Hugging and showing affection

Are you a hugger? Becks is, Claire isn’t (she just doesn’t feel the need all the time!)! 

We spoke about: 

• Our own experiences with hugging and showing affection. 
• How to approach situations with children and hugging – should it be an expectation that your child hugs people? 
• If not, what should you do? 
• Having conversations with people about the fact your child can say no they don’t want a hug and when to do it. 
• Kissing little ones and reasons we don’t kiss newborn babies (or you could kiss their feet!). 
• Teaching children life skills so they know the importance of saying no if something doesn't feel right – that their body is their body and it’s OK. 
• How showing affection can be done in many different ways.  
• The pandemic and how we weren’t allowed to hug! 
• 5 Love Languages and how helpful they are for all of us. 
• The power of the Disney Hug. 
• NSPCC and the PANTS rule. 

Blogs – Should I make my child hug people? 

You might also find this blog interesting – Why doesn’t my child show much affection? 

NSPCC PANTS rule 

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