Sensual Elevations

Lou Hargrove
Sensual Elevations

Sensual Elevations (previously Red Butterfly Chronicles) is a podcast that explores the many aspects of self-intimacy and sensuality. Hosted by self-intimacy coach Lou Hargrove, the podcast delves into topics such as personal connection, self-acceptance, love and relationships. Whether you're looking to deepen your connection with yourself or to explore new ways of experiencing pleasure and intimacy, "Sensual Elevations” offers insights and guidance to help you on your journey.

  1. 31 JAN

    Episode 16: Effectively Communicating Your Desires and Needs to Your Partner

    Summary In this episode, host Lou Hargrove discusses the importance of communicating desires and pleasures with your partner. Lou emphasizes the need to first understand and articulate your own desires before expecting others to fulfill them. The conversation explores the thin line between assertion and aggression in communication and the importance of creating a safe space for open dialogue. Building intimacy and trust, having hard conversations, and using 'I' statements and feedback are also discussed. The episode concludes with the reminder to recognize when something needs to change and the importance of understanding your own pleasures and desires. Takeaways Before communicating desires, it is crucial to know and articulate your own desires and pleasures. Communication should be assertive, not aggressive, in order to maintain a healthy relationship. Creating a safe space for open communication is essential for building intimacy and trust. Using 'I' statements and giving feedback can enhance communication and understanding in a relationship. Recognizing when something needs to change and understanding your own pleasures and desires are important for personal growth. Chapters 00:00 Introduction: Communicating Desires and Pleasures 00:56 Knowing Your Desires and Pleasures 03:19 Communication: Assertion vs Aggression 04:41 Creating a Safe Space for Communication 06:35 Building Intimacy and Trust 08:02 Having Hard Conversations 10:13 Using 'I' Statements and Giving Feedback 11:33 Recognizing When Something Needs to Change 12:24 Understanding Your Pleasures and Desires 12:54 Conclusion   Listen On  Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Google Podcast   Social Media  Sensual Elevations Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sensualelevations Lou Hargrove Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/louhargrove Red Butterfly Sanctuary Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/redbutterflysanctuary   Website https://rbsanctuary.com

    13 min
  2. 17 JAN

    Episode 15: Embracing Self-Reflection: Discover Your True Self

    Summary In this episode, host Lou Hargrove discusses the importance of self-reflection and its role in building an intimate relationship with oneself. Self-reflection is a practice that helps individuals understand who they are, what brings them joy, and what hinders their personal growth. Lou emphasizes that self-reflection should be a daily practice rather than a once-a-year event. She explores various methods of self-reflection, including journaling, meditation, and taking walks. Lou also highlights the connection between self-reflection, understanding belief systems, toxic relationship patterns, and overcoming limiting beliefs. She encourages listeners to seek professional support if needed and provides prompts for self-reflection, starting with gratitude and growth. The episode concludes with a reminder to prioritize self-care and build a strong foundation of self-love. Takeaways Self-reflection is a daily practice that helps individuals understand themselves and build an intimate relationship with themselves. Methods of self-reflection include journaling, meditation, and taking walks in nature. Self-reflection helps individuals understand their belief systems and toxic relationship patterns and overcome limiting beliefs. Seeking professional support is essential for deeper self-reflection and addressing unresolved traumas or challenges. Prompts for self-reflection can include gratitude and reflecting on personal growth. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Importance of Self-Reflection 03:29 Methods of Self-Reflection: Journaling, Meditation, and Taking Walks 09:59 Self-Reflection and Understanding Belief Systems 11:55 Self-Reflection and Toxic Relationship Patterns 13:35 Self-Reflection and Overcoming Limiting Beliefs 16:16 Self-Reflection as a Getting to Know Yourself Practice 17:22 Seeking Professional Support for Self-Reflection 19:07 Prompts for Self-Reflection: Gratitude and Growth 20:21 Closing Remarks and Future Plans

    19 min

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Sensual Elevations (previously Red Butterfly Chronicles) is a podcast that explores the many aspects of self-intimacy and sensuality. Hosted by self-intimacy coach Lou Hargrove, the podcast delves into topics such as personal connection, self-acceptance, love and relationships. Whether you're looking to deepen your connection with yourself or to explore new ways of experiencing pleasure and intimacy, "Sensual Elevations” offers insights and guidance to help you on your journey.

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