CALL OF BOOTY with Sid & Devi Devi

Today's romance scene might be better than ever & we might be ruining it by playing games with our very own selves! On this episode we discuss "Prevalence Induced Concept Change" and the amount of mental re-framing we can employ on a daily basis to improve our love lives. 

Follow along:

- Tinder is versatile af

- Your threshold for happiness

- Nothing is wrong = something is wrong

- Equal opportunity arguments

- Calm fight prevention, nah, can't relate

- Technology doesn't suck but you do

- Scrolling & trolling the newsfeed

- Jay & Bey are fighting like dogs & cats too

- We are chasing the wrong thing

- Content but no context

- Those fucking travel couples!!

- Your online activity needs some regulation

- These algorithms are getting the best of me

- Social media detox & cleanse

- Does eating more count as higher productivity?

- The upside to divorce

- Redefining "failed marriage"

- Unhappy together vs unhappy alone

- Even toxic relationships give you direction


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Love Is Blind, But This Pod Is Lit!! Sid has indulged us by joining in on Netflix's 'Love is Blind' viewing frenzy & some late night texts of his incredulity has inspired this episode. You don't need to watch all 10 episodes, consider this the spark notes. 

Oh, and Welcome to Season 3 of Call of Booty.

- When you want in on the group chat

- Oh, it's real

- There's too many choices, I'm fatigued

- Now I'm doing a 180

- This is how they do down in the ATL

- Gilligan's Island up in here

- Your odor matters

- The most offensive person at the gym

- The most hated cast member of all time

- Why do players prevail?

- To challenge and be a challenge

- The next cities this show needs to be in

- What Love Is Blind LA, SF & NY would be like

- Is it just me or is it the editing?

- Our predictions of whose gonna last

- Drunk AF here in my pod

- Who really needs to be hosting this show tho

- Payday stats, we need to know

- Ok, ok, fine, I can be bought

- The purest dating show you'll ever see

- Key phrases that will get you far in life

- How to survive in Japan


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How is this tech shit actually going to play out? Is it gonna help or hinder us? We discuss near-future tech innovations and what this means for finding love and matters of the heart.

We cover:

- The zombie apocalypse has arrived

- International dating, no passport required

- VR dating on a budget

- Major concerns about VR & food

- My lazy ass wants to VR

- VR'ing at Trader Joe's

- Catfishing

- Pre-screening people wit VR

- How your broke ass will afford VR goggles

- Cock blocking tech malfunctions

- Bad but extremely memorable IRL situations

- Happy accidents

- The future is an episode of Black Mirror

- AI ain't that smart

- Fucked up times build character

- High-level enabling

- Who AI match making actually benefits

- You on paper vs you in real life

- Genetic disease & baby-making deal breakers

- What we're notposting on social media

- We need some societal team players

- More entrepreneurial app ideas

- Back to basics: old school dating methods

- The politics of blind dating

- LinkedIn, your new love-finding tool

- Thedating app integration idea dating app companies will thank us for

- Technology is a mother

- Join us in our class action lawsuit against 5G!



Follow along with the articles referenced:

VR: https://www.eharmony.co.uk/dating-advice/dating/experts-predict-what-dating-will-be-like-by-2040

AIMM & DNA-based matching: https://hackernoon.com/how-cutting-edge-tech-is-changing-online-dating-forever-sl1hh30sh


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Not only are we tolerating bad societal & dating behavior, we're perpetuating it. In this episode, we talk the major problems & some solid solutions.



Let's get down to it:

- Fake Lesbians

- The men suck movement

- Major tangent alert! courtesy of Sid

- Your childhood is ruining your dating life

- Human adaptation is too good that now it's bad

- "She's crazy" tangent (it's only Tuesday & it's been a long week)

- The most bothersome behavior

- Britney vs Christina

- Flirty girlfriends

- Why it doesn't pay to be a "cool girl"

- "He should do that" entitlement

- When you take advice from viral memes

- Men x materialism: the epidemic

- The VERY BEST way to put a superficial man in his place

- The psychology behind "u up?" texts

- People are not Postmates

- How to respond to a "u up?" text

- Don't blame it on the crazy

- Don't underestimate the impact

- The #1 reason for cheating

- Once again, our jobs are killing our romantic lives

- Is your marriage to your career or spouse?

- Unacceptable condom behavior

- Be willing to lose if he does THIS

- This is the change we need!

- Free product endorsement


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She don't need you, she don't need nobody. But is this phenomenon a good or bad thing?



We weigh in:

- Can't have your cake & eat it too

- We need some hard & fast rules

- Feminists still want you to pay for their meal

- We're teaching our girls the wrong thing

- Men are getting cut out of the equation

- The New Rebellion

- Can't stand each other --> Understand each other

- What "free meals" are really all about

- We're conditioning a monster

- The ever-existing sexual double standard

- The bigger the body count, the bigger the issues

- The slut shame game

- What their sexual past means

- The Goldilocks number on your body count

- New trend alert: eunuch-shaming

- Be fucking grateful

- We are walking memes

- Bad dating habits we need to retire

- Are we actually trying to be together?

- There's some anger below the surface

- Vengeance on the one person that did you dirty

- It's not a competition

- Never say this again about women


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We might be tired of our dating culture here, so what exactly is it like overseas?? What can men (and women) learn from our European counterparts? Join in & taste the foreign flavor with us & a special guest in this episode.

We're covering:

- Texting styles of the foreigners

- Cut out the BS wit a binary dating system

- Commit first, get to know them later

- Commitment-phobic, vet-happy Americans

- How the continents play hard to get

- The sweet side of ghosting

- Good ol' American work hard, play hard (to get)

- A culture of suspicion

- Which country is noticeably sexually charged

- Being PC kills sexuality

- Not everything is #metoo

- Is that a compliment or a come-on?

- (way too) Independent, wit liberty & justice for all...

- How the continents showcase masculinity

- European geographical advantages

- The Scandinavian countries are on to something

- Oh those foreign languages

- Ladies first: women making the first move

- For the last time, friendliness is not always flirtation

- Compliments that won't get misinterpreted

- What romance looks like in America

- The emotionless epidemic in this country

- Which cultures are nailing passion

- The wrong outfit for a movie

- The real reason for man purses

- An in-depth look at man buns

- The actual thing that makes a difference in your sex life

- Sexual wisdom & awareness

- Trending porn by country

- The red light districts

- Sex & religion can coexist



We also reference this lovely article:

https://www.pornhub.com/insights/2018-year-in-review#countries


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