從未擁有過和擁有過又失去，哪個更痛?! 化學效應跟合不合適差在哪裡? 講善意的謊言是為了維繫感情?! | REALFAKE 69

總是只能在 REALFAKE 聽到直男的愛情觀，你們也膩了吧?? 今天可不只有臭男生的淺見，而是很榮幸又請到了 Dena 來跟我們聊聊 What is LOVE!! 先從輕鬆的議題開始討論: 愛情是個選擇還是一種感覺? 感情的化學效應和相容性有甚麼不同? 「曾經擁有但被傷害過」真的比「不曾擁有過」好嗎? 隨著話題的推進，四位好朋友們的心得分享層面越來越廣、對於愛情的探討也越來越深。其中，很難拿捏分寸及使用情境的「善意的謊言」也被拿出來討論，究竟對另一半該完全誠實以對，還是偶爾該透過善意的謊言來化解危機? 而讓眾多情侶們都深受其擾的「自我成長」和「伴侶間的成長」哪個比較重要、又或者該如何取得平衡? 經過一番唇槍舌戰後，需要音樂的力量來緩和大家的情緒。沒錯，Dena 要來宣傳他的新歌 "What If I" 已經正式上架啦!! 一首療愈心靈的歌曲帶著大家克服焦慮、不安全感、以及如何跟負能量 say NO!!

In this episode, the boys are joined by Dena for a deep debate into love and relationships! They start light by discussing whether love is a choice or a feeling, along with the difference between chemistry and compatibility. But things get deeper as they debate whether it’s truly better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. They also tackle the role of white lies in relationships and when they might actually be necessary. The conversation then shifts to the balance between personal growth and growing together in a relationship—something so many struggle with today. Finally, Dena reveals that her new song, “What If I,” has just been released—a soothing song for overcoming anxieties, insecurities, and defeating the negative thoughts in your head!

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Timestamps:
00:00 INTRO
02:35「愛」是一個選擇還是一個感覺？
08:45 戀愛ing vs. 愛一個人
11:06「化學效應」跟「合不合適」差在哪裡啊？
17:32 化學效應沒有那麼重要？
24:19 愛過又失去 vs. 從來沒愛過
34:20 善意的謊言可以講嗎？
38:13 他今天改不了 你還會繼續講善意的謊言嗎？
45:21 個人成長有比感情升溫還重要嗎？
50:23 人有時候就是要自私一點？
59:10 現在年輕人壓力都很大！
1:05:51 Dena 的新歌 "What If I" 搶先聽！！
1:07:36 ENDING
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