Parenting Impossible – The Special Needs Survival Podcast

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Parenting Impossible – The Special Needs Survival Podcast Podcast

Welcome to Parenting Impossible, the podcast dedicated to empowering and supporting the disability community. Hosted by Annette Hines, this podcast was born out of a mission to combat the scattered and sometimes inaccurate information that parents and caregivers of disabled adult children often face.In each episode, we delve into the pressing questions and concerns that weigh on the minds of the entire special needs community including those with autism, intellectual disabilities, physical disabilities, mental health issues and more. From navigating the complexities of special needs trusts and planning for the future to addressing the fundamental question of "How will my child be okay when I cannot do this anymore?"—we leave no stone unturned.Attorney Annette Hines is a special needs mom, author of the best-selling book Butterflies and Second Chances, national expert speaker, writer and contributor to publications, and founder of the Special Needs Law Group based In Massachusetts. She shares personal insights and her guests (parents, siblings, and experts and sometimes parents who are experts!) discuss many issues facing the special needs community including raising children with different abilities, transitioning into adulthood, sibling challenges and how to effectively navigate the complex systems in our world. We're not just here to talk; we're here to make a difference.In a society where the disabled and their caregivers are often devalued, Parenting Impossible stands as a beacon of advocacy and support dedicated to giving compassionate advice for all stages of life. Join us as we tackle the challenges, break down barriers, and strive to create a more informed and compassionate world for the disability community. Because when it comes to parenting in the face of impossibility, you're not alone—we're here with you.

  1. 249: Changing the Narrative on Disabilities in Kenyan Society | Thitu Muiruri, Filmmaker, Writer, & Director

    2 DAYS AGO

    249: Changing the Narrative on Disabilities in Kenyan Society | Thitu Muiruri, Filmmaker, Writer, & Director

    Disability is a topic often surrounded by stigma and misconceptions, particularly within Kenyan communities, where the burden can become a significant financial strain on families. In Kenya, parents of children with disabilities face not only a lack of acceptance and support but also the heavy weight of stigma, which exacerbates their struggles.    In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines and Thitu Muiruri, an accomplished filmmaker, sheds light on the pervasive stigma surrounding disabilities in African communities. Muiruri's documentary work delves into the struggles faced by parents of children with disabilities, revealing the harsh realities of societal judgment, lack of support, and financial hardships. Through her documentaries and short films, she seeks to spark critical discussions and educate the public about the challenges individuals with disabilities face. It's through these conversations that people can truly understand different perspectives, learn from one another, and work towards positive change.   In this episode, you will hear: What challenges parents of children with disabilities in Kenya face. How societal attitudes add to the struggles of individuals with disabilities and their families. What role informal support networks among mothers play in the disabilities community. What efforts are needed to provide resources and support to mothers of children with disabilities. How to advocate for better accessibility in buildings and roads for individuals with disabilities and their families. Resources from this Episode:   Website: https://thitu.art Facebook: @thituproductions  Instagram:@thitu___  LinkedIn: @salthitumuiruri Engage with us: Join our community: Circle of Care Visit:  https://annettehines.com Read Butterflies and Second Chances LinkedIn: @annette-hines-snc  Instagram: @parentingimpossible Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo   Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.

    36 min
  2. 248: A Guidebook for Thriving Marriages & Sustainable Disability Parenting | Dr. Todd & Kristin Evans, Authors, Speakers, & Disability Parents

    12 SEPT

    248: A Guidebook for Thriving Marriages & Sustainable Disability Parenting | Dr. Todd & Kristin Evans, Authors, Speakers, & Disability Parents

    Parenting is a tough job and when you have a child with special needs, the challenges can be even more complex. From advocating for your child in school to finding the right therapy options, there are so many aspects of parenting a child with special needs that require extra care and attention. Amidst these pressures, marriages can face significant strain.   In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines, Todd Evans PhD, MA, and Kristin Evans MA, MS, LMSW explore the challenges of raising a child with special needs. Todd and Kristin, authors of “How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities,” share insights on balancing their dreams, their child's needs, and their marriage. They highlight the importance of parents prioritizing mental health and self-care to better support their children. Clear communication, emotional connection, and time management remain essential for effective care. Parents of children with special needs are encouraged to take time for themselves—self-care is crucial for caring for others.   In this episode, you will hear: Why effective communication is important for parents of children with special needs How parents of children with special needs can prioritize their own well-being Healthy ways to recognize the address challenges in caregiving marriages Why it is crucial to have a supportive partner during challenging times How parents can effectively advocate for their child with special needs in school and medical settings Resources from this Episode: Website: https://disabilityparenting.com/ Read: How to Build a Thriving Marriage as You Care for Children with Disabilities Facebook: Kristin.Evans.5895 Twitter: @AuthorKristinEv Instagram: @disabilityparenting  LinkedIn: @Kristin-Evans Engage with us: Join our community: Circle of Care Visit:  https://annettehines.com Read Butterflies and Second Chances LinkedIn: @annette-hines-snc  Instagram: @parentingimpossible Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo   Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.

