SOBER SEX focuses on conversations about what self-integrity, spirituality and personal evolution look like for different people as we learn to be and accept ourselves sexually and intimately. Featuring your hosts @louisahhh and @rosieromain and wise, weird, rad guests 🖤🖤🖤
La Fraîcheur: intersectional feminist activist and DJ Producer
La Fraîcheur has been making a name for herself as a producer, DJ and live act for over a decade. Hailing form Paris, now based in Barcelona (via Berlin), La Fraîcheur has toured the world and is a resident at some of the techno scenes most legendary parties, notably those in queer and kink spaces. She is an intersectional feminist activist and has just a released an awesome EP on Lobster Theramin. We are thrilled to welcome her to Sober Sex.
Khalil Rafati 'i forgot to die'
Khalil Rafati is an entrepreneur, smoothie mogul and author of 'I Forgot to Die', a gritty memoir about his journey in addiction and into recovery, and 'Remembering to Live,' a self help book about how he got to where he is today. On this episode we discuss healing from trauma, the importance of gallows humor, the perils of success and the joys of intimacy.
SELOME SAMUEL: FINANCE AND INTIMACY
Selome Samuel is a true polymath, with talents raging from photography and music curation to being a financial coach.
We talk about money as a spiritual tool, how to navigate finances with integrity in relationships and the challenges of asking for one’s worth. This was a nourishing, funny and joyful conversation, and we are delighted to share it!
Larry T is a legend of dance music and queer culture, and a pied piper of recovery in nightlife, spreading the gospel that a fun, free and freaky life in sobriety is something that’s both thrilling and actually possible. We discuss Larry’s journey into recovery and surrounding his sexuality, how he found his spiritual home in Berlin, in addition to his many present projects. An honour and a privilege to talk to this amazing, iconic character!
SPECIAL EPISODE !!! PANEL DISCUSSION IN COLLABORATION WITH DIRTY BIRD ON HOW WE MIGHT SHIFT THE CLUBBING/DANCE MUSIC COMMUNITY INTO A CULTURE OF CONSENT
In this special episode and discussion we are delighted to welcome:
-Dj Rebekah - Rebekah is one of the world's leading techno DJs and producers, the founder of #ForTheMusic and the person spearheading the Me Too Music campaign.
-Lewis G Burton - Lewis G. Burton is an internationally renowned DJ, performance artist, curator and activist. They have been at the forefront of London’s underground queer scene for nearly 10 years nurturing the next generation of trans revolutionaries, queer techno goths, club kids and drag queens. They are the founder and matriarch of INFERNO - A queer rave come contemporary art platform and community space.
-Sital Panesar - Sital is a psychotherapist specialising in mental health and well-being for creatives. She is the founder of MusicaTherapy - an organisation aimed to improve mental health support for musicians and creatives of colour. She also has specialised training and experience working with sexual health related issues, sexual trauma and intimacy.
-Perrine - La Fraicheur is an internationally known French DJ, producer and performer based in Barcelona. She is a resident at legendary Berlin fetish party 'Gegen' and staple behind the decks at queer parties around the world, in addition to being an outspoken intersectional feminist activist.
-Steven Braines - Founder of revolutionary party, music/clothing label He.She.They. , boss of artist management agency The Weird and the Wonderful, hell-bent on creating “a place without prejudice for people to be people”
CAIN: Queer + Sober Adult entertainer, activist, and MAGIC PERSON !!
Cain is a queer artist, content creator, adult entertainer and activist.
Whether it be through throwing LGBTQ+ inclusive events across London, challenging how people view sex work or pushing the body positive self-love agenda - Cain always turns up and turns OUT! It was a pleasure talking to Cain about his journey in recovery and what sober sex looks like for him today.
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Literally my favorite podcast! Always looking forward to the next episode, and am in love with the two co hosts. So honest, heart-warming and fun! Love itttttt!
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fantastic discussion on male sexuality and vulnerability
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