Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed

Divorce Shield

This is a podcast for MEN who are thinking about divorce, in the middle of a divorce, or are recovering from divorce. You will get advice from experts and hear inspirational stories of men who have survived divorce. Learn more at www.mensdivorcenetwork.com

  1. 115. Finding Clarity After Divorce with Personal Development Coach Katie Jordan

    16 MAY

    115. Finding Clarity After Divorce with Personal Development Coach Katie Jordan

    Divorce isn’t just the end of a relationship—it’s the beginning of rebuilding a life that finally feels like yours. In this episode, personal development coach Katie Jordan joins us for an honest and heartfelt conversation about grief, growth, and finding clarity after divorce. Katie opens up about the wave of personal loss she endured and how she found her way through all of it while becoming a more present, purposeful parent and a guide for others going through similar pain. She shares what it really looks like to rebuild your life when you're emotionally wiped out, how to parent with intention even when it’s hard, and why giving yourself grace is key to moving forward. If you're struggling to trust yourself again, to stop caring what others think, or to simply figure out the next step, this episode is for you. In this conversation, we discuss: ✅ How Katie turned deep grief and divorce into a new purpose ✅ What helped her build a peaceful co-parenting relationship with her ex ✅ How to talk to your child about divorce (and what not to do) ✅ Setting boundaries, protecting your energy, and keeping kids out of adult issues ✅ Learning to trust yourself again when everything feels uncertain ✅ Why building a support system is essential and how to find your “tribe” ✅ Tools Katie uses to help clients stop people-pleasing and start rebuilding confidence ✅ Creating structure with small daily habits that lead to big transformation ✅ Reprogramming your mindset with routines, affirmations, and intentional self-talk ✅ What real self-reflection looks like and why it's the foundation for your next chapter ✅ Why coaching works ✅ And so much more! If you're ready to move from heartbreak to healing, this episode will meet you where you are—and help you take the first step forward. Follow Katie on Instagram: @butterflytribeblueprint https://www.instagram.com/butterflytribeblueprint/ Find Katie on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/KatieKuhnJordan Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!

    43 min
  2. 114. Rebuilding After Rock Bottom with Entrepreneur Regie Tiu

    9 MAY

    114. Rebuilding After Rock Bottom with Entrepreneur Regie Tiu

    From growing up in poverty in the Philippines to building a thriving wellness business in the U.S., Regie Tiu is the definition of resilience. In this episode, he shares how he went from rock bottom, with just $50 in his pocket, to becoming a successful entrepreneur and divorced dad who’s living life on his own terms. Regie opens up about his humble beginnings, how childhood adversity shaped his mindset, and how he rebuilt his life and business after going through one of the toughest personal challenges: divorce. This is an inspiring and deeply honest conversation about the lessons no one teaches you—about marriage, fatherhood, self-awareness, and the power of personal development. If you’re a man navigating life after divorce and wondering what’s next, this episode is for you. In this episode, we talk about: ✅ Regie’s powerful story of overcoming poverty, bullying, and adversity ✅ How growing up in the streets of Manila prepared him for entrepreneurship ✅ Why personal development is critical for growth—both in life and in relationships ✅ The importance of company culture and hiring people who align with your values ✅ What he wishes he knew before getting married ✅ Cultural pressures, family dynamics, and how they impacted his relationship ✅ How money (and avoiding hard conversations about it) affected his divorce ✅ The dangers of ignoring red flags before marriage ✅ Why it’s smart to consider living together before tying the knot ✅ His take on prenuptial agreements and why finances must be discussed openly ✅ The damage that comes from avoiding responsibility as a father after divorce ✅ His honest advice for men who are dating, divorcing, or healing ✅ Why emotional fitness is just as important as physical fitness ✅ And much more! Don’t miss this conversation—it’s real, raw, and packed with wisdom for any man looking to rebuild stronger after divorce.⭐ Special Offer from Regie Tiu – Exclusive for Our Listeners ⭐ Regie is offering an exclusive opportunity to support you on your journey forward. If you’re in the healthcare field and own a practice, he’s offering a free scholarship to his membership program, where he helps practice owners grow their businesses without burnout. Not in healthcare? No problem—Regie is also offering a free one-on-one call to listeners outside the industry who need guidance, inspiration, or someone to talk to. To apply, message Regie directly on Instagram, Facebook, or LinkedIn and share why you believe you should receive the scholarship. Follow Regie on Instagram: @regie.tiu https://www.instagram.com/regie.tiu/ Find Regie on Facebook: @regie.tiu8 https://www.facebook.com/regie.tiu8 Find Regie on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/regietiu/ Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!

