Up Past Bedtime Bella & Adrian Messina
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- Kids & Family
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We’re putting the P back in pillow talk; broadcasting the after-hours conversations of parents! Join the husband and wife duo, Bella & Adrian Messina, for weekly unfiltered discussions that explore the rollercoaster ride of relationships/marriage after kids while navigating the challenges and triumphs of parenting today. We’re looking into the relatable, the honest, the unexpected and everything in between. Pull up a metaphorical blanket and get ready for some sleep deprived, real-talk... because after all, the best conversations happen when you’re up past bedtime.
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PART 2: Your In Law Horror Stories!
Hey Night Owls! You BEGGED for it... so on this weeks episode, we're delivering. Join us as we share Part 2 of your In Law Horror Stories.
Ever had in-laws who made your life a living nightmare? Well you're certainly not alone! After receiving hundreds of submissions, we will be sharing more of our listeners personal in-law stories. Family dynamics and setting boundaries are never easy, especially when it comes to in-laws who just don't get it. Join us as we share candid experiences about dietary challenges, public breastfeeding woes, and the need for clear parental authority. With shocking stories about possessive grandparents and outrageous in-law behaviours, we offer commentary and practical advice to help you navigate your own family struggles.
Up Past Bedtime is a podcast putting the P back in pillow talk; broadcasting the after-hours conversations of parents! Join the husband and wife duo, Bella & Adrian Messina, for weekly unfiltered discussions that explore the rollercoaster ride of relationships/marriage after kids while navigating the challenges and triumphs of parenting today.
UPB Socials:
Instagram: @uppastbedtimepodcast
Tik Tok: @uppastbedtimepodcast
Facebook Community: Here
Watch on Youtube: Here
Or Email Us: upbpod@messinaco.com
Bella’s Socials:
Instagram: @bellsmessina
Tik Tok: @bellsmessina
Adrian’s Socials:
Instagram: @adrianmessina
Tik Tok: @itsyaboyado
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Being A SAHM & Homemaker: What it's really like in 2024
Hey Night Owls!
After the viral speech of Harrison Butker, we thought this week was the perfect opportunity to delve into the in's and out's of what it is REALLY like to be a SAHM & Homemaker and be apart of a traditional gender roles relationship. Up Past Bedtime is a podcast putting the P back in pillow talk; broadcasting the after-hours conversations of parents! Join the husband and wife duo, Bella & Adrian Messina, for weekly unfiltered discussions that explore the rollercoaster ride of relationships/marriage after kids while navigating the challenges and triumphs of parenting today.
UPB Socials:
Instagram: @uppastbedtimepodcast
Tik Tok: @uppastbedtimepodcast
Facebook Community: Here
Watch on Youtube: Here
Or Email Us: upbpod@messinaco.com
Bella’s Socials:
Instagram: @bellsmessina
Tik Tok: @bellsmessina
Adrian’s Socials:
Instagram: @adrianmessina
Tik Tok: @itsyaboyado
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Let's Talk About S-E-X: Intimacy After Kids...
Welcome back Night Owls! Let's be real, the journey of intimacy post-children is like navigating a maze blindfolded. This episode peels back the curtain on the challenges and triumphs of reigniting passion, embracing body positivity after childbirth, and the delicate dance of libidos that can sometimes be out of sync. We also don't shy away from the touchier subjects, such as society's evolving views on women's sexuality and the role of adult entertainment in modern relationships. It's a heartfelt exploration of love's intricate layers, guaranteed to resonate with anyone who's ever had to balance a busy life with the need for closeness and warmth.
(00:00) - Sex and Life Updates With Wine
(07:51) - Postpartum Intimacy and Body Confidence
(13:37) - Navigating Differences in Sex Drive
(21:06) - Navigating Intimacy Post-Children
(25:22) - Nurturing Intimacy in Relationships
(33:02) - Navigating Intimacy in Relationships
(43:49) - Navigating Porn and Intimacy in Relationships
Up Past Bedtime is a podcast putting the P back in pillow talk; broadcasting the after-hours conversations of parents! Join the husband and wife duo, Bella & Adrian Messina, for weekly unfiltered discussions that explore the rollercoaster ride of relationships/marriage after kids while navigating the challenges and triumphs of parenting today.
UPB Socials:
Instagram: @uppastbedtimepodcast
Tik Tok: @uppastbedtimepodcast
Facebook Community: Here
Watch on Youtube: Here
Or Email Us: upbpod@messinaco.com
Bella’s Socials:
Instagram: @bellsmessina
Tik Tok: @bellsmessina
Adrian’s Socials:
Instagram: @adrianmessina
Tik Tok: @itsyaboyado
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Dear First Time Mum: 5 Things I Would Tell You
Hey Night Owls! Join me, Bella Messina, in Episode 6 as I embark on a solo journey this Mother's Day, reflecting on the wonders and hurdles of motherhood. I'm sharing five heartfelt messages I'd send back to my first-time mum self, hoping to connect and inspire fellow mums with my experiences. It's an intimate episode, where we celebrate the essence of motherhood and the emotional transformations it ignites. From discussing the profound love that reshapes our lives to the societal pressures that accompany this new identity, this episode is an ode to mothers everywhere.
