The Body Love Binge - Eating Disorder Recovery Podcast

Victoria Kleinsman
The Body Love Binge - Eating Disorder Recovery Podcast

The Body Love Binge is the podcast for you if you’re SO DONE with living in the hell hole of an eating disorder. If you’re ready to dig deep & truly meet yourself (most likely for the first time in your life) in order to reach REAL recovery from anorexia, bulimia or binge eating, then you’re in the right place. I'm your host, Victoria Kleinsman, a food freedom & body love coach, eating disorder & abuse survivor who's on a mission to love & support millions of women to come back home to self-love & intuition eating. If it's possible for me, it's possible for you too! ❤️

  1. How to overcome fear

    1 DAY AGO

    How to overcome fear

    In this episode of The Body Love Binge, Victoria Kleinsman discusses strategies for overcoming fear, specifically in the context of eating disorder recovery. She explains why it's necessary to face your fears head-on in order to find freedom on the other side. What to Expect: Listeners can expect to gain an understanding of why their eating disorder-related fears feel so real despite being imaginary constructs. Victoria outlines the process of uncovering core wounds that underlie these fears so they can be healed. She also provides encouragement, compassion, and a mantra for moving through fears consistently: "Face your fears, find freedom." Main Discussion Points: - Why avoiding fears makes them stronger - How fears are imaginary yet feel very real - Getting clarity on where fears originate from - The difference between danger and fear - You have to walk through fear to overcome it - Freedom comes at a cost (giving up control/safety) - Facing fears with compassion, commitment Key Quotes: "Fear isn't real. I'm sorry, what?... Let me just say that again, fear isn't real." (00:09) "When you face your fear with courage the scary vision turns into something funny." (00:04:42) "You have absolutely everything you need within you to overcome all of your fears." (00:12:32) Join my free support group: https://victoria-kleinsman.circle.so/c/free-support-group/  Free masterclass “How To Stop Bingeing” https://victoriakleinsman.com/how-to-stop-binge-eating-without-the-need-for-willpower/  Work with me: https://victoriakleinsman.com/work-with-me/

    24 min
  2. Bones: Anorexia Anxiety & My Path to Self Love with Robyn Shumer

    7 NOV

    Bones: Anorexia Anxiety & My Path to Self Love with Robyn Shumer

    Welcome back to the podcast, queens! Today, I have a great guest joining us, Robyn Shumer. Robyn wears many hats: she’s a leadership development facilitator at Johnson & Johnson, a TEDx speaker, a yoga teacher, an executive coach, a mental health advocate, and even a working mom. Robyn is truly dedicated to helping others share their personal and professional stories with impact, all while managing her own journey of self-love and mental wellness. Robyn is also the author of *Bones: Anorexia, Anxiety, and My Path to Self-Love*, her powerful memoir where she dives deep into her story of healing and transformation. She believes in the power of sharing our most vulnerable stories and even says that preparing for her TEDx talk was more impactful than years of therapy. In today’s conversation, we’re exploring some powerful themes: the pivotal moments in Robyn’s own recovery, the inspiration behind her mantra, “Don’t be afraid to share the stories that shaped you,” and her thoughts on how our culture’s view of bodies has evolved since her own experience growing up in the 1980s. We’ll also hear about her initiative, *What’s Your Story, USA*, and her advice for those of us who want to share our stories but may feel hesitant. Robyn’s insights on storytelling, healing, and mental health are sure to resonate, so let’s dive in! Join my free support group: https://victoria-kleinsman.circle.so/c/free-support-group/  Free masterclass “How To Stop Bingeing” https://victoriakleinsman.com/how-to-stop-binge-eating-without-the-need-for-willpower/  Work with me: https://victoriakleinsman.com/work-with-me/ Connect with Robyn https://www.robynshumer.com/

    1h 8m
  3. Attachment styles, shame & self-regulation in eating disorder recovery with Cath Counihan

    31 OCT

    Attachment styles, shame & self-regulation in eating disorder recovery with Cath Counihan