    44 min
  3. 247: What’s Possible: A Roadmap to Success for Young Adult with Additional Needs | Graham Caldow, Author & Co-Founder of Red Giraffe

    5 SEPT

    247: What’s Possible: A Roadmap to Success for Young Adult with Additional Needs | Graham Caldow, Author & Co-Founder of Red Giraffe

    Transition planning from school to adult life is a crucial aspect of ensuring individuals with additional needs have the support and resources they need to lead fulfilling lives. With the introduction of the new transition planning IEP form, understanding its purpose and how it benefits those in the transition process is essential.   In this episode of Parenting Impossible, Annette Hines and Graham Caldow dive deep into transition planning for young people with disabilities as they prepare for adulthood. Graham, drawing from his personal experiences and his book “What’s Possible? Plan A Better Future for Your Young Adult with Additional Needs,” discusses the importance of a structured yet personalized approach to goal-setting. He emphasizes the importance of involving young people in their own planning, using his “Red Giraffe” tool as both a symbol and a practical example of how transition planning can be tailored to fit each individual's unique needs. Transition planning focuses on setting goals and creating a roadmap to help individuals transition smoothly from school to post-school life, ensuring they have the skills and support needed to find purpose and achieve their goals.   In this episode, you will hear: How the Red Giraffe planning tool can help individuals with disabilities Why regularly assessing and adjusting transition plans matters Finding top programs for smoothly transitioning students into employment Strategies to make sure schools follow through on transition planning Why finding purpose in daily life is crucial for individuals with disabilities Resources from this Episode: Website: www.redgiraffesolutions.com  Read What’s Possible? Plan A Better Future for Your Young Adult with Additional Needs Listen to The Expanding Worlds Podcast Facebook: @redgiraffesolutions Instagram & LinkedIn: @grahamcaldow Pinterest: @Red_Giraffe_Solutions   Engage with us: Join our community: Circle of Care Visit:  https://annettehines.com Read Butterflies and Second Chances LinkedIn: @annette-hines-snc  Instagram: @parentingimpossible Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo   Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.

    40 min
  4. 246: A Caregiver's Guide to Nurturing Resilience | Michelle Mercier, Business Growth Consultant

    29 AUG

    246: A Caregiver's Guide to Nurturing Resilience | Michelle Mercier, Business Growth Consultant

    Being a caregiver is a demanding role that requires immense strength, patience, and compassion. Caregivers often face challenges that can be physically, emotionally, and mentally draining. However, being resilient is crucial for caregivers to navigate the ups and downs of their caregiving journey. In this episode, Annette Hines and Michelle Mercier have an in-depth conversation about what it really means to be resilient as a caregiver. Michelle, a business growth consultant, brings a unique perspective to the table, sharing her thoughts on the tough challenges caregivers face every day. She compares resilience to building a muscle, something that takes consistent effort and practice. As a caregiver, resilience is a powerful tool that can help navigate the challenges and uncertainties of caring for a loved one. By prioritizing self-care, seeking support, and practicing resilience, caregivers can better cope with the demands of their role and continue to provide the best care for their loved ones.    In this episode, you will hear: The importance of resilience for caregivers How to prioritize time freedom over money freedom Why work-life integration is essential for personal well-being How to model self-care habits to benefit children's well-being What challenges are faced by caregivers of children with medical conditions Resources from this Episode:   Website: https://www.MichelleAMercier Facebook: @MichelleAMercier.1 Instagram: @michelle_a_mercier LinkedIn: @michelle-a-mercier   Engage with us: Join our community: Circle of Care Visit:  https://annettehines.com Read Butterflies and Second Chances LinkedIn: @annette-hines-snc  Instagram: @parentingimpossible Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo   Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.