(05:20) 1. You’ll learn true love (and the challenges that come with it)
(12:03) 2. Prepare for & embrace change
(17:40) 3. Let go of ego and pride
(24:00) 4. Don’t forget your relationship
(30:14) 5. Stop creating unrealistic expectations
Up Past Bedtime is a podcast putting the P back in pillow talk; broadcasting the after-hours conversations of parents! Join the husband and wife duo, Bella & Adrian Messina, for weekly unfiltered discussions that explore the rollercoaster ride of relationships/marriage after kids while navigating the challenges and triumphs of parenting today.
UPB Socials:
Instagram: @uppastbedtimepodcast
Tik Tok: @uppastbedtimepodcast
Facebook Community: Here
Watch on Youtube: Here
Or Email Us: upbpod@messinaco.com
Bella’s Socials:
Instagram: @bellsmessina
Tik Tok: @bellsmessina
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Parasocial Parenting: Your Questions Answered...
Hey Night Owls! Welcome back to Up Past Bedtime. In Episode 5, we’re diving into all things ‘Parasocial Parenting’.
Navigate with us through the complex terrain of parenting and privacy in the age of social media. We discuss the fine line between sharing our journey as parents and protecting our children's right to a private childhood, shedding light on the thoughtful decisions we make to safeguard their experiences. Hear about the measures we take to shield their identities, from setting firm boundaries on the content we share to rejecting certain daycare apps. Our chat also takes a turn into the less visible pressures, including the weight of external judgments and the art of handling unsolicited opinions while in the public eye.
(12:49) - Parenting and Social Media Privacy
(17:55) - Setting Boundaries for Online Child Privacy
(24:49) - Navigating Parenting in the Public Eye
(34:12) - Social Media and Child Privacy
(43:32) - Privacy and Regrets in Social Media
(46:49) - Navigating Online Criticism and Recommendations
Adrian’s recommendation of the week: Royal Otis - Linger Cover
Bella’s recommendation of the week: Bridgerton Watch/Rewatch
Up Past Bedtime is a podcast putting the P back in pillow talk; broadcasting the after-hours conversations of parents! Join the husband and wife duo, Bella & Adrian Messina, for weekly unfiltered discussions that explore the rollercoaster ride of relationships/marriage after kids while navigating the challenges and triumphs of parenting today.
UPB Socials:
Instagram: @uppastbedtimepodcast
Tik Tok: @uppastbedtimepodcast
Facebook Community: Here
Watch on Youtube: Here
Or Email Us: upbpod@messinaco.com
Bella’s Socials:
Instagram: @bellsmessina
Tik Tok: @bellsmessina
Adrian’s Socials:
Instagram: @adrianmessina
Tik Tok: @itsyaboyado
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In Laws, Out Laws & Boundaries: Your HORROR Stories Unleashed!
Ever wondered how to survive the chaos of multi-generational living and get along harmoniously with your In-Laws? For Episode 4 of Up Past Bedtime, join Adrian and Bella, as they pull back the curtain on the good, the bad, and the hilarious of blending family lives under one roof.
Listen in as we explore the financial and emotional intricacies of multi-generational living, discussing the delicate balance of sharing expenses and setting respectful parenting boundaries. The support we receive from our family network is something we don't take for granted, and we're diving into the stories that showcase both the positive and the challenging aspects of this arrangement. We also shed light on how these shared experiences resonate with our audience, offering an alternative perspective on the value of community support in family life.
Feel like you're the only one navigating the minefield of in-law interactions!? Don’t worry! Join us for a no-holds-barred discussion as we delve into some of our own listeners' HORROR In-Law experiences. We weigh in on the deep emotional journeys some of our listeners have shared, from dealing with toxic Mother in-laws to the heartbreak of pregnancy loss. We laugh, empathise, and sometimes cringe as we recount tales of your family dynamics.
(05:50) - Living With Our in-Laws
Our unique living situation with Adrian's parents in a dual home arrangement gets explained, highlighting the independence and mutual respect that makes it work for us.
(16:37) - Family Financial Dynamics and Support
We discuss the nuances of multi-generational living, particularly in the context of the financial benefits and dynamics within a family. We explore the concept of sharing expenses and responsibilities without keeping a meticulous score, fostering a sense of unity and support rather than division.
(22:53) - Positive Family Relationships
We explore the close and accepting relationships we have with each other's families, We discuss how we've managed to navigate any conflicts that have arisen, emphasising our fortunate position compared to some challenging family dynamics shared by listeners.
(33:02) - Our Listener In Law Horror Stories
We open the floor to our listener - sharing a huge range of In-Law Horror stories and give our insight on how we would handle a similar situation!
Up Past Bedtime is a podcast putting the P back in pillow talk; broadcasting the after-hours conversations of parents! Join the husband and wife duo, Bella & Adrian Messina, for weekly unfiltered discussions that explore the rollercoaster ride of relationships/marriage after kids while navigating the challenges and triumphs of parenting today.
UPB Socials:
Instagram: @uppastbedtimepodcast
Tik Tok: @uppastbedtimepodcast
Facebook Community: Here
Watch on Youtube: Here
Or Email Us: upbpod@messinaco.com
Bella’s Socials:
Instagram: @bellsmessina
Tik Tok: @bellsmessina
Adrian’s Socials:
Instagram: @adrianmessina
Tik Tok: @itsyaboyado
Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Customer Reviews
Best day of the week!
Unlike other podcasts I just check on occasionally, I literally wait and refresh at 6pm every single Wednesday! Real talk and I love it 👏🏻
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Loved this - love the concept, love the fact that you are doing the podcast together and simply cannot wait for next weeks episode 💜💜