Butt Honestly with Doctor Carlton and Dangilo

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Butt Honestly with Doctor Carlton and Dangilo

Doctor Carlton, The internet's favorite gay, Mayo Clinic trained board certified gastroenterologist and mouthy yet sensitive gay guy, Dangilo Brian Bonilla tackle the messy life challenges that Sex, Socializing, Love and Buff Stuff present in the lives of LGBTQ+ men and their friends.

  1. 11 HR AGO

    Turkey, Foreskin, and Gym Sauna Shenanigans-21

    This Thanksgiving, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are serving up a feast of laughs, advice, and gratitude in a special holiday episode you won’t want to miss. Dr. Carlton kicks things off with his hot take on Gladiator 2—spoiler alert, it’s just as ripped and sweaty as you’d hope...maybe? Dangilo dives into the fabulousness of the La Cage production at the Pasadena Playhouse, and the duo ponders the real question on everyone’s mind: Is getting stuffed the true spirit of Thanksgiving? In honor of World AIDS Day, the guys take a moment to share valuable information and reflect on community resilience and support—a much-needed reminder of what really matters. Of course, the listener questions are as spicy as ever. One Icelandic listener slides in with a foreskin query that has the guys shedding light on a topic often kept in the dark. Another listener asks for advice on jumping back into the dating pool at 60—because it's never too late to shake things up! And if you’ve ever wondered about the fine art of gym sauna cruising etiquette, the guys break it down with a mix of sass and sage advice. To wrap things up, Dr. C. and Dangilo share what they’re most thankful for this Thanksgiving—proving that even in a podcast packed with hilarity and heat, there’s always room for heart. So grab a plate (and maybe a towel), and join the fun for an episode that's as satisfying as your favorite holiday leftovers. 🦃✨ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 16m
  2. 20 NOV

    A**l (and election) Aftercare- 20

    This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo kick off with a dose of election talk—just enough to keep you informed but not overwhelmed! They dive into the buzz around the new social app Bluesky, pondering if it’s the next big thing or just another blue check in the vast sea of apps. The duo also shares highlights from their recent travels, with Dr. C. giving us the scoop on his Georgia escapades and D reporting back from the theme-park capital, Orlando. And, of course, it wouldn’t be Butt Honestly without a few juicy listener questions! This episode features an international shout-out, as a UK listener asks about a**l aftercare—what’s essential, what’s overkill, and the golden rules for keeping it clean down there. From dos and don’ts to aftercare rituals, the guys cover it all in their no-nonsense way. They also tackle a question that’s all too relatable: how to find playmates when you’re stuck in a small town. Tips for tapping into local connections (and making the most of every opportunity!) are shared with a side of humor. Then, it’s time for another update from Trampaige—is his long-distance romance going strong or heading for the nearest cliff? Wrapping it all up is their “Love Language” segment, where the guys dish on what’s making their hearts (and yours!) swoon this week. And remember—send in your Love Language to be part of the fun! So grab your headphones, sit back, and enjoy an episode full of laughs, love, and a little lube on the side! https://www.instagram.com/butthonestlypod/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 10m
  3. 13 NOV

    The Mesmerizing Goddess Sydney-19

    This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are joined by none other than the mesmerizing Goddess Sydney—a powerhouse Dominatrix, Fetish Artist, and BD/SM aficionado with two decades of experience in the kink world and 12 years as a professional Domme. With appearances on The Dr. Suzy Show, awards for “Best Medical Domination” and BDSM fiction, and interviews in countless publications, Goddess Sydney is the real deal. Tune in as the guys get an inside scoop on what drew her into this unique world and what it truly means to be a lifestyle BD/SM fetishist. Plus, she reveals the artistry, precision, and empowerment behind her craft—think it’s all leather and whips? Think again! And of course, with the Goddess in the house, they tackle some juicy listener questions. One listener panics over an HPV and STI scare, and another seeks advice on coming out as a gay man later in life—Sydney’s got insights that are as thoughtful as they are spicy. They even get into the highs and lows of long-distance relationships, with the Goddess offering her take on keeping the fire alive. To wrap things up, Dr. C and Dangilo reveal this week’s “Love Language,” followed by the much-anticipated Part Two of Pig on the Prowl—a steamy tale that’s guaranteed to leave listeners hot under the collar. Buckle up for a wild ride filled with wisdom, wit, and just the right amount of wickedness. Don’t miss it! https://linktr.ee/GoddessSydney Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 21m
  4. 6 NOV

    Pig on the Prowl -18

    This week, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are fresh from their Halloween escapades and ready to spill! From Dr. Carlton’s New York adventures to the latest spooky festivities, the guys bring you all the gory details. Brace yourself as they dive into “Hit It or Quit It” questions that get right to the…bottom of things! They tackle every thing from the perils of rectal discomfort to the risk of massive butt plug. Plus, what’s their take on the internet’s obsession with No Nut November? And, could a curious straight guy be convinced to explore prostate stimulation? Dr. Carlton also takes on a medical deep-dive, answering a listener question about fistulotomy surgery. If you’re wondering about accurate STD testing, they’ve got you covered with expert advice on what to know, when to test, and how to keep it safe and sexy. Of course, the episode wouldn’t be complete without “What’s Your Love Language?”—their signature send-off, full of warm fuzzies and cheeky feels. And, for the grand finale, the guys serve up a steamy, risky story straight from the archives of “Pig on the Prowl.” Let’s just say you might need a cold shower after this one. So grab a drink, settle in, and get ready for an episode packed with laughs, love, and a few too many “pull-out” jokes. It’s an unfiltered Halloween episode you won’t want to miss! https://lgbtqhealthcaredirectory.org https://www.instagram.com/butthonestlypod/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    56 min
  5. 30 OCT