    47 min
  5. 245: IEP vs. 504 Plan: Making the Best Choice For Your Child's Education | April Rehrig, Special Education Advocate and Parent Coach

    22 AUG

    245: IEP vs. 504 Plan: Making the Best Choice For Your Child's Education | April Rehrig, Special Education Advocate and Parent Coach

    Navigating the world of IEPs (Individualized Education Programs)  and 504 Plans can be overwhelming for parents and educators alike. Both IEPs and 504 plans provide essential educational support but differ in their goals, services, eligibility, and duration. IEPs offer specialized instruction with specific objectives and progress monitoring from pre-K through high school, while 504 plans ensure access and equity and can extend through college.   In this episode, Annette Hines and April Rehrig, the founder of Rise Educational Advocacy and Consulting, discuss the strengths and weaknesses of IEPs and 504 plans. April emphasizes the importance of positive language in IEP meetings, advocating for strength-based approaches, and involving students and parents in the planning process. By focusing on strengths, setting high expectations, and fostering a collaborative environment, parents and educators can help students reach their full potential. Join us for an episode that will change how you approach IEPs and 504 Plans. Learn how to advocate for your child using strength-based approaches and collaborative planning.   In this episode, you will hear: The difference between an IEP and a 504 plan How positive language benefits students in IEP meetings Tips for transitioning students from IEPs to college Why it is important to focus on a child's strengths in an IEP How involving students in the IEP planning process empowers them Resources from this Episode:   Website: https://www.riseeducationaladvocacy.com/ Facebook, Instagram, & Pinterest: @riseedadvocacy  LinkedIn: @aprilrehrigspecialeducationadvocate   Engage with us: Join our community: Circle of Care Visit:  https://annettehines.com Read Butterflies and Second Chances LinkedIn: @annette-hines-snc  Instagram: @parentingimpossible Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo   Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.

    43 min

  6. 15 AUG

    244: Your Back to School Checklist for Children with Special Needs

    Are you ready for the new school year?  Back-to-school season can be both exciting and overwhelming for parents, especially those with children who have special needs or medical requirements. From my experience, preparing for a new school year when your child has special needs involves carefully reviewing their IEPs and healthcare plans. It’s really important to go over these and make sure everything’s up to date, and share any progress from summer activities. I’ve learned that building a good relationship with school staff and service providers makes a huge difference. It helps to start those conversations early, have open communication, and be your child’s biggest advocate. While the process can seem daunting, it's important to remember that supportive teams do exist. Finding these "gems" is key to creating a positive and enriching educational experience for your child. In this episode, you will hear: The importance of reviewing IEP/ISPs, healthcare plans, and progress notes to prepare children with special needs for the new school year. How parents can build supportive, collaborative relationships with school staff and service providers. Why understanding healthcare protocols and emergency procedures for the safety of children with medical needs at school is crucial. How parents can identify positive, supportive teams in educational and adult support programs.   Engage with us: Join our community: Circle of Care Visit: Annette Hines Read Butterflies and Second Chances LinkedIn: @annette-hines-snc  Instagram: @parentingimpossible Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo   Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.

    23 min
  7. 243: Tailored Financial Planning for Children with Disabilities | James Lange, CPA/Attorney, Author, & Parent of Daughter with A Disability

    8 AUG

    243: Tailored Financial Planning for Children with Disabilities | James Lange, CPA/Attorney, Author, & Parent of Daughter with A Disability

    Parents naturally want to make sure their child with disabilities is well taken care of, both now and in the future. It's not just about meeting the day-to-day needs but also thinking ahead to their long-term financial security. There's a lot to juggle—from managing medical expenses to planning for their financial future. It can feel pretty overwhelming and complicated. In this episode, host Annette Hines welcomes financial planning expert, James Lange, to discuss the crucial need for specialized financial planning for parents of children with disabilities. James emphasizes the importance of working with advisors who understand the unique financial needs of these families and securing government benefits like SSI or SSDI to ensure long-term support. The conversation covers essential legal documents such as wills and trusts, and James offers a free copy of his book, “Retire Secure for Parents of a Child with a Disability,” packed with strategies for financial planning. Annette and James delve into the practical and emotional aspects of financial security, reflecting on how proactive planning can provide peace of mind and a brighter future for children with disabilities.   In this episode, you will hear: The importance of collaborating with specialized financial planners and tax advisors for families with children with disabilities Key government benefits essential for the financial support of children with disabilities The necessity of creating appropriate wills, trusts, and powers of attorney tailored for children with disabilities How proper financial planning can alleviate anxiety for parents raising children with disabilities Why it is important to involve the child in the financial planning process Resources from this Episode: Free digital copy of Retire Secure for Parents of a Child with a Disability Website: https://DisabledChildPlanning.com Facebook:  @RothRevolution Twitter/X: @rothguy  LinkedIn:@jameslangecpa Other Sites:https://PayTaxesLater.com Engage with us: Join our community: Circle of Care Visit:  https://annettehines.com Read Butterflies and Second Chances LinkedIn: @annette-hines-snc  Instagram: @parentingimpossible Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo   Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.

