The Selfish Woman Val Jones

One of the questions I get asked the most, is this: 
How do I stop caring what people think??? 
I'm bringing some tough love, so put on your big girl pants and let's go! 
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Who knew that a three minute video could create such a heated debate between the sexes....about sex! 
My TikTok video that went viral a couple of weeks ago has resonated with women and angered men. 
Why? What is it about women being honest about the reasons they've lost interest in sex that is so polarizing? 
Join me for a deep dive! 
Busting some of the common myths about sex in relationships  Survey says! What women are saying about it!  What your lack of interest in the bedroom is showing you about what's happening outside the bedroom  The one significant contributing factor to your lack of interest  What to do about it!  Watch the viral video that started it all 
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How do you heal? 
The journey of healing is a deeply personal one that requires trial and error, willingness to fail, and finding your guides along the way. 
Crystal Allon has been documenting her healing journey on Tik Tok and inviting her community into the process in real time. 
Her vulnerability, realness and curiosity are refreshing and I know you will relate to her story on many levels. 
TW: suicide, abuse, substance use 
Some of the topics we discuss: 
when adult kids go no contact with their parents taking ownership of the impact we have had on our kids  healing trauma from childhood  healing from depression, fear and anger  learning to forgive yourself for the past  Settle in and enjoy this deeply real conversation! 
 

You know that bitch inside your head that keeps telling you to stay quiet, be nice, don't rock the boat and DEFINITELY don't say no if it's gonna upset someone else? 
Yeah, you know. 
Well today, it's time to learn what's really going on, why you even have an inner bitch, and what to do about it. 
Amy Green Smith is here to rock your world and set you straight about how to get your power back, communicate with clarity, and have big fucking boundaries. 
Not only that, she's giving you specific, real life examples of what to say in those situations where you don't know what to say! 
We also chat about: 
how doing the makeup for her dead Dad was the wake-up call she needed why 'Declaring the Do-Over' is going to free you from guilt  the real reason you're a people pleaser (which will set you free)  how to get yourself out of any conversation you don't want to have  Amy is the compassionate voice of truth that we all need in our lives! 
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One year ago I got my divorce papers in the mail. 
At the time it was a monumentous occasion! I celebrated big time! 
Now, one year later, it's a distant memory. 
I'm in a completely different place and the struggle, heartbreak, grief and fear are a thing of the past. 
In this episode, I'm sharing four big lessons I learned about going through a big life transition, and why they're critical for you as you face life's challenges. 
 
Want ongoing coaching, accountability & support as you navigate transition and change? Join The Phoenix Membership! We meet twice each month on zoom for group coaching calls, you get access to our private FB community, and you get my most popular courses for free! All for a super low cost! 
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"I sure hope this year will be better than last year!" 
Sound familiar? 
If so, you're leaving your life to fate. Hoping that some external force will intervene on your behalf and magically make your problems disappear and bring you what you want. 
Not gonna happen! 
It's time to take fate into your own damn hands! 
Your dream life will NOT just land in your lap, and this year it's time to make it happen, and I'm here to support you! 
So instead of leaving your life to fate, I'm telling you what you need to do instead. 
FATE  - reinvented. 
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