Relationship deal-breakers: When to break-up and when to mend (TED Radio Hour+)

While a romantic relationship can offer almost countless benefits, psychologists Julie and John Gottman say there is also a list of deal-breakers – problems so insurmountable or damaging that a break-up is likely if not necessary. In this bonus episode for TED Radio Hour Plus, the Gottmans share examples from their own research: long distance relationships, domestic violence, addiction and cheating. They explain when each of these reach deal-breaker territory and when they can be worked through. To get access to this and other bonus episodes, sign up for TED Radio Hour+. When you do, all your episodes also become sponsor-free. That's because you are directly supporting our work and public radio. Learn more at http://plus.npr.org/ted