Dr. Simone’s Mind Space

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Dr. Simone’s Mind Space

Intersection of medical science and psychology, research and clinical practice insights for daily life.

  1. 17. NOV.

    Lost in translation despite language mastering

    Spending another research trip in beloved Shanghai, yet feel as lonely as one can feel. Arriving in the city, the central business airport and I’m the only western person passing migration. Such an experience is very interesting, yet l certainly challenging, lonely, and lost in translation, despite the language proficiency. There is something difficult to put the finger on, but it’s a small mutual nominator that’s just not present. Therefore it’s very challenging to make oneself understood, even if speaking the same language. Especially, this doesn’t only apply to China, but places and countries, where the optical look of the person speaking the language don’t overlap. People per default don’t assume someone like me, a white woman speaking fluent Mandarin. It’s our inner stereotypes that mess with us. These stereotypes have been established over our lifetime and are short cuts for the brain to handle the vast information we’re exposed to. Nothing, a child learns earlier, then recognising the parents’ faces. Even the slightest changes have a profound effect on the facial recognition. It is potentially therefore, I wonder, that people have a harder time placing language and look, when it’s not matching their inner mental map. Many small interaction components are quite different, depending on the culture, such as minimal responses, gestures, and gazes. These components can all contribute to miss understandings and miss-interpretations. Then in addition, it depends on face values and how important it is to save face, a cultural difference among East and West. It refers to the ease of whether to dare to try and communicate even if the consequence is loosing face in public. @drschwank @unesurcent

    8 Min.
  2. 25. OKT.

    Perinatal depression: On why it’s ok to say I hate my child sometimes

    Perinatal depression is a common challenge for new parents, one in 10 was the common standard. Perinatal mental health problems have however significantly increased during the pandemic, up to almost every other pregnant and postpartum women struggling with depression and anxiety. It is a dark place for the entire family, the couple, and the individuals. An untreated perinatal depression causes longterm consequences on the child’s mental health. Something that can with relatively little effort be avoided, if assessed early, the parent getting the nurture and outlet of someone listening and containing non-judgmental and fully present. It can feel awful and horrible as a parent to feel negatively and hating one’s own child, that was often extremely wanted, yet when struggling with perinatal depression one simply doesn’t have the resources to do so. Parents not struggling with perinatal depression at times can also feel that way. Being angry at times at your child is normal, children trigger our own inner child and childhood needs that haven’t been met. It’s important how to resolve a situation as such, not avoid that by all means.   Steps to get out: Seek professional help early. Get support and take the oxygen mask self first to help your child. Self care is essential to nurture and care yourself. Join a group of supportive non judgmental women and/or men. @drschwank @unesurcent @optimalperformancezurich

    4 Min.

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