54. Breaking Away from "Asian" Parenting Styles ft. Vincci Tsui

Vincci Tsui, a mother of a three-year-old, balances her parenting knowledge from how she was raised with what she believes to be best for her daughter.  We discuss what we’ve learned from our parents and what has been taught to us from living in a western society. Which teachings to adopt and which to unlearn? What fears do we have as new parents? 

“This is something that's new for so many people, like not just from a cultural perspective or generational perspective […] we're not alone and we're probably not going to scar our kids for life if we're doing the best that we can.” - Vincci Tsui

Resources & Mentions:

• Vincci Tsui (Website & Instagram)
• How Co-regulation with Parents Develops into Self-Regulation in Children (Article)
• Your Brain's 3 Emotion Regulation Systems (Article)

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