This week, your faves are back in the studio and with yet another controversial conversation. But first, we start off the show with music (2:42) from Jarule & Ashanti with"Mesmerize"as we pay our respect to Irv Gotti, the mastermind behind Murder Inc who passed on during the week after battling with his health for a while. Then we catch up for a bit and Naomie poses the question of the week (8:02) which speaks to what unfortunate event would have to happen that will wreck our lives completely. Then we move on to Nana's Corner (37:10), and of course we start withThe Grammys which took place last week. We discuss Kendrick Lamar sweeping five awards, queried Beyonce winning AOTY and Country AOTY, Chris Brown finally winning RnB AOTY, Kanye shenanigans at the Red carpet, Billie Ellish getting ignored, Babyface getting disrespected by AP and much more. We also discuss possible Jonathan Majors Marvel comeback, 50 Cent and Big Meech beef + MORE! On the main portion of the show (1:19:01), we come in with Doechii's new record"Nosebleeds" after winning Rap AOTY atThe Grammys. We discuss at length the conversation on"Dating Backgrounds" and how they influence and inform our decisions to date or how we date in general. We highlight backgrounds ranging from family and parenting style, childhood trauma, molestation, domestic violence, sexual history and orientation, wealthy versus poor family dynamics, cultural, racial, and tribal differences, aesthetics, and circle of friends + MORE. We pose the question, what is a background you could never ignore if you wanted to date someone? Also, are backgrounds always red flags? Find out these and more on this episode as we had some personal stories. Then we close out (3:13:41) to new music and movies, and in honor of the Superbowl this weekend, we faze out withAll The Stars by Kendrick and SZA. Enjoy the show! Song Intro:Ja Rule Ft. Ashanti - Mesmerize Mid Episode Song:Doechii - Nosebleeds Song Outro:Kendrick Lamar Ft. SZA - All The Stars Send us your Anonymous Dilemmas – TSP Dilemma Stories Subscribe to our YouTube channel: DANANA | TSP Support the Podcast via Patreon Membership – The Spectrum Podcast | Official Patreon (If you are in Nigeria, before logging into Patreon, Download and Use Free VPN app Windscribe) Rate/Review APPLE – The Spectrum Podcast || DANANA on Apple Podcasts Rate/Review on SPOTIFY – The Spectrum Podcast || DANANA on SPOTIFY Listen to us on iHeart Radio – The Spectrum Podcast || DANANA – iHeart Radio Listen to us on Jollof Radio – The Spectrum Podcast || DANANA – Jollof Radio Follow us on IG – @therealdanana Send us a mail – thespectrumpodcastdanana@gmail.com DISCLAIMER – We hereby declare that we do not own this music/song rights. All rights belong to the owner. No Copyright Infringement Intended