Destroy The Hairdresser

Destroy The Hairdresser

Destroy The Hairdresser is an industry podcast dedicated to helping salon owners and hairdressers salon differently.

  1. JAN 8

    The End of Buzzwords, The Beginning of Actual Leadership

    In this New Year’s Day episode, Cyd sits down with Cheri Oteri for a wildly honest, hilarious, and unexpectedly deep conversation about grief, burnout, leadership, and the absolute massacre of language in modern marketing. They kick things off by questioning why humans invented New Year’s celebrations in the first place, spiral into sickness updates and hospital scares, and then land squarely on the real theme of the episode: we’ve officially ruined some words beyond repair. Think “era,” “toxic,” “narcissist,” and other once-meaningful terms that now mean… absolutely nothing. From there, the conversation sharpens. They unpack why you cannot motivate your team, why forcing staff to do social media is unhinged, and why salon owners need to stop asking “How do I get them to…” and start asking “Is my business even worth documenting?” This episode dives into: Why behavior doesn’t change unless the environment does Why boring salons create silent teams Why posting hair is dead (sorry) Why leadership-by-example is annoying but necessary Why imperfect, human content is about to matter more than ever in an AI-saturated internet It’s funny, spicy, blunt, and grounded in real coaching experience. No platitudes. No buzzwords. Just the uncomfortable truth: you can’t spark something if there’s nothing to light. If you’re a salon owner, leader, or coach heading into 2026 feeling stuck, this episode will either piss you off a little or make everything click. Possibly both. JOIN THE HAIRDRESSER BUSINESS CLUB AND GET TWO WEEKS FREE https://www.destroythehairdresser.com/offers/DbMChf8w/checkout

    20 min
  2. JAN 1

    2026 Is the Year Motivation Stops Being Your Leadership Strategy

    In this New Year’s Day episode, Cyd sits down with Cheri Oteri for a wildly honest, hilarious, and unexpectedly deep conversation about grief, burnout, leadership, and the absolute massacre of language in modern marketing. They kick things off by questioning why humans invented New Year’s celebrations in the first place, spiral into sickness updates and hospital scares, and then land squarely on the real theme of the episode: we’ve officially ruined some words beyond repair. Think “era,” “toxic,” “narcissist,” and other once-meaningful terms that now mean… absolutely nothing. From there, the conversation sharpens. They unpack why you cannot motivate your team, why forcing staff to do social media is unhinged, and why salon owners need to stop asking “How do I get them to…” and start asking “Is my business even worth documenting?” This episode dives into: Why behavior doesn’t change unless the environment does Why boring salons create silent teams Why posting hair is dead (sorry) Why leadership-by-example is annoying but necessary Why imperfect, human content is about to matter more than ever in an AI-saturated internet It’s funny, spicy, blunt, and grounded in real coaching experience. No platitudes. No buzzwords. Just the uncomfortable truth: you can’t spark something if there’s nothing to light. If you’re a salon owner, leader, or coach heading into 2026 feeling stuck, this episode will either piss you off a little or make everything click. Possibly both.

    29 min
  3. 2025-12-19

    Why Working Hard Isn’t the Point Anymore

    In this solo episode, David steps in without a co-pilot and delivers one of the most honest conversations we’ve had on the podcast in a long time. This isn’t a hype episode.This isn’t a “set your goals and grind harder” episode.And it definitely isn’t about manifesting your way out of burnout. It’s about what happens after success. David reflects on the past few years — culturally, politically, personally — and challenges listeners to stop waiting for a global reset, a better year, or external permission to change their lives. Instead, he makes the case for individuation, sustainability, and choosing your own definition of success in an industry addicted to hustle and “more.” In this episode, he breaks down: Why hard work has very little to do with success How the industry uses fake statistics and hustle myths to keep you stuck The difference between achievement and fulfillment Why “more money” isn’t the same as a better life The rarely discussed reality of Phase Four — when success arrives, boredom creeps in, and self-sabotage follows This is a conversation about money, yes — but more than that, it’s about capacity. About learning how to sit with success instead of running from it or destroying it. About building a business that doesn’t collapse the moment you stop sprinting. If you’ve ever hit a milestone and thought, “Why doesn’t this feel how I thought it would?”Or if you’re exhausted by the endless chase for more — this episode will land.

    25 min
  4. 2025-12-12

    Influencers Are Eating Your Lunch — And You Cooked It

    This week, Cyd is lighting up the mic with the conversation the industry still tiptoes around: the retail system is broken, stylists are stuck at the bottom of the food chain, and product companies are out here winning big while hairdressers are left dusting shelves and doing math gymnastics hoping to find the “profit” everyone keeps promising. We dive into the era when salons ran the show, how ego and toxicity pushed stylists into the great suite exodus, the pandemic reset that flipped retail upside down, and the moment big brands pivoted to affiliate links because they had no choice. And just when hairdressers finally started winning? The TikTok influencer wave crashed over the industry and shoved stylists right back to the bottom — even though YOU are the one doing the actual work. Cyd breaks down what really happened, why influencers are cashing the checks meant for professionals, and what product companies must do if they want to stay relevant in the new era of creator-driven commerce. Spoiler: the future of retail belongs to the people who touch the hair, not the people who touch a ring light. Whether you’re a stylist, a salon owner, suite-based, or somewhere in between — this is the episode you’ll be sending to everyone in your salon group chat. And if you’re ready to stop feeling behind, stop playing by outdated rules, and actually build a profitable, modern salon career? Your salon business shouldn’t feel like guesswork — and you shouldn’t have to do it alone. Inside the Club, you get weekly coaching, real strategies that actually work in 2025, a community that understands the industry you’re living in, and systems that help you make more money with LESS stress. If this episode hit a nerve… the Club is where you turn the lightbulb moment into action. 👉 Join the Hairdresser Business Club today.Your clients trust you.Your career deserves the same energy. https://www.destroythehairdresser.com/offers/DbMChf8w/checkout

    15 min
3.9
out of 5
13 Ratings

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Destroy The Hairdresser is an industry podcast dedicated to helping salon owners and hairdressers salon differently.

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