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We're Having Gay Sex

After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is. For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com   We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4  Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20Policy

  1. Despite Being Lesbian, Emma Dalenberg Dates Men | WHGS Ep. 263

    1 DAY AGO

    Despite Being Lesbian, Emma Dalenberg Dates Men | WHGS Ep. 263

    This episode is traumatized & sober, listener! Emma Dalenberg is an amazing stand up comedian and writer who recently came out as a lesbian, but today she’s in the apartment to put theory into practice! We discuss dating men AFTER coming out, how addiction and trauma can fuel such decisions, and how hanging out with Kylie Vincent WILL get you banned from your local coffee shop. Ashley fumbles a dishy dame. Kylie sets boundaries.    You can follow Emma on IG, TikTok, and Twitter/X: https://www.instagram.com/emmadcomedy/  https://www.tiktok.com/@emmadcomedy  https://x.com/emmadcomedy  And you can sign up for her mailing mailing list at https://beacons.ai/emmadcomedy  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube:  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirst TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincentthefirst  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincentthefirst/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylievincent5189  Tour Dates: https://www.kylierosevincent.com/  EDITED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 20% OFF SITEWIDE at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    1h 9m
  2. Kate Sisk Reacts to YOUR Crazy Stories | WHGS Ep. 262

    3 MAR

    Kate Sisk Reacts to YOUR Crazy Stories | WHGS Ep. 262

    This episode is EXCLUSIVE, listener! Ashley’s NEW podcast with Josh Johnson is dropping THIS THURSDAY, 3/6, so with all hands on deck for it’s preparation, we are releasing one of the funnier Patreon bonus episodes of “You’re Having Gay Sex” from our back catalog to the general public! Joined by the hilarious comedian and beloved former co-host Kate Sisk, we read and react to your LISTENER-SUBMITTED gay sex stories about trans-masc hookups and locking people out of a home to bang. In-between, we banter about embarrassing moments when taking T, fostering a girthy garden, and how Alex is just a little juice boy.   You can follow Kate on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: https://www.instagram.com/thekatesisk/ https://www.tiktok.com/@thekatesisk  https://x.com/thekatesisk  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/Sx_K-K8zvdM  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates EDITED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    54 min
  3. Grace Reiter is a Gold-Star Virgin | WHGS Ep. 261

    24 FEB

    Grace Reiter is a Gold-Star Virgin | WHGS Ep. 261

    This episode is undefiled, listener! Grace Reiter is an unfathomably hilarious content creator, comedian, and full-blown virgin, but today she’s in the apartment to destroy fruit because she needs this CHERRY POPPED! We discuss being a virgin in your mid-20s, beauty standards in straight vs. queer dating, destigmatizing sex when you haven’t had any, and how to invest in lucrative new opportunities like playing Minecraft. Ashley bangs her boss. Kylie wrestles with snakes.   You can follow Grace on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: https://www.instagram.com/gracereiter1/  https://www.tiktok.com/@reitergrace  https://x.com/reitergrace  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/PsLXPhJjss8  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirst TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincentthefirst  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincentthefirst/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylievincent5189  Tour Dates: https://www.kylierosevincent.com/  EDITED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: GALATEA: Get 25% OFF your subscription at https://galatea.com/gay Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    1h 9m
  4. How to Date a Trans Woman w/ Brenda Jordan

    17 FEB

    How to Date a Trans Woman w/ Brenda Jordan

    This episode is instructional, listener! Brenda Jordan is a spellbinding transgender comedian, content creator, and 2015 viral sensation who blew up by dancing at a mall, but today she’s in the apartment to go viral again by NO-PANTS DANCING with YOU! We discuss the do’s-and-don’ts when sleeping with a trans woman, overcoming the fetishization of trans women, plunging men into their own sexuality crises, and how long you have to be on estrogen before you earn your slur rights. Ashley gives her that HAWK TUAH. Bre is chit-chatting.    You can follow Brenda on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: https://www.instagram.com/brendanwjordan/  https://www.tiktok.com/@brendanwjordan  https://x.com/brendanwjordan  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/O7Kte-Dkwx0  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW BREANNE WILLIAMSON @breannewilliamson TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@breannewilliamson Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/breannewilliamson/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/BreanneWilliamson Twitter: https://twitter.com/brewilliamson Live Events & Newsletter: https://mailchi.mp/9777d57c18fb/breannewilliamson EDITED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HUMP: Use promo code SEX for 10% off tickets at https://www.humpfilmfest.com/  GREEN CHEF: Use code “gayfree” for FREE salads for 2 months + 50% your first box at https://www.greenchef.com/gayfree Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    1h 13m
  5. Interviewing the Manager of a Legal Brothel (w/ Madam Tara)

    10 FEB

    Interviewing the Manager of a Legal Brothel (w/ Madam Tara)

    This episode is informative, listener! We switch up our typical format for a dedicated interview of Madam Tara Adkins, the manager of Nevada’s first legally licensed brothel — Mustang Ranch. We get into the nitty-gritty of everything you’ve ever wanted to know about organized sex work: how the business operates, how it does so safely, the life of courtesans, and the outrageous stories of the patrons who seek them out. This episode has it all: elderly lesbians using the brothel to explore polyamory, war veterans using it as a form of sex therapy, and even parents taking their children to lose their v-card. You won’t want to miss this!    You can follow Tara on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: https://www.instagram.com/mustangmadamtaraexit28/  https://www.tiktok.com/@taraannexit28  https://x.com/MustangMadam  And you can visit Mustang Ranch just outside of Reno, Nevada: https://www.mustangranchlounge.com/   Kylie is running her NEW solo show in NYC at Caveat on 2/16! Get tickets at: https://caveat.nyc/events/kyi-wanted-to-die-2-16-2025   SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/H9fj_yFVxtk  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW KYLIE VINCENT @kylievincentthefirst TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kylievincentthefirst  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/kylievincentthefirst/  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@kylievincent5189  Tour Dates: https://www.kylierosevincent.com/  EDITED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% OFF + two FREE pillows with mattress purchase at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex  FACTOR: Get 50% OFF your first box + free shipping with code “gay50off” at https://www.factormeals.com/gay50off Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    1h 16m
  6. Akeem Woods Easily Attracts Porn Stars

