460 episodes

Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)

Just Break Up: Relationship Advice from Your Queer Besties Sierra DeMulder and Sam Blackwell

    • Health & Fitness
    • 4.8 • 58 Ratings

Sam & Sierra may not be therapists, but they will tell it to you straight (even if they aren’t). Each episode, they answer listeners’ questions with compassion, radical honesty, and all the relationship advice you don’t want—but definitely need. And no, it’s not always “just break up.” (Unless you really should!)

    Queer Polyamorous Witch

    Queer Polyamorous Witch

    Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is stuck in the broom closet and wants to stop hiding her identities from her parents.
    Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!
    SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com
    FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod
    INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod
    TWITTER: @justbreakuppod
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 34 min
    Alone In The Woods With A Man Or A Bear

    Alone In The Woods With A Man Or A Bear

    Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is wondering how the patriarchy and gender roles is affecting her relationships with cis men.
    Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!
    SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com
    FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod
    INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod
    TWITTER: @justbreakuppod
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 44 min
    Cohabitating Isn't For Everyone!

    Cohabitating Isn't For Everyone!

    Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who wants their partner to move out of their apartment.
    Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!
    SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com
    FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod
    INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod
    TWITTER: @justbreakuppod
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 36 min
    There Doesn't Need To Be A "Strong One" In The Relationship

    There Doesn't Need To Be A "Strong One" In The Relationship

    Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is feeling burnt out by work and unsupported by their partner.
    Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!
    SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com
    FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod
    INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod
    TWITTER: @justbreakuppod
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 38 min
    We're Moving In Together & I'm Spiraling!

    We're Moving In Together & I'm Spiraling!

    Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who is moving in with her partner and is panicking about it! 
    Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!
    SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com
    FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod
    INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod
    TWITTER: @justbreakuppod
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 32 min
    Forgiveness Is Morally Neutral

    Forgiveness Is Morally Neutral

    Sam and Sierra answer a letter from someone who was dumped over something he thought wasn't a big deal.
    Join us on Patreon for an extra weekly episode, exclusive livestreams, and more!
    SUBMIT: justbreakuppod.com
    FACEBOOK: /justbreakuppod
    INSTAGRAM: @justbreakuppod
    TWITTER: @justbreakuppod
    Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    • 38 min

Customer Reviews

4.8 out of 5
58 Ratings

58 Ratings

Cam.Dav93 ,

50 episodes deep and finally writing this

Guys. You. Have. To. Listen. To. This. Pod. Honestly these two are the BEST, so funny and genuinely give such awesome and thoughtful advice! Ya’ll have pulled me out of some dark places and I can never thank you enough 💜

rockchick86 ,

The highlight of my week!

This has been my favourite podcast for 3 years now. As so many people, I found this show during a really bad heartbreak. I can without a doubt say that this podcast not only helped me through a really difficult time in my life, but it has also made me a kinder, more thoughtful person to myself and others. LISTEN to this podcast. It will change your life <3 Thank you Salmon Sierra (in joke) for all that you do!

Mags Wales ,

Like Old Friends

Sam and Sierra seem like old friends to me now. They have taught me so much over the past few years. I have used their advice to deal with family members in a cool and calm fashion. There are always loads of laughs as well. 💞💞💞

Top Podcasts In Health & Fitness

ZOE Science & Nutrition
ZOE
Feel Better, Live More with Dr Rangan Chatterjee
Dr Rangan Chatterjee: GP & Author
Just One Thing - with Michael Mosley
BBC Radio 4
Huberman Lab
Scicomm Media
Exhibit A
Marvellous
Stompcast
Dr Alex George

You Might Also Like

Heal Your Heartbreak
Break Up Bestie
breakup BOOST Advice to Get Over Your Ex & More
Trina Leckie
Let’s Get Vulnerable: Relationship and Dating Advice
Dr. Morgan Anderson
Relationship Advice
Hosted by: Chase Kosterlitz, Produced by: Sarah Kosterlitz
On Attachment
Stephanie Rigg
Something More Human
Sam & Elliot