IVF DADDIES

JULIO GAGGIA & RICHARD WESTOBY
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IVF DADDIES

Sometimes it takes a village to make a daddy. IVF Daddies started with one man's pursuit of fatherhood through IVF, egg donation, and surrogacy. Richard Westoby's journey brought him into an incredible community of fertility experts, aspiring parents, and beautifully unique families. A decade after the birth of his children, Richard introduced his partner Julio Gaggia to the wonderful world of family-building—and he has a lot of questions. IVF Daddies is where we explore those big questions. What makes a family? Can you do IVF without losing your sanity or your savings? How do we shatter the s Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ivfdaddies/support

  1. 6 DAYS AGO

    47) CELEBRITY DOCTOR TALKS ABOUT THE MYTHS OF MATERNAL CHOICES

    In this conversation, Dr. Andy Huang discusses the realities of IVF and surrogacy, debunking myths surrounding women's choices in pregnancy and the confidentiality measures taken in fertility clinics. He emphasizes that most women desire to experience pregnancy but may face challenges that lead them to consider surrogacy. Additionally, he highlights the importance of privacy for patients, especially celebrities, and the lengths to which his clinic goes to ensure discretion. Takeaways The majority of women seeking IVF want to experience pregnancy. Surrogacy is often a necessity rather than a choice for many. Confidentiality is a top priority in fertility clinics. Patients are treated equally, regardless of their celebrity status. Privacy measures include private appointments and discreet waiting areas. Many patients are hesitant to discuss their fertility struggles openly. The healthcare system provides robust support for pregnant women. Gestational carriers are often experienced mothers, reducing risks. Celebrities often seek privacy due to public scrutiny. The journey to parenthood can be emotionally challenging for many. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to IVF and Surrogacy Misconceptions 02:54 Understanding the Journey of Fertility Treatments 05:46 Maintaining Confidentiality in Fertility Clinics Keywords IVF, surrogacy, fertility, confidentiality, pregnancy, maternal health, celebrity, healthcare, reproductive health, gestational carrier Sound Bites "We treat everybody the same here." "It's nobody's business; it's them." "It's an honor to be here today." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ivfdaddies/support

    9 min

  2. 30 OCT

    46) STEPPARENTING IN THE GAY WORLD

    It's hard to open up about personal life. Social media can be a source of support. Divorce can lead to new beginnings. Children's feelings should guide parenting decisions. Being a stepdad comes with unique challenges. Communication is key in co-parenting. Setting boundaries is essential for harmony. Quality time strengthens family bonds. Understanding roles in blended families is crucial. Respecting the other parent's role fosters cooperation. In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, hosts Julio and Junior delve into the complexities of parenting, co-parenting, and the unique challenges faced by step-parents. They share personal stories and insights about navigating relationships, setting boundaries, and the importance of communication in blended families. The conversation highlights the emotional weight of parenting decisions and the joy of building meaningful connections with children. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Insights 02:49 Navigating Relationships and Parenting Dynamics 06:07 Understanding the Role of a Stepparent 08:57 Communication and Boundaries in Co-Parenting 12:09 The Challenges of Parenting and Step-Parenting 14:56 Quality Time and Building Relationships 17:49 Conclusion and Reflections on Parenting Keywords IVF, parenting, co-parenting, step-parenting, family dynamics, relationships, LGBTQ+ families, personal stories, communication, boundaries Sound Bites "I'm a little bit nervous, but I'm excited." "It's hard for me to allow you in." "He feels like he has three dads." "I never want to take their place." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ivfdaddies/support

    21 min

  3. 22 OCT

    45) CO-PARENTING A MODERN FAMILY & LEGAL HURDLES OF SURROGACY IN FRANCE

    In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, Romain shares his journey of becoming a father through surrogacy in the United States, the challenges he faced as a French citizen, and the dynamics of co-parenting after divorce. He discusses the cultural differences in parenting, the legal complexities of surrogacy in France, and the impact of celebrity status on family life. The conversation emphasizes the importance of putting children first and navigating the complexities of modern family structures. Takeaways Romain's journey to fatherhood through surrogacy in California. The importance of firsthand information in the surrogacy process. Navigating the legal complexities of surrogacy in France. Coping with divorce while prioritizing children's needs. Cultural differences in parenting between France and the U.S. The role of celebrity in shaping public perception of LGBTQ+ families. The significance of co-parenting and shared custody arrangements. Challenges faced by LGBTQ+ families in conservative environments. The evolving legal landscape for surrogacy in Europe. The emotional impact of societal judgment on family dynamics. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Surrogacy and Family Dynamics 02:53 Navigating Surrogacy in the United States 05:46 The Journey to Parenthood: Challenges and Triumphs 09:03 Coping with Divorce and Co-Parenting 11:55 Cultural Differences in Parenting: France vs. USA 14:46 Legal Recognition of Parentage in France 18:03 The Impact of Celebrity on Family Dynamics 20:59 Conclusion and Future Aspirations Sound Bites "It's a big agency. So we were reassured." "You have to put away your French mind." "We didn't succeed in our wedding, but we succeeded in our divorce." Sound Bites "It's a big agency. So we were reassured." "You have to put away your French mind." "We didn't succeed in our wedding, but we succeeded in our divorce." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ivfdaddies/support