    3 FEB

    Akeem Woods Easily Attracts Porn Stars

    This episode will touch you (literally), listener! Akeem Woods (The Late Late Show) is a sensational stand-up comedian, writer, and fan-favorite at Ashley’s weekly show, but today he’s in the apartment because he’s the favorite fan of most adult stars! We discuss hooking up with adult film stars on the regular, the nuances of strapping your partner, and how crazy it is that there are people who have probably and literally whacked off to this podcast. Ashley is the 5th wheel. Maddie starts GLP-1s. You can follow Akeem on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: https://www.instagram.com/akeemwoods/  https://www.tiktok.com/@akeemwoods6  https://x.com/woodsakeem  And THIS WEEKEND you can see him perform live in Montreal, from 2/6 - 2/8:   https://www.bandsintown.com/a/15490521-akeem-woods?came_from=250&utm_medium=web&utm_source=artist_event_page&utm_campaign=artist  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/kITm79IuX-U  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener  EDITED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 20% OFF + two FREE pillows with mattress purchase at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    1h 10m
  7. Lizzy Cassidy Unlocks the Most Vile Queer Ick

    27 JAN

    Lizzy Cassidy Unlocks the Most Vile Queer Ick

    This episode will give you the ICK, listener! Lizzy Cassidy (Don’t Tell, Cracked) is a hilarious stand-up comedian, podcaster, and Maddie’s best friend/comedic equal, but today she’s in the apartment for some queer sex therapy after a date that RUINED IT ALL. We discuss cringe-inducing dates with non-binary people, addiction, replacing drugs with sex and love after going sober, and how Lizzy needs to embrace her true identity that she’s been shoving down: goth. Ashley gets gay in Thailand. Maddie investigates the link between neurodivergence and being queer. You can follow Lizzy on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: https://www.instagram.com/lizzycassidy/  https://www.tiktok.com/@lizzycassidycomedy  https://x.com/lizzaster  And you can watch her Don’t Tell comedy set now: https://www.youtube.com/watch?app=desktop&v=Kt12RjMC5NA  Or you can listen to her awesome podcast, “Close Calls,” wherever you listen:  https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/close-calls-podcast/id1639556364  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: Watch this UNCUT: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/gpbsvMxcSaI FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener  EDITED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    1h 15m
  8. Irene Tu DENIES Non-Binary Identity

    20 JAN

    Irene Tu DENIES Non-Binary Identity

    This episode is genderless and asexual, listener! Irene Tu is a side-splitting comedian, writer, WHGS regular, and self-prescribed “nun” who never has sex, but today she’s in the apartment to spurn ace identity regardless. We go DEEP on philosophy this episode as we discuss rejecting both gendered AND genderless labels, reconciling how you perceive yourself vs. how people perceive you, and how the only thing stopping Irene from being asexual is that they’re dorks. Ashley bushwhacks a pubic forest. Maddie seeks the moon. You can follow Irene on IG, TikTok, and Twitter: https://www.instagram.com/irene_tu/  https://www.tiktok.com/@irenetucomedy  https://x.com/irene_tu  And you can see Irene on tour in YOUR CITY! Get tickets over at her website: https://www.irenetu.com/shows  SUPPORT OUR PODCAST: 2-4 Bonus Episodes a Month: https://www.patreon.com/WHGS Merch: https://shop.merchcentral.com/collections/ashley-gavin Watch on this YouTube: https://youtu.be/ENl5V39Tpmg  FOLLOW ASHLEY GAVIN @ashgavs TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@ashgavscomedy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ashgavs/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@ashgavs Twitter: https://twitter.com/ashgavs Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://www.ashleygavin.com/#dates FOLLOW MADDIE WIENER @maddietwiener TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@maddietwiener Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/maddietwiener/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@maddietwiener Twitter: https://twitter.com/maddietwiener Tour Dates & Newsletter: https://punchup.live/maddiewiener  EDITED BY SWETSHOP: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/swetshop.tv/ ______________________________________________ SUPPORT OUR SPONSORS: HELIX: Get 27% all mattress orders + 2 free pillows at https://helixsleep.com/gaysex Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

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After 10 years of serial monogamy, comedian Ashley Gavin, trades in her u-haul for a life of sleeping around and documents every gritty detail of her queer experiments in this podcast. Always in fear of being cancelled, Ashley is aided by her queerest friends, Kate Sisk, known as the "Cancel Coach", and the "Youth in the Soundbooth" Gara Lonning, equipped with a gen-z themed soundboard, to call Ashley out on her BS. Together they interview people from all over the gender and sexuality spectrums (from straight to gay and cis to trans) about their sex lives. And yes straight people, you will find out what lesbian sex is. For advertising opportunities please email PodcastPartnerships@Studio71us.com   We wanna make the podcast even better, help us learn how we can: https://bit.ly/2EcYbu4  Privacy Policy: https://www.studio71.com/us/terms-and-conditions-use/#Privacy%20Policy

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