Give It To Me Bi

Chad Barnier, Steve Spencer
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Give It To Me Bi

Give It To Me Bi is a podcast that amplifies the voices and experiences of the bi+ community. Hosted by Chad Barnier and Steve Spencer, this podcast dives deep into the unique challenges, joys, and nuances of bisexuality and bi+ identities in today's world. Each episode offers thought-provoking discussions, personal stories, and expert insights, all with the goal of fostering understanding, inclusivity, and celebration of the bi+ spectrum. Whether you identify as bisexual, pansexual, fluid, or any other non-monosexual identity, or you're an ally looking to learn more, Give It To Me Bi is your space to feel seen, heard, and empowered. Expect a mix of candid conversations, historical context, and topical discussions that connect bi+ experiences to the broader LGBTQ+ movement. Join us every week as we explore what it means to live authentically in a world that often misunderstands or overlooks bisexuality. Subscribe now to become part of a community that’s all about visibility, inclusion, and celebrating the full spectrum of bi+ identities. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Episodes

  1. Where Are All the Bi Men?

    6 DAYS AGO

    Where Are All the Bi Men?

    In Episode 10, we take on a question that’s been floating around for ages: “Where are all the bi men?” We dive deep into the unique challenges that bi men face, from societal expectations to internalised fears. We’re talking about everything—how masculinity and patriarchal norms have shaped our understanding of bisexuality, the stigma within both queer and straight communities, and the mental health impacts of staying closeted. You’ll hear personal stories, the ups and downs of being out, and some heartfelt advice for anyone struggling to accept their own bi identity. We also celebrate our recent partnership with Star Observer! This episode has something for everyone, whether you're out, questioning, or just curious. Resources & Links: The Elixir Effect: Book Launch Chad will be MC’ing the launch of The Elixir Effect, a story about identity, masculinity, and family. Join us for this exclusive event to meet the author, Peter Matthews, hear excerpts, and get a signed copy. 📅 Wednesday, 6 Nov, 5:50 pm - 8 pm AEDT📍 Pullman Sydney Hyde Park, Darlinghurst, AustraliaRegister Here Facebook Group Join our community on Facebook, share your experiences, and stay connected with other bi+ folks and allies. Join Here How to Support Someone Who’s Just Come Out as Bisexual We know coming out is a big deal, so we’ve put together this guide for allies who want to offer meaningful support. Read the Guide Give It To Me Bi: WebsiteTikTokInstagram Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    58 min
  2. Spilling the Tea: Your Questions, Our Honest Answers

    28 OCT

    Spilling the Tea: Your Questions, Our Honest Answers

    Chad and Steve dive headfirst into all of your burning questions and nothing’s off-limits!! From heartfelt insights into coming out, to the complexities of bi+ relationships–we’ve got stories about personal growth, awkward moments, and how we make sense of being bi+ in today’s world. You’ll hear candid reflections on identity, practical advice for navigating relationships, and maybe a few confessions from our younger years. Whether you’re figuring it all out or feeling comfortable in your identity, there’s something here for everyone. Plus, we couldn't resist sharing some music recommendations—tunes that have been our vibe lately (check out the playlists below!). Spotify Playlists: Cunty Chappel Roan Summer: Listen HereNancy Myers Kitchen Mix: Listen HereBimlow - Jessica Bellef: Listen Here Additional Resources: BISHH Study: Participate HereGITMB Website: Explore HereHow to Support Someone Who's Just Come Out as Bisexual: Read the Guide Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 19m
  3. The Truth About Pegging No One Talks About

    21 OCT

    The Truth About Pegging No One Talks About

    Curious about pegging but unsure where to start? In this episode, we pull back the curtain on everything you’ve ever wanted to know about pegging—from the practical, to the taboo, to the emotional. Whether you're new to the concept or an experienced enthusiast, our experts break down the myths, provide useful tips for first-timers, and dive into the personal and social dynamics that make pegging a unique and powerful experience. You’ll hear from Steve and Britt as they share insights from their pegging workshops, discuss how to introduce pegging into your relationship, and why it has nothing to do with gender or sexuality. Plus, we tackle the often-avoided subject of douching, discuss consent, and offer some expert advice on how to make your experience safe, fun, and shame-free. Resources & Links: "TGA: Don't Ban Poppers!" – Steve’s Change.org petition"‘It’s a war on bottoms’: poppers may soon be banned in Australia pending a TGA decision" – Steve in Star Observer RE Poppers Ban"The Australian Government Wants to Ban Poppers" – Steve in VICE RE Poppers Ban"Should amyl be banned? The TGA wants you to have your say" – triple j Hack Poppers infoSteve’s favourite pegging song 🎶 More from Give It To Me Bi: WebsiteSupporting Someone Coming OutCommunity Page Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 25m
  4. Coming Out as Bisexual in 2024