    Today, I have the incredible Cath Counihan joining me, a trauma therapist, touch practitioner, and psychotherapist specialising in developmental trauma. Cath dives deep into the intersection of childhood trauma, attachment styles, and the ways these affect our relationships, self-worth, and behaviours in adulthood, especially for those on a journey of self-acceptance and recovery. In this episode, Cath and I explore everything from the impact of family dynamics and early childhood patterns to the roles of perfectionism, people-pleasing, and shame in our lives. We also discuss the importance of emotional regulation, creating safety, and how trauma shapes our coping mechanisms, particularly around food and body image. Get ready for a raw, enlightening, and inspiring conversation that will give you tools, insight, and hope for healing and finding true freedom. Let’s dive in! Cath Counihan is a Trauma Therapist (UKCP accredited) working in London. Cath specializes in complex trauma, maternal mental health, perfectionism, nervous system healing, shifting dysfunctional patterns in our families and reparenting. One of her areas of expertise is how our own childhoods impact our parenting journey. Shifting shame to help each client gain an embodied sense of being good enough is her passion. She hosts a weekly podcast Grow Yourself Up; focused on tending to ourselves in adulthood when we have not had our needs met as children, and the complexity of doing this as we parent. She writes, delivers workshops and has taught for the Bowlby Centre in London and the International Attachment Network. She has more than 12 years of clinical experience and a previous career in financial services. Cath is the mother of twin girls. This is her website: www.cathcounihan.com And here is her latest workshop: https://www.cathcounihan.com/triggers-rage-reparenting-workshop Join my free support group: https://victoria-kleinsman.circle.so/c/free-support-group/  Free masterclass “How To Stop Bingeing” https://victoriakleinsman.com/how-to-stop-binge-eating-without-the-need-for-willpower/  Work with me: https://victoriakleinsman.com/work-with-me/ Connect with Cath https://www.cathcounihan.com

    1h 2m
  4. But what about health if I’m eating whatever I want?

    17 OCT

    But what about health if I’m eating whatever I want?

    In this episode of The Body Love Binge podcast, I dive into a question I get asked all the time: How do you pursue health while allowing yourself to eat whatever you want during your eating disorder recovery journey? I believe that health should never be used as a reason to judge or shame yourself—or anyone else, for that matter. Instead, I argue that mental and emotional health, as well as self-care, should be prioritized over rigid definitions of "healthy eating." Main Discussion Points: Health is so often defined by physical metrics alone, but it’s important to recognize that true health also includes mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being. Shame and guilt about food choices don’t lead to health—they lead to disordered eating cycles. What really helps is self-acceptance and compassion. Choosing foods that bring you comfort can actually be an act of self-care for your mental health. Forcing yourself into rigid "healthy" eating often backfires. Allowing yourself all foods creates space for you to make genuinely healthy choices when you feel ready. It’s about quality of life—not just extending it at the cost of your happiness. Health looks different for everyone. Make choices that feel right for your body and your unique needs. Key Quotes: "Shame and guilt do not make you healthier. They make you miserable." [00:05:52] "You deserve a life where your worth is not measured by the number on the scale or the type of food that you eat." [00:11:53] "Allowance creates space for choice. You cannot rush to this stage." [00:09:55] I hope this episode brings you the reassurance you need as you continue your journey toward true health and freedom! Join my free support group: https://victoria-kleinsman.circle.so/c/free-support-group/ Free masterclass “How To Stop Bingeing” https://victoriakleinsman.com/how-to-stop-binge-eating-without-the-need-for-willpower/ Work with me: https://victoriakleinsman.com/work-with-me/