    56 min
  3. 113. Navigating the Housing Market with Real Estate Expert Brittany Racine

    25 APR

    113. Navigating the Housing Market with Real Estate Expert Brittany Racine

    This week, we’re diving into the unpredictable real estate market with Brittany Racine — a powerhouse realtor, TV host, and single mom who’s no stranger to starting over. After going through a tough divorce and a failed business, Brittany turned her setbacks into fuel for her comeback. In this candid and insightful episode, Brittany breaks down what’s really happening in real estate right now and what you need to know if you’re selling or buying a home during or after divorce. We talk about: 🎙️ Why this spring has been one of the strangest real estate seasons in years 🎙️ What’s really driving the market’s uncertainty — and how to stay smart in the chaos 🎙️ Whether now is the right time to sell or buy (and what to watch out for) 🎙️ Why divorcing couples should never advertise they’re getting divorced when selling a home 🎙️ How to choose a realtor with the right experience 🎙️ The truth about commissions from a realtor’s point of view 🎙️ Tips for avoiding disputes with your ex over the home sale 🎙️ How staging affects your final sale price 🎙️ The collaboration between realtors and real estate attorneys 🎙️ The key terms divorcing couples should agree on before listing their home 🎙️ How Brittany turned her own divorce into a stepping stone for success — and what she wants others going through divorce to know Whether you’re thinking about selling your marital home or just want to make smarter real estate decisions during a transition, this episode is packed with tips, red flags, and inspiration. Learn more about Brittany at linktr.ee/brittanyracine Follow Brittany on Instagram: @brittanyracine_ https://www.instagram.com/brittanyracine_/ Follow Brittany on TikTok: @brittanyracine643 https://www.tiktok.com/@brittanyracine643 Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!

    51 min
  4. 112. What It Means to Be a Man After Divorce with Leadership Coach Lee Povey

    18 APR

    112. What It Means to Be a Man After Divorce with Leadership Coach Lee Povey

    What does it really mean to be a man after divorce? In this deeply insightful episode, high-performance leadership coach and long-time men’s group facilitator Lee Povey joins us to explore how men can reclaim and redefine their identity post-divorce. Drawing from nearly 30 years of leading men’s support groups, as well as his own life experiences—including growing up with a narcissistic father and going through personal transformation—Lee brings honest, empowering insight to the conversation around modern masculinity. If you're a man who feels confused, lost, or emotionally drained after divorce—even though you did “all the right things” like providing, working hard, and checking the boxes society told you to—this episode is for you. We talk about how to rebuild from the inside out, what it truly means to live as an authentic man in today’s world, and how finding the right kind of support can change the game for you as a father, partner, and human being. In this episode, we discuss: ✅ Why being a man today looks so different than it did for previous generations✅ The cultural pressure on men to "provide" rather than connect—and how that disconnect shows up in relationships✅ How to reframe your sense of identity and purpose after a painful divorce✅ Why emotional expression and self-reflection are strengths, not weaknesses✅ What authentic masculinity actually looks like—and why it’s different for every man✅ Why support groups and community are essential for a man to heal after divorce✅ Tips for finding the right group or therapist to start your healing process✅ The harmful influence of social media on men’s mental health and self-image✅ What first steps you can take to begin working on yourself✅ Recommended resources to start your emotional growth journey This conversation will challenge you to think differently about who you are and who you want to become. Don't miss it! To learn more about Lee and his coaching programs, go to https://www.leepovey.com/ Follow Lee on Instagram: @leepovey https://www.instagram.com/leepovey/?hl=enStay tuned for more empowering conversations!

    46 min
  5. 111. What Every Divorcing Dad Should Know with Family Lawyer Ariel Peres, Esq.

    11 APR

    111. What Every Divorcing Dad Should Know with Family Lawyer Ariel Peres, Esq.

    What happens when a professional nanny becomes a divorce lawyer who advocates for dads? You get someone who really gets parenting after divorce—and today’s guest does exactly that. In this episode of Get Divorced Without Getting Screwed, we are joined by Ariel Peres, Esq., a California-based family law attorney who represents men in divorce and custody disputes. Before she became a lawyer, Ariel spent over a decade as a professional nanny, including for families going through divorce. She’s seen firsthand what helps kids thrive—and what doesn’t—when parents split. We dive into practical and empowering advice for fathers who want to show up for their kids, get a fair outcome, and navigate co-parenting like a pro, especially when false allegations or outdated assumptions get in the way. We dive into: ✅ What Ariel learned about kids and parenting through divorce after being a professional nanny for 14 years ✅ The #1 issue men face when they become single fathers ✅ How to respond to common parenting criticisms against dads in custody disputes ✅ Why mastering day-to-day parenting tasks is crucial for more parenting time ✅ What you need to ask and think about before agreeing to a time-sharing schedule ✅ Steps men can take before divorce begins to increase the chances of a fair custody outcome ✅ Why asking for help is a strength, not a weakness—and how a divorce coach can make a difference ✅ Smart timing for introducing your new romantic partner to your kids (hint: don’t rush it) Whether you’re already in the thick of it or just starting to think about divorce, this conversation offers actionable tips, smart strategies, and a refreshing perspective that puts kids—and your relationship with them—first. Learn more about Ariel and her areas of expertise here: https://www.peresfamilylaw.com/ To book a consultation, email Ariel first at ariel@peresfamilylaw.com Follow Ariel on Instagram: @arielfayewilliams https://www.instagram.com/arielfayewilliams/ Stay tuned for more empowering conversations!

    43 min

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This is a podcast for MEN who are thinking about divorce, in the middle of a divorce, or are recovering from divorce. You will get advice from experts and hear inspirational stories of men who have survived divorce. Learn more at www.mensdivorcenetwork.com

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