    14 OCT

    Coming Out as Bisexual in 2024

    Hey everyone! In this episode, we (Chad and Steve) dive into the topic of coming out as bisexual. We talk about the different ways people experience coming out, how it's evolving into more of an "inviting in" process for some, and the unique challenges that bi people face compared to our gay and lesbian siblings. We share stories of personal growth, community support, and the cultural shifts happening around bisexuality. Plus, we give you the inside scoop on the Buy Rainbow event we're co-hosting and discuss how visibility for the bi community is changing, both online and offline. Hope you enjoy! Highlights The shift from "coming out" to "inviting in"Personal stories about our own coming out journeysUnique challenges bisexual individuals face compared to their gay and lesbian counterparts.The role of community support in embracing and celebrating bisexual identities.Steve may or may not have sent an 'interesting' picture to the wrong person Connect with Us: Join our private Give It To Me Bi Facebook Group for deeper discussions and community support Stay Connected: Follow us on TikTok and InstagramSubscribe to our email newsletter for updatesJoin our Facebook Group for more community fun Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 11m
  5. Exploring Bisexual Relationships & Research

    7 OCT

    Exploring Bisexual Relationships & Research

    Join us in this enlightening episode as we chat with Professor Christy Newman, a leading researcher from UNSW. We delve into the groundbreaking Bisexual+ Sexual Health and HIV (BISHH Study) that's opening new avenues for understanding. Christy shares insights on how research can shape real-world change and dives deep into the dynamics of bi+ relationships. From dating tips to partner support, and exploring bisexuality in monogamous relationships, we cover it all. Highlights: The groundbreaking BISHH Study and how you can participateHow research insights transform into real-world changesNavigating bi+ relationships: dating, partner support, and more Resources: BISHH Study ParticipationBisexuality Book by Julia Shaw | AmazonBisexual Men Exist by Vaneet MehtaProfessor Christy Newman's ProfileGallup Poll - 'LGBTQ+ Identification in U.S. Now at 7.6%'Will & Harper Trailer Connect with Us: Join our private Give It To Me Bi Facebook Group for deeper discussions and community support Stay Connected: Follow us on TikTok and InstagramSubscribe to our email newsletter for updatesJoin our Facebook Group for more community fun Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 22m
  6. Debunking Bisexual Myths and Stereotypes

    30 SEPT

    Debunking Bisexual Myths and Stereotypes

    In this episode of Give It To Me Bi, we’re tackling one of the biggest challenges bisexual folks face—those pesky myths and stereotypes. Whether it’s the tired accusation of “confusion,” the hypersexualisation, or the constant assumptions about monogamy, we’re here to break it all down. We’ve both faced these myths in our own lives, and we know how damaging they can be. So, we’re sharing personal stories, using a bit of humour, and offering practical, empowering ways to respond when these stereotypes come up. If you’ve ever struggled with how to answer someone who just doesn’t get it—or if you’ve heard one too many myths yourself—this episode is for you. Let’s dive in, debunk these myths together, and show the world what it really means to be bi. Connect with Us: Join our private Give It To Me Bi Facebook Group for deeper discussions and community support Stay Connected: Follow us on TikTok and InstagramSubscribe to our email newsletter for updatesJoin our Facebook Group for more community fun Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 35m
  7. Bisexual Community Organising and Bi+ Visibility

    23 SEPT

    Bisexual Community Organising and Bi+ Visibility

    In this episode, Chad and Steve are joined by their first guest, Amber Loomis (they/them), the driving force behind the Sydney Bi+ Network (SBN). Amber shares their journey in community organising, highlighting how SBN became a vital space for Bi+ visibility and connection. The trio dives into the challenges of running a community organisation, touching on burnout, resource limitations, and the importance of values-driven leadership. They also discuss the power of creating spaces where Bi+ people feel seen, supported, and celebrated. Join them for an inspiring conversation about the impact of grassroots advocacy and the role of love and community in sustaining long-term organising efforts. Connect with Us: Join our private Give It To Me Bi Facebook Group for deeper discussions and community support Stay Connected: Follow us on TikTok and InstagramSubscribe to our email newsletter for updatesJoin our Facebook Group for more community fun Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 27m
  8. Bisexual Visibility and Generational Shifts