    20 min
  5. How to be Fat, Fabulous & Fearless with Phaith Montoya

    9 OCT

    How to be Fat, Fabulous & Fearless with Phaith Montoya

    Victoria Kleinsman interviews Phaith Montoya, a plus-size fashion influencer, about her journey to self-love and body positivity. They discuss Phaith's struggles with binge eating disorder, society's fatphobia, and learning to embrace your body no matter its size. Guest Bio: Phaith Montoya is a 26-year-old content creator from New Jersey. After losing her teaching job during the pandemic, Phaith found community and passion for sharing fashion advice for plus-size women. She now has over 1 million social media followers. Key Quotes: "I think kindness leads me to minding my own business and leads me to not, like, be really harsh and react to everybody's moves as the way that I feel like people are so critical on the Internet now, but it's because they're not kind to themselves." (00:35:52) "I think it was just the exhaustion of choosing that first choice for so long...I used to write in my journal all the time, when you're at this weight, you can wear a bikini to the beach. When you're at this weight, you'll be able to do this. You'll be able to do this. And it was like, oh my gosh. Like, how exhausting, but life waiting for a milestone before I allow myself to live." (00:27:56) Main Discussion Points: ❤️ Learning self-compassion and body neutrality after years of disordered eating and fatphobia 💪🏻 Taking small actions to push past body image barriers 🙅🏻‍♀️ Leaving partners who refuse to unlearn fatphobia and respect your body 👯‍♀️ Finding community and inspiration from people who love you as you are 🌈 Decentering Eurocentric beauty standards that claim only thin bodies are attractive I hope you love yourself and your body after listening to this podcast! Sending you so much compassion. Let's end fatphobia together! 💖 Connect with Phaith https://www.instagram.com/phaithmontoya?igsh=eW03bTMwZHBiOHF5https://www.tiktok.com/@phaithmontoya?_t=8odMPdhWJFi&_r=1https://youtube.com/@phaith?si=2DtSj0fsendl-yVwhttps://snapchat.com/t/HpB8gSSZ Join my free support group: https://victoria-kleinsman.circle.so/c/free-support-group/  Free masterclass “How To Stop Bingeing” https://victoriakleinsman.com/how-to-stop-binge-eating-without-the-need-for-willpower/  Work with me: https://victoriakleinsman.com/work-with-me/

    52 min
  6. A Personal Share: Surprise & Growth

    3 OCT

    A Personal Share: Surprise & Growth

    In this surprising episode, Victoria shares that she is 33 weeks pregnant after never wanting children before. She talks about her journey to accepting and embracing pregnancy and motherhood despite actively avoiding it for years. Listeners can expect to learn about Victoria's personal growth through pregnancy, tips for improving body image and self-love, and her excitement for giving birth at home. Key Discussion Points: - Victoria's shock at discovering the pregnancy after 4 years of natural birth control - Her husband's initial traumatic reaction and request for an abortion - Their shift after an emotional healing session to welcome the baby - How the pregnancy has taught Victoria to surrender, nourish herself, and put her needs first - Preparing mentally and physically for an unmedicated, home-water birth - How working with Victoria now means getting free coaching from two other incredible coaches during her maternity leave Quotes: "I felt like I didn't want him to say that. I just wanted support. And deep down, I knew I wanted this baby." (06:33) "I'm in absolute awe of the way my body's changing. I'm just in awe of it all." (17:08) "I'm so fucking grateful I've done all the work I have on myself bringing a girl into this world around body image and self-love." (15:14) "I'm so ready for this. I'm ready to surrender and just trust." (45:28) on preparing for birth Join my free support group: https://victoria-kleinsman.circle.so/c/free-support-group/  Free masterclass “How To Stop Bingeing” https://victoriakleinsman.com/how-to-stop-binge-eating-without-the-need-for-willpower/  Work with me: https://victoriakleinsman.com/work-with-me/

    52 min

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The Body Love Binge is the podcast for you if you’re SO DONE with living in the hell hole of an eating disorder. If you’re ready to dig deep & truly meet yourself (most likely for the first time in your life) in order to reach REAL recovery from anorexia, bulimia or binge eating, then you’re in the right place. I'm your host, Victoria Kleinsman, a food freedom & body love coach, eating disorder & abuse survivor who's on a mission to love & support millions of women to come back home to self-love & intuition eating. If it's possible for me, it's possible for you too! ❤️

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