    39 min
  8. 242: No One Tells You About Parenting a Disabled Child | Kelley Coleman, Author, Advocate, Mom

    1 AUG

    242: No One Tells You About Parenting a Disabled Child | Kelley Coleman, Author, Advocate, Mom

    The journey of caregiving is a delicate dance of emotions and responsibilities, especially for parents of disabled children who face societal pressures. Home and community care services provide essential support and respite, allowing families to maintain a safe environment and caregivers to recharge. Self-care, such as meditation or exercise, is critical for caregivers to sustain their well-being and continue their responsibilities.   In this episode, host Annette Hines sits with Kelley Coleman as she shares her journey of parenting a disabled child, revealing how it led her to write "No One Tells You About Parenting a Disabled Child: Your Guide to the Essential Systems, Services, and Supports." Kelley expresses the importance of accessing accurate information and insights directly from individuals with disabilities to combat stigma and misconceptions. Her book serves as a practical guide for caregivers, filled with invaluable checklists, personal stories, and strategies for self-care, effective communication, and advocacy. Kelley and Annette bond over their shared love for practical tools, discussing the significance of job training in caregiving and urging caregivers to establish boundaries and prioritize their well-being. They reflect on their own experiences, the emotional toll of caregiving, and the power of a supportive community.   In this episode, you will hear: Why it is important to seek insights from individuals with disabilities Addressing the challenges faced by parents of disabled children How caregivers can prioritize self-care and establish boundaries Why it is important to advocate for home and community-based care services What resources are available for caregivers of children with disabilities Resources from this Episode: Kelley Coleman: www.kelleycoleman.com  Facebook:  @kelley.coleman.56 Instagram: @hellokelleycoleman    Engage with us: Join our community: Circle of Care Visit:  https://annettehines.com Read Butterflies and Second Chances LinkedIn: @annette-hines-snc  Instagram: @parentingimpossible Facebook: @SpecialNeedsCompanies Twitter: @SpecialNeedsCo   Follow and Review: We’d love for you to follow us if you haven’t yet. Click that purple '+' in the top right corner of your Apple Podcasts app. We’d love it even more if you could drop a review or 5-star rating over on Apple Podcasts. Simply select “Ratings and Reviews” and “Write a Review” then a quick line with your favorite part of the episode. It only takes a second and it helps spread the word about the podcast.

    48 min
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Welcome to Parenting Impossible, the podcast dedicated to empowering and supporting the disability community. Hosted by Annette Hines, this podcast was born out of a mission to combat the scattered and sometimes inaccurate information that parents and caregivers of disabled adult children often face.In each episode, we delve into the pressing questions and concerns that weigh on the minds of the entire special needs community including those with autism, intellectual disabilities, physical disabilities, mental health issues and more. From navigating the complexities of special needs trusts and planning for the future to addressing the fundamental question of "How will my child be okay when I cannot do this anymore?"—we leave no stone unturned.Attorney Annette Hines is a special needs mom, author of the best-selling book Butterflies and Second Chances, national expert speaker, writer and contributor to publications, and founder of the Special Needs Law Group based In Massachusetts. She shares personal insights and her guests (parents, siblings, and experts and sometimes parents who are experts!) discuss many issues facing the special needs community including raising children with different abilities, transitioning into adulthood, sibling challenges and how to effectively navigate the complex systems in our world. We're not just here to talk; we're here to make a difference.In a society where the disabled and their caregivers are often devalued, Parenting Impossible stands as a beacon of advocacy and support dedicated to giving compassionate advice for all stages of life. Join us as we tackle the challenges, break down barriers, and strive to create a more informed and compassionate world for the disability community. Because when it comes to parenting in the face of impossibility, you're not alone—we're here with you.

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