#83 - Sleeping Separate vs. Your Relationship

The Matt Walker Podcast

Matt revisits the concept of "sleep divorce," or "sleep separation" in this latest episode, examining its effects on relationships and well-being. He cites studies showing that up to one in four couples in the U.S. and U.K. sleep in separate rooms, a statistic often underestimated due to stigma. While many fear that sleeping apart harms intimacy, Matt presents data indicating that it can actually enhance sleep quality and intimacy by promoting better-rested bodies and increasing hormones like testosterone and estrogen. 

He also discusses new research on the psychology of co-sleeping, revealing that despite poorer sleep quality, many couples feel more satisfied when sharing a bed, driven by a deep-rooted need for social connection, known as "somato longing." This episode encourages listeners to reflect on their own sleep habits and offers advice on discussing sleep separation with partners, emphasizing that the choice to sleep together or apart should prioritize open communication and individual health.

Please note that Matt is not a medical doctor, and none of the content in this podcast should be considered medical advice in any way, shape, or form, nor prescriptive in any way.

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As always, if you have thoughts or feedback you’d like to share, please reach out to Matt on Instagram.

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