    30 min

  4. 16 OCT

    44) IVFDADDIES GOES TO CALIFORNIA

    We are happy People are listening, and it's great info. Richard and Julio learned a lot at the IVF conference. Confidentiality is crucial in celebrity IVF cases. Celebrities often face the same struggles as others. IVF can be a personal journey, not a public spectacle. Psychological support is essential during the IVF process. Cultural perspectives can influence IVF experiences. Maintaining boundaries is important for emotional health. The journey to parenthood can be filled with highs and lows. Family planning is a deeply personal decision. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Podcast Journey 02:56 Insights from the IVF Conference 06:11 Celebrity IVF Experiences 09:05 Emotional Aspects of IVF 12:08 Cultural Perspectives on IVF 14:54 Conclusion and Reflections Sound Bites "People are listening, but it's great info." "I learned a little bit more, still a lot more to dig." "It's nobody's business, this is your business." Keywords IVF, surrogacy, celebrity experiences, emotional journey, cultural perspectives, podcasting, parenting, reproductive health, medical insights, family planning --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ivfdaddies/support

    18 min

  5. 9 OCT

    43) THE REALITY OF GAY PARENTING THEN AND NOW

    In this episode of the IVF Daddy's podcast, hosts Julio and Richard discuss the evolving landscape of gay fatherhood, reflecting on their own experiences compared to newer generations. They explore the balance between personal life and parenting, societal perceptions of gay dads, and the reality of raising children in a modern context. The conversation highlights the progress made in acceptance and understanding, while also addressing the challenges that remain. The experience of gay fatherhood has evolved significantly over the years. Modern gay dads can plan their social lives around parenting more easily. Societal acceptance of gay families has improved, but scrutiny remains. Parenting styles and societal expectations have changed with time. The importance of showing children a balanced life beyond just parenting. Gay dads often face different standards of scrutiny compared to straight couples. The narrative around gay parenting is often sensationalized in media. Real-life experiences of gay dads are often more mundane than portrayed. The conversation around parenting should include the right to maintain personal lives. Understanding and acceptance are key to the evolution of family dynamics. Chapters 00:00 The Evolution of Gay Fatherhood 02:53 Balancing Parenthood and Personal Life 05:49 Societal Perceptions of Gay Dads 09:10 The Reality of Gay Parenting 12:03 Conclusion and Reflections on Parenting "It's really interesting how the kids is not a barrier." "We could raise a family just like anybody else." "I think it's very different now to how it was then." IVF, surrogacy, gay dads, parenting, societal perceptions, family life, LGBTQ+ --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ivfdaddies/support

    12 min

  6. 1 OCT

    42) TRANSPARENCY BREAKING DOWN SURROGACY COSTS

    In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, Richard and Damien discuss their personal journeys through surrogacy, the challenges faced, and the importance of education and transparency in the surrogacy process. They explore the complexities of surrogacy laws in Australia, the financial aspects of surrogacy, and the altruistic motivations of surrogates. The conversation emphasizes the need for trust and understanding in the surrogacy journey, debunking myths and celebrating the incredible role of surrogates in helping families grow. Keywords IVF, surrogacy, family building, intended parents, surrogates, financial transparency, education, challenges, altruism, myths 00:00 Introduction to Family Building Journeys 02:39 Navigating Surrogacy: Challenges and Choices 09:05 The Importance of Education in Surrogacy 17:00 Understanding Costs and Financial Transparency 25:00 The Role of Surrogates and Altruism in Surrogacy 35:12 Debunking Myths and Celebrating Surrogates Takeaways Surrogacy can be a long and challenging journey. Education is crucial for intended parents navigating surrogacy. Financial transparency is essential in the surrogacy process. Surrogacy laws vary significantly between countries. Surrogates often have altruistic motivations for helping families. The media tends to focus on negative surrogacy stories. Trust is a key factor in choosing a surrogacy agency. Costs in surrogacy can be unpredictable and vary widely. Surrogates undergo extensive screening processes before being matched. Celebrating surrogates is important for recognizing their contributions. NewGen Families was founded by Damien Chambers after becoming a Parent through Surrogacy. After many years facilitating Surrogacy journeys, we were inspired to create a modern agency that is focused on improving the experience for both Surrogates and Future Parents. We are proud to say that all members of our team have between 5-12 years experience building families through Surrogacy. "I had always wanted to be a dad." "My journey was a long one." "It's tough in Australia because there's a supply and demand issue." --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ivfdaddies/support