    Locked Thug with Hector Ramirez- 17

    Happy Halloween, spooky listeners! This week on Butt Honestly, Dr. Carlton and Dangilo have conjured up one very special guest for your auditory pleasure—Hector Ramirez, aka the inimitable “Locked Thug.” You might recognize Hector as the “Himbo, sub, cholo PWR BTTM” who has lit up stages from Folsom Street Fair to Kiink.com. This proud Latin jock, recent San Diego transplant, and Colorado’s Prepped spokesperson is ready to spill all—activism, go-go, and his leap from go-go dancer to adult performer. Buckle up; it’s going to be a ride! The guys dive into the art of spooky season, exploring Locktober and, of course, the classic Hit It or Quit It! Hector takes on listener questions with his unique mix of humor and honesty. Got questions about Locktober? Hector and the guys break down the appeal of the locked-up kink just in time for the season. One listener wants to know: how much water is too much water when douching? And what’s the best position for a new bottom? Never fear, Dr. C and Dangilo have the, um, bottom line on all things entry-level. Plus, a listener chimes in asking about the most common side effects of PrEP—and our crew has all the insider tips. As always, they wrap things up with a perfectly spooky take on "What's Your Love Language?" because what’s Halloween without a little love…and maybe a lock or two? Grab your Halloween treat (or trick) and tune in for this irresistibly scandalous episode of Butt Honestly! You won’t want to miss it! 🎃 https://www.instagram.com/locked_thug/ https://www.instagram.com/butthonestlypod/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 21m
  6. 23 OCT

    16-Sweaty Tours, Cruising Rules, and Dildo Diaries

    Ready for a wild ride? Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are back for another packed episode of Butt Honestly, and trust us, it’s one you don’t want to miss. First up, Dr. C spills all the sweaty tea on Charli XCX’s Sweat Tour. Was it a pop masterpiece or just an excuse to work up a sweat? You’ll get the lowdown. Dangilo dives into an article on cruising etiquette, and let’s just say, there’s more to it than meets the eye (or the locker room). The guys break down the dos and don’ts of cruising. Then it’s time for HIT IT or QUIT IT! Ever wondered if regular dildo use makes bottoming a breeze? Dr. C gives us the scoop, and you might just want to grab a notepad. The conversation heats up with the big question: Is Doxy prep the real deal or just another overhyped trend? The guys tackle it all with their signature sass. Listener questions get personal (and a little wild) this week. Someone’s asking if Abilene makes a good lube? And what about herpes medication—how often should you really be taking it? Dr. C gives the straight facts so you’re always prepared, both in the bedroom and out. But the pièce de résistance is a steamy listener story that’s so hot, Dr. C can barely get through it without blushing. Trust us, this one’s got all the heat. As always, they close things out with their feel-good moment, "What’s Your Love Language?"—because after all this talk about dildos and cruising, a little love never hurts. Get ready to laugh, learn, and maybe feel a little scandalized with this week’s episode of Butt Honestly! You won’t want to miss it! Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 2m
  7. 16 OCT

    15-Getting Over The Hump

    Hold onto your butts, because Dr. Carlton and Dangilo are back with an episode that’s as wild as it is informative! This week, Dr. C gives us the full scoop on his trip to Dallas for the fisting conference—yes, you read that right—the infamous Rose Bowl, where he gave a speaking engagement... and made a pit stop at the warehouse party! Dangilo shares the dirty deets from DirtyBear AfterDark, and things get downright juicy. In the mix, the guys dive into a hilarious THEM article, “Straight Men Are Posting About Locktober. Who’s Gonna Tell Them It’s a Chastity Kink?"—and it’s everything you’d expect and more. You’ll laugh, you’ll learn, and you’ll probably be shaking your head at what straight dudes are up to this time. Next, it’s time for another round of "HIT IT & QUIT IT" where they tackle listener questions like, "Do men really enjoy bearded cunnilingus?" and "What should I be mindful of if I’m using Truvada long-term?" Then, during Butt Dials, the questions get personal. A colorectal cancer survivor is ready to bottom again—is he in the clear? One listener asks, “Can I still have sex after hemorrhoids?” Another’s struggling with stubborn a**l fissures—what’s the future of their elasticity down there? And a coupled-up 60-year-old writes in, seeking advice on getting over the mental and physical hurdles of breeding. Packed with humor, heart, and some risqué revelations, this episode is a wild ride from start to finish. So grab a drink, sit back, and enjoy—Butt Honestly has never been this raw! THEM ARTICLE: https://www.them.us/story/straight-men-fitness-bros-tiktok-locktober-trend-chastity-kink-fetish-challenge TRUVADA LAWSUIT INFORMATION: https://www.shouselaw.com/torts/truvada/ Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

    1h 11m

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Doctor Carlton, The internet's favorite gay, Mayo Clinic trained board certified gastroenterologist and mouthy yet sensitive gay guy, Dangilo Brian Bonilla tackle the messy life challenges that Sex, Socializing, Love and Buff Stuff present in the lives of LGBTQ+ men and their friends.

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