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John Kim is The Angry Therapist, delivering self-help and therapy in a shot glass - street level 3 x week roughly ten minutes an episode. With one longer interview or conversation on Mondays.

The Angry Therapist Podcast The Angry Therapist

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.7 • 41 Ratings

John Kim is The Angry Therapist, delivering self-help and therapy in a shot glass - street level 3 x week roughly ten minutes an episode. With one longer interview or conversation on Mondays.

    Common Reasons Why People Cheat

    Common Reasons Why People Cheat

    In this episode, John focuses on cheating and infidelity. He discusses common reasons why people cheat, including anger or revenge, falling out of love, feeling unappreciated, lack of commitment, sexual desire, and situational opportunity. He emphasizes the importance of taking ownership, processing emotions, drawing boundaries, seeking therapy, and ultimately growing from the experience.

    • 19 min
    3 Ways to Elevate Your Partner and Relationship

    3 Ways to Elevate Your Partner and Relationship

    In this episode, John does a deep dive on three different ways you can elevate your partner and relationship by being curious about your partner and their experiences, championing their story, and asking them how you can work on fulfilling their needs.

    • 27 min
    Red & Green Flags in Dating (Part 3): Capacity

    Red & Green Flags in Dating (Part 3): Capacity

    In the final episode of the Red & Green Flags in Dating series, John talks about how important having capacity for yourself and others is in your relationships. He defines what capacity is, gives examples and what it looks like in action, and explains the difference between having a healthy vs an unhealthy amount of capacity in dating and relationships.

    • 13 min
    Red & Green Flags in Dating (Part 2): Communication

    Red & Green Flags in Dating (Part 2): Communication

    In this episode, John does a deep dive on the second C of Red & Green Flags in Dating, communication. John discusses what healthy and unhealthy communication looks like in relationships, and what red flags you should look for that shows someone does not communicate well in the early stages of dating.

    • 20 min
    Red & Green Flags in Dating (Part 1): Connection

    Red & Green Flags in Dating (Part 1): Connection

    In the first episode of a three part series, Red & Green Flags in Dating, John breaks down the three most important C's in dating: connection, communication, and capacity. He defines what connection is, gives examples of what healthy and unhealthy forms of connection are, and discusses red and green flags to look for in connection when you're first dating someone.

    • 17 min
    How to Open Your Heart Again After a Breakup

    How to Open Your Heart Again After a Breakup

    In this episode, John talks about how to be open to love after your heart has been broken. He dives into how practicing opening your heart up in your relationships is an exercise you need to practice daily in order to create the opportunity to heal and grow from your break up. He also talks about forgiveness, treating yourself, closure, finding people who understand you, and much more.

    • 17 min

Customer Reviews

4.7 out of 5
41 Ratings

41 Ratings

Rasytiaaa ,

Rasytiaaa

I discovered this guy when I was going through a really tough time in my life (a really lucky find), but only now, after just over a year I feel like I can give a honest review to JK’s podcast..
I have been in a 10 year relationship and we were deep in the middle of planning our wedding when he decided to end it.. To put it lightly, i was absolutely devastated, crushed even.. We owned a house together and it all was a bit messy.. I seriously didn’t know what to do and the pain was like nothing I have ever felt..I was a total mess for about 6 months and then slowly it all started to fall into place..but not without help of many people including JKs podcast and my own hard efforts of course.. nothing changes if you do nothing..you just need to want it enough..
I discovered John Kim about 6 weeks into the breakup and at 1st some of the stuff he said in his podcasts just made me angry..like ‘relationship expire’ or ‘I don’t believe in the one that got away’ or even when he said you need to be totally open and transparent to love etc (i knew better then you see, with the heartache it gives you and all). However, JK intrigued me and I continued following him..I tried to keep an open mind and give some things my 2nd thought.. and guess what, it totally worked..so THANK YOU JK your podcast and your book (look forward to your next one) brought me back from the dead..
John’s realistic, easy to listen and not rehearsed manner is really what made me engage and really give my best shot to try and heal myself.. He felt real..and now I feel like I have grown as a person a lot, my views changed on so many things and guess what(?)..the things that made me angry now make complete sense to me..its so rational and clear as a day.. I feel like JK gave me my sight, my freedom in a way..his ideas pushed me to grow and find out who I am in the present and who I want to become.. I say give it a shot guys, this might be exactly what you need..

alexaandr ,

Waste of time

A work colleague recommended this episode and I thought I’d give it a listen but it was such a massive waste of time. The bottom line is don’t be a ‘loser’, ‘get a life’ (the second thing is actually said in this episode) and don’t base your whole life around one person, which is something you can find in emo teenage girls’ quotes on Instagram, you don’t need a relationship coach for that. To conclude, nothing new and definitely not exciting. Surprised some people make lots of money off this.

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