The Peaches Podcast Tori & Bec - Peaches Pilates

We are so honored to welcome the final guest for season 4 of the Peaches Podcast - CEO at Domestic Violence NSW - Delia Donovan. In this episode, we sit down to discuss the alarmingly prevalent issue of coercive control and men's violence against women in Australia. Yes, we're no longer sugar coating it with labels like family violence or domestic violence. We're calling it what it is. Statistics tell us that every week, a woman is murdered by a man in Australia. The numbers are terrifying, and if a human being was killed weekly in our country by any other mode - say terrorism, a shark attack, a fucking faulty iphone that explodes - whatever, the country would be in complete uproar. Yet still, we as a society seem to struggle to address this issue without wanting to bury our heads in the sand, change the subject or not bother those around you with ‘heavy’ subjects of conversation. But we've had enough of that b******t, and Tori wanted to facilitate a conversation about it within the Peaches networks.TW - this episode discusses violence and coercive control. Please utilise the below support offerings should you need them.

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OUR LOVELY GUEST: Delia Donovan

RESOURCES
1800RESPECT
Nationwide
PHONE: 1800 737 732WEBSITE: 1800respect.org.au
24/7 National counselling helpline, information and support.
 
DOMESTIC VIOLENCE LINE
Nationwide
PHONE: 1800 656 463WEBSITE: facs.nsw.gov.au/domestic-violence
24/7 Domestic Violence helpline for information, support and referrals to services near you.
 
MEN'S REFERRAL SERVICE
1300 766 491
https://ntv.org.au/mrs/

Juliet is a global leading sexologist and mentor - empowering men and women to embrace their sexuality & transform their sex and relationships. She is well-known for her bold, straight-to-the-point manner and for authentically sharing her own experience as a lover of all things sex, sensuality and business leadership. This podcast ep has been a long time in the makings - and we are so excited to take a deep dive into the intimate, complicated and ever evolving world that is sex and relationships.
Today we are talking about WHEN YOUR RELATIONSHIP NEEDS WERK. From growing apart to losing intimacy, the concept of a 'set and forget' relationship to pent up frustrations that are getting out of hand... We know a lot of our listeners are going to be able to resonate with this subject - so much so that Tori sourced half of her questions for Juliet from our insta audience.

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OUR LOVELY GUEST: ⁠⁠⁠⁠@juliet_allen
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Betsy Westcott is a financial Coach, Personal Finance Commentator and Executive, who believes everyone - but particularly women, deserves to live a financially free and secure life. Today we are here to talk (mainly) about money. From the gender wealth gap to privilege and background, financial abuse to financial wellbeing.... this episode is all about how we can better our relationship with money, so that it can enable us to live the lives we truly desire. It shouldn’t be a dirty word, and women shouldn’t shy away from the subject. Even in 2023, we’re still seeing women leaving the business of personal finances to their male counterparts in relationships - let's be a part of the change!
TW: this episode discusses pregnancy loss and miscarriage. Please use the resources below should you need help.
Good Mourning Podcast - Grief after miscarriageSaying goodbye meditationPink Elephant

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You might have heard the name Maz Compton over the years - that’s because Maz is a bit of an Aussie great when it comes to media - she’s been a personality in the space for over 12 years - with experience in radio, TV and online media. But what you might not know is that Maz battled with her relationship with booze… with regular drinks and parties stock standard in the media scene, drinking high volumes, often, was not only accepted but encouraged. Soon, Maz noticed that booze had become a coping mechanism for stress - before slowly creeping towards a dependence. If this sounds familiar, listen up Peachy, because this episode is for you.

We love the way Maz isn’t afraid to ‘have the conversation’ around drinking - within Australia, it’s basically a glorified answer to everything from celebrations, stress relief, practically any social engagement and for many - is simply routine. But why is it that our ears prick up, and our irritations arise when a mate turns you down for a drink at the pub? Are our reactions to someone ‘going sober’ or even just ‘taking a break’ from the booze a little judgemental, and perhaps unhelpful? Especially when we remember that alcohol, whether we like it or not, is actually a toxin that screws with our sleep, moods, weight and overall health?



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Tors and Bec are back with another episode - this time discussing BOUNDARIES. Appropriate boundaries can be life changing - but damn they can be hard to set! In this episode, Bec explains the positive effects boundaries have had on her mental health, and Tori admits it's a concept she's still working on. Personal limits and the ability to say no when it comes to work, friends, family, your social life, your wellness routine - where can you see them helping you?

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For anyone who isn’t aware of the life force that is Kelly McCarren, let us paint a picture for you: Kel is a digital creator and podcaster - she hosts the #1 Beauty Podcast in Australia, You Beauty and is basically known as a master of all things marketing. Kelly is the kinda gal you can trust to give you a no BS answer, no matter what the question is. Whether you’re probing into her personal life, want to know if she’s had any work done, or - more recently - you’re after a no filter account of her experience with pregnancy, birth and the wild ride that is post partum - Kel is going to unapologetically tell you how the fuck it is.

Naturally, we simply had to have her on the poddy. Buckle up, Peachies, and grab yourself a glass of wine or hot cuppa - cos we’re about to get real.

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OUR LOVELY GUEST: ⁠@kelly_mccarren

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