Not Alone Today Podcast

Joseph and Anu Ola
Not Alone Today Podcast Podcast

Not Alone Today Podcast is a podcast for young adults and teenagers — a platform where their everyday questions are responded to biblically and practically. The hosts, Joseph and Anu Ola are the hosts of Alive Mentorship Group — an online mentoring platform where young adults learn practical life lessons across geographical barriers as Joseph and Anu share unreservedly from their life experiences.

  1. S5E03 - Avoiding Distractions in a Long-Distance Marriage

    10/08/2023

    S5E03 - Avoiding Distractions in a Long-Distance Marriage

    Avoiding Distractions in a Long-Distance Marriage Not Alone Today Podcast | Season 5 Episode 3 Welcome back to another episode of the Not Alone Today podcast! In this episode, Nike asks a follow-up question to Timothy's question which we treated in the last episode (titled When a Couple's Attraction Wanes). Nike asks, “How can I maintain focus and keep the attraction alive in my long-distance marriage? I'm feeling emotionally confused and relying on my faith for support. I can't help but notice other attractive guys, but I've accepted the reality of our separation. 🤷🏻‍♀️ Managing three kids alone leaves me exhausted in the evenings, and sometimes I fall asleep before calling him. He always wants to talk, but I can't always find the time. 🫣 What should I do about these distractions and the temptation of other attractive men? 👀😁” Some Resources Mentioned in the episode: Couply - a mobile app that helps couples connect and build stronger relationships NIV Couples' Devotional Bible S5E02 - When a Couple's Attraction Wanes Biblical Insight  We highlighted Philippians 4:8-9 as a guardrail to implementing the ideas and tips shared in the episode. How to Listen to the Episode https://www.josephkolawole.org/notalonetoday For More Resources from Joseph and Anu Ola Follow us on social media and explore more insightful content and resources. ✥ Linktree —⁠ ⁠https://linktr.ee/josephola⁠⁠  ✥ Disha Page —⁠ ⁠https://josephola.disha.page/⁠⁠ Join the "Not Alone Today" Community Stay connected with us as we journey together through life issues, constantly reminding one another that we are Not Alone Today. You can like our Facebook page at⁠ ⁠⁠https://www.facebook.com/notalonetoday⁠ or join Alive Mentorship Group at ⁠https://www.facebook.com/groups/alivementorship⁠. If you have questions or topics you'd like us to explore in future episodes, you can submit them through our website — ⁠https://www.josephkolawole.org/contact⁠ or reach out on social media. Remember, you are not alone on this journey, and God's grace is sufficient to strengthen and guide you through any challenges that arise.

    19 min
  2. S5E02 - When a Couple's Attraction Wanes

    02/08/2023

    S5E02 - When a Couple's Attraction Wanes

    When a Couple's Attraction Wanes Not Alone Today Podcast | Season 5 Episode 2 Welcome back to another episode of the Not Alone Today podcast! In this episode, we dive into a question from a listener named Timothy who asks, “How can I handle the situation when I find myself getting less attracted to my wife due to certain habits or attitudes she wouldn't change? Communication is a major challenge between us. I value class and taste, while she seems more laid-back about appearances. How can I address this and understand her perspective better?” Timothy's question revolves around how to handle the situation when he feels less attracted to his wife due to her unwillingness to change certain habits and attitudes. He also seeks guidance on addressing the issue of communication challenges and understanding his wife's perspective better. Some Key Highlights The importance of valuing what God values in a marriage The significance of communication, vulnerability, and acceptance in fostering a loving and harmonious relationship. The power of laughter and finding joy in everyday moments to strengthen the connection between partners. Embracing each other's unique traits and differences rather than trying to change one another. Biblical Insight  Drawing from 1 Peter 3, we emphasise the value of inner beauty—a calm and gentle spirit—as being precious in the eyes of God. This insight encourages spouses to focus on the beauty that comes from within and align their values with what God values. Practical Tips Encourage open and honest communication in the relationship, with a focus on understanding each other rather than trying to make a point. Find creative ways to express love languages to one another, making correction more romantic than confrontational. Embrace each other's differences and learn to find joy in them, recognising that attraction evolves over time. How to Listen to the Episode https://www.josephkolawole.org/notalonetoday For More Resources from Joseph and Anu Ola Follow us on social media and explore more insightful content and resources. ✥ Linktree — ⁠https://linktr.ee/josephola⁠  ✥ Disha Page — ⁠https://josephola.disha.page/⁠ Join the "Not Alone Today" Community Stay connected with us as we journey together through life issues, constantly reminding one another that we are Not Alone Today. You can like our Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/notalonetoday or join Alive Mentorship Group at https://www.facebook.com/groups/alivementorship. If you have questions or topics you'd like us to explore in future episodes, you can submit them through our website — https://www.josephkolawole.org/contact or reach out on social media. Remember, you are not alone on this journey, and God's grace is sufficient to strengthen and guide you through any challenges that arise.

    30 min
  3. S4E02 - Help! My Husband Lies to Me

    01/06/2022

    S4E02 - Help! My Husband Lies to Me

    In today's episode, we respond to Betty's question sent in from East Africa. Her main question goes thus: "Pastor, I need your help. I've been married to a man I believe is God's will for my life for a couple of years. However, I have observed in recent times that my husband lies to me and hardly apologises! There are so many decisions we make as a family but sometimes he goes against them and, in turn, lies to me instead. I am so fed up. I feel it's not healthy for me, especially as we are currently expecting our first child. To be fair to him, he had previously confessed to me that while he was growing up, he never felt loved because both his parents passed on while he was still very young. However, the fact that he lacked any significant parental love while growing up seems to be affecting him in marriage. It also meant that he didn't grow up with a model of what a man does to his wife. Sometimes, when I am feeling down and in need of his support and encouragement, he doesn't know what to do. Yet, I feel like I need him sometimes to show me that he's concerned or understands how I feel, but he doesn't seem to care about it. As for me, I grew up around both my parents, so I am here battling in my mind about how I think "he's supposed to do this and that" or "this should come naturally to him" but those things are not happening. I am confused and need your help." We discussed this in the episode, among other things, an exposition on 1 Peter 2 and 3 while also offering some practical insights into Betty's question. You can click on any of the links to listen . . . and please, remember to share. ✥ Joseph's Website — https://www.josephkolawole.org/notalonetoday/ ✥ Other Podcast Platforms — https://pod.link/1537774506 FOR MORE RESOURCES FROM JOSEPH & ANU OLA https://linktr.ee/josephola https://josephola.disha.page/

    31 min

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Not Alone Today Podcast is a podcast for young adults and teenagers — a platform where their everyday questions are responded to biblically and practically. The hosts, Joseph and Anu Ola are the hosts of Alive Mentorship Group — an online mentoring platform where young adults learn practical life lessons across geographical barriers as Joseph and Anu share unreservedly from their life experiences.

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