    35 min

  7. 19 SEPT

    41) LOVING BEING A SURROGATE

    In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, the host engages in a heartfelt conversation with Carey, a surrogate, exploring her journey into surrogacy, the emotional and physical challenges she faced, and the importance of mental health support throughout the process. They discuss the dynamics of being a surrogate, the relationships formed with intended parents, and the unique experiences of postpartum as a surrogate. The conversation highlights the altruistic motivations behind surrogacy and the profound impact it has on families. Carey Flamer-Powell, Founder and Director Carey Flamer-Powell, Founder and Director of Surrogacy Mentor, is an experienced gestational surrogate, surrogacy agency founder and surrogacy non-profit co-founder, with over a decade of experience in the surrogacy industry.​ She also currently serves as the co-Vice President of SEEDS, The Society for Ethics in Egg Donation and Surrogacy. As the Founder and former owner of All Families Surrogacy, an award-winning gestational surrogacy agency, Carey spent 6 years helping hundreds of surrogates and parents navigate their journeys. Carey also co-founded and served as Co-President of the Oregon Surrogacy Professionals Association (OSPA), served as the LGBTQ Surrogacy Advisor for Parents Via Egg Donation (PVED), and has served on several committees for SEEDS over the years. Carey brings her vast surrogacy expertise to Surrogacy Mentor®, in addition to over 25 years in business operations management and PR, to help surrogates find the right agency for them. In this episode of the IVF Daddies podcast, the host engages in a heartfelt conversation with Carrie, a surrogate mother, exploring her journey into surrogacy, the emotional complexities involved, and the importance of mental health support throughout the process. Carrie shares her motivations for becoming a surrogate, the challenges of failed transfers, and the unique bond she formed with the intended parents. The discussion highlights the evolving landscape of surrogacy, emphasizing the need for strong support networks and the normalization of diverse family structures. Takeaways Carey's's journey into surrogacy began with her own experience of becoming a parent. She felt a strong desire to give back after her own successful pregnancy. Gestational surrogacy involves carrying a baby that is not genetically related to the surrogate. Failed transfers can lead to feelings of guilt for surrogates. A strong support network is crucial for surrogates during the process. Mental health support is now integrated into the surrogacy process. Surrogates often face unique social situations when explaining their role. The bond between a surrogate and intended parents can be profound. Surrogates do not typically feel a parental connection to the baby they carry. The emotional recovery after birth can differ significantly for surrogates. Chapters 00:00 Introduction to Surrogacy Journey 02:48 The Decision to Become a Surrogate 06:02 Understanding Gestational Surrogacy 08:55 Emotional Challenges of Failed Transfers 11:47 Mental Health Support in Surrogacy 14:57 Living Life While Pregnant for Others 18:07 The Connection with Intended Parents 21:00 Postpartum Experience as a Surrogate 23:50 Maintaining Relationships After Birth Keywords surrogacy, gestational surrogacy, emotional challenges, mental health, support network, intended parents, pregnancy, IVF, family dynamics, parenting --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ivfdaddies/support

    29 min

  8. 8 SEPT

    40) EMBRYO DONATION: A PATH TO EMPOWERMENT

    The conversation revolves around the decision of what to do with frozen embryos. The speakers discuss the ethical and emotional considerations involved in embryo donation and adoption. They explore the concept of embryos as assets versus embryos as life, and the implications of these perspectives. The conversation also touches on the benefits of embryo donation for women and LGBTQIA individuals, as well as the societal and personal factors that influence decision-making. Takeaways Embryo donation and adoption are options for individuals with frozen embryos who do not want to use them. The decision of what to do with frozen embryos involves ethical and emotional considerations. There is a distinction between viewing embryos as assets versus viewing them as life. Embryo donation can be a more affordable option for individuals who need assistance in conceiving. Embryo donation and adoption can empower women and LGBTQIA individuals. Chapters 00:00 Introduction and Personal Context 01:26 The Decision of What to Do with Frozen Embryos 07:25 Ethical Considerations: Embryos as Assets or Life? 14:07 Embryo Donation: Empowering Women and LGBTQIA Individuals 20:50 Embryo Donation: A More Affordable Option 24:35 The Conceptualization of Embryos Sound Bites "What am I going to do with them? They're currently sitting frozen." "Giving them to somebody else to then have as a child and then to raise as a child as their own." "Genetically, but again all a family needs is love." Keywords embryo donation, embryo adoption, frozen embryos, ethical considerations, emotional considerations, assets versus life --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ivfdaddies/support

    24 min
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Sometimes it takes a village to make a daddy. IVF Daddies started with one man's pursuit of fatherhood through IVF, egg donation, and surrogacy. Richard Westoby's journey brought him into an incredible community of fertility experts, aspiring parents, and beautifully unique families. A decade after the birth of his children, Richard introduced his partner Julio Gaggia to the wonderful world of family-building—and he has a lot of questions. IVF Daddies is where we explore those big questions. What makes a family? Can you do IVF without losing your sanity or your savings? How do we shatter the s Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/ivfdaddies/support

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  • Creator
    JULIO GAGGIA & RICHARD WESTOBY
  • Years Active
    2023 - 2024
  • Episodes
    48
  • Rating
    Explicit
  • Copyright
    © JULIO GAGGIA & RICHARD WESTOBY
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    IVF DADDIES

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