need to invest some time into, to share the visuals of such powerful stories. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 16m

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An empowering movement to help you combat your excuses, take control of your life, write your own story & most importantly Find Your Voice. Whatever your current situation is telling you, it is not the end. It is just a chapter or page in the book of your life. This podcast will interview people from all walks of life who have faced, adversity, anxiety, grief, death, depression, family loss etc but have found a way to persevere and win. They have found their voice & have now started to write their own story. It will also demonstrate to you that with the right mindset and correct action you too can really start taking control of your life and finding your way in life, at whatever it is that makes you happy. Finding your voice is about showcasing your true self and making decisions for you, not to please others. It is a metaphor for finding your purpose in life and taking full responsibility and accountability for your future. It's always been a goal to change the world, but I can't do this alone. I need your help. Join the movement and let’s share our stories to not only find our own voices, but to help others too. PLEASE CHECK OUT OUR NEW SPONSOR HEALTHXCEL: https://www.healthxcel.co.uk and use code: FYV10 for 10% off Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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