44 episodes

We get curious about all things gender, sex and sexuality, as well as relationships, feminism (the inclusive kind), mental health and kink, and all that makes us humans unique and diverse. From body positivity to body dysmorphia, it’s all welcome here. Come with us on a journey of inclusion, acceptance and respect.

Fifty Shades of Gender Esther Lemmens

    • Health & Fitness
    • 5.0 • 7 Ratings

We get curious about all things gender, sex and sexuality, as well as relationships, feminism (the inclusive kind), mental health and kink, and all that makes us humans unique and diverse. From body positivity to body dysmorphia, it’s all welcome here. Come with us on a journey of inclusion, acceptance and respect.

    TARA DAX: non-binary

    TARA DAX: non-binary

    Tara Dax is a biologist, streamer, cosplayer and Trekkie. Tara's pronouns are they/them and they identify as non-binary. Find out what that means to Tara in this episode. As well as geeking out on Star Trek and conlangs (constructed languages), we dive deeper into masculine and feminine. We also talk about finding resonance in pronouns, meaning in a name and connection in a character, and they debunk certain gender arguments people assume are rooted in biology. More on www.fiftyshadesofgender.com/tara 

    • 44 min
    SALLY GOLDNER: bi/pan trans introvert HSP woman

    SALLY GOLDNER: bi/pan trans introvert HSP woman

    Sally Goldner AM is an educator, speaker, leadership consultant and life coach. Sally's pronouns are she/her, and she identifies as a bi/pan introvert & Highly Sensitive Person (HSP) trans woman. Find out what that means to Sally in this episode. We also talk about how our unique personality labels interact with each other, unlearning and unblocking ourselves, balancing the masculine and feminine in leadership by becoming better at receiving and listening, and breaking the binary by queering Tantra. More on www.fiftyshadesofgender.com/sally 

    • 46 min
    EVEY WINTERS: transgender, transsexual woman

    EVEY WINTERS: transgender, transsexual woman

    Evey Winters is a transgender advocate, educator, and hot sauce addict. Evey's pronouns are she/her. She uses the labels transgender and transsexual woman, and also educates about both of these labels. Find out what that means to Evey in this episode. Find out what that means to Evey in this episode. We also talk about identity and how it forms, manhood and womanhood vs masculinity and femininity, metagender (which is what's between cisgender and transgender), learning vs education, how to have conversations about gender, and exploring the uniqueness of womanhood. More on www.fiftyshadesofgender.com/evey 

    • 54 min
    HARRIS EDDIE HILL: trans non-binary, agender, trans-masculine

    HARRIS EDDIE HILL: trans non-binary, agender, trans-masculine

    Harris is a coach and LGBTQ+ advocate on a mission to educate the general population about gender identity. They're also the host of The Transection Podcast, the third season of which is airing on April 30th. Harris's pronouns are they/them or ey/em. They identify as trans non-binary, agender and trans-masculine. Find out what that means to Harris in this episode.We also talk about doing gender differently, how finding your labels can help you find your people, how much our culture revolves around our reproductive capabilities, finding an unexpected calling as an introvert, and how gender happens to all of us. More on www.fiftyshadesofgender.com/harris 

    • 49 min
    BELLA CASCARINI: trans woman

    BELLA CASCARINI: trans woman

    Bella's pronouns are she/her, and she is a trans woman – with more emphasis on the woman part than the trans part. Find out what that means to Bella in this episode. We also talk about what affects how we're perceived, how noticing small moments of genuine happiness can help us embrace our identity, finding a name that feels right, what settling into femininity can look like, how films and tv are problematic in hindsight, hurdles on the coming out journey, working through shame, trusting your gut, and accepting your light and your dark, to your bones. More on www.fiftyshadesofgender.com/bella 

    • 51 min
    GENEVIEVE: trans non-binary, genderqueer

    GENEVIEVE: trans non-binary, genderqueer

    Genevieve is a sex and relationship therapist (in training). Genevieve's pronouns are they/them. They say the easiest terms are non-binary and queer, and they definitely identify as trans as well. Find out what that means to Genevieve in this episode. We also talk about being born into activism, performing womanhood, reframing feminism, women's spaces vs LGBTQ spaces, how what's 'normal' is rigid and idealised when it comes to sex and relationships, teaching consent from a young age, and why we should all consider therapy. More on www.fiftyshadesofgender.com/genevieve 

    • 32 min

Customer Reviews

5.0 out of 5
7 Ratings

7 Ratings

tigarose ,

Amazingly sensitive, insightful, and real

This is the only podcast I listen to. I love how personal, intimate, fascinating, and enjoyable every episode is. It walks the fine line between being personal and educational. It’s beautifully paced and draws you in with its natural, authentic approach. 100% recommended to anyone, regardless of their personal relationship with gender!

Ange de lumiere ,

A mum of a transgender child

I have to say the use of gender fluidity and non binary often confuse me. I am only 17 minutes into the first episode and have had several aha moments. What a powerful podcast. I also love Kit’s wisdom about labels - when they are useful and when they are not. I can’t wait for the next episode.

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