    16 SEPT

    Bisexual Visibility and Generational Shifts

    In this episode, Chad and Steve explore the topic of bisexual visibility and how it has evolved across generations. They discuss personal experiences and reflect on data from the latest Gallup polls, revealing a significant increase in bisexual identification among Gen Z compared to previous generations. The hosts share insights on the challenges bisexual men face in coming out and the disparities in visibility between bisexual men and women. They also touch on the importance of counting bisexual individuals for funding and resources, and how The Mummy played a role in Steve's bisexual awakening (I mean, same). Connect with Us: Join our private Give It To Me Bi Facebook Group for deeper discussions and community support Stay Connected: Follow us on TikTok and InstagramSubscribe to our email newsletter for updatesJoin our Facebook Group for more community fun Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1h 19m
  9. Bisexual Activism and Advocacy in the Bi+ Community

    9 SEPT

    Bisexual Activism and Advocacy in the Bi+ Community

    In this episode, Chad and Steve dive into the crucial topic of activism and advocacy within the Bi+ community. They share personal stories about how advocacy has shaped their lives and discuss the importance of being visible advocates. The episode also honours key historical and contemporary Bi+ activists, such as Brenda Howard and Sylvia Rivera, while exploring the future of Bi+ advocacy in the digital age. The hosts emphasise the significance of connecting with others, both online and offline, to create meaningful change. Connect with Us: Join our private Give It To Me Bi Facebook Group for deeper discussions and community support Stay Connected: Follow us on TikTok and InstagramSubscribe to our email newsletter for updatesJoin our Facebook Group for more community fun Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1 hr
  10. Bisexual Pride: A Celebration and History of Bisexual Visibility

    9 SEPT

    Bisexual Pride: A Celebration and History of Bisexual Visibility

    In our inaugural episode of Give It To Me Bi, hosts Chad and Steve dive into the heart of Pride and what it means for the Bi+ community. We discuss the rich history of Pride, from its roots in the Stonewall Riots to the pivotal role of bisexual activist Brenda Howard. Join us as we explore the challenges and triumphs of the Bi+ community, share personal stories, and celebrate the importance of visibility. Whether you're Bi+, an ally, or simply curious, this episode offers a candid and insightful look at what Pride means to us all. Connect with Us: Join our private Give It To Me Bi Facebook Group for deeper discussions and community support Stay Connected: Follow us on TikTok and InstagramSubscribe to our email newsletter for updatesJoin our Facebook Group for more community fun Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    54 min
  11. Give It To Me Bi Trailer

    3 SEPT

    Give It To Me Bi Trailer

    Welcome to Give It To Me Bi, the podcast that dives deep into the rich and complex experiences of the Bi+ community—creating a space where Bi+ individuals and allies can explore identity, history, and advocacy. Expect candid conversations, expert interviews, and personal stories that aim to challenge stereotypes and celebrate the diversity within the Bi+ community. Whether you're Bi+, questioning, or an ally, this podcast is your go-to resource for thoughtful, engaging, and humorous discussions on what it means to live and thrive as a Bi+ individual in today's world. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    1 min

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About

Give It To Me Bi is a podcast that amplifies the voices and experiences of the bi+ community. Hosted by Chad Barnier and Steve Spencer, this podcast dives deep into the unique challenges, joys, and nuances of bisexuality and bi+ identities in today's world. Each episode offers thought-provoking discussions, personal stories, and expert insights, all with the goal of fostering understanding, inclusivity, and celebration of the bi+ spectrum. Whether you identify as bisexual, pansexual, fluid, or any other non-monosexual identity, or you're an ally looking to learn more, Give It To Me Bi is your space to feel seen, heard, and empowered. Expect a mix of candid conversations, historical context, and topical discussions that connect bi+ experiences to the broader LGBTQ+ movement. Join us every week as we explore what it means to live authentically in a world that often misunderstands or overlooks bisexuality. Subscribe now to become part of a community that’s all about visibility, inclusion, and celebrating the full spectrum of bi+ identities. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

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  • Creator
    Chad Barnier, Steve Spencer
  • Years Active
    2K
  • Episodes
    11
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © Chad Barnier, Steve Spencer
  • Show Website
    Give It To Me Bi

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