The Sounds of the Rising Rochelle Hubbard

This podcast came out of a newsletter I was writing in January, that was getting so long that I thought it was going to turn into a book! So I stopped and recorded a private mini podcast instead. I uploaded it to SoundCloud and left it like that. But the response I got was so strong that I felt to release it here too. Here was how the newsletter began:

'At the beginning of December Josh and I were out for a meal together. It came after a couple of weeks of us not getting on well at all. We sat across from one another at the table and I said to him how unhappy I was. He said he felt the same. It was very calm and rational. And then we asked each other if we even really wanted to stay together. It was in asking the question out loud that we both knew it was not what we wanted, but it was so sad to have asked the question at all.

People often remark on how happy Josh and I seem. We are very much in love and committed to one another, so a lot of what is perceived from the outside is based on our reality. Our relationship however has always been one of constant growth. We hadn't known one another long when I became pregnant with Caleb; Josh by no means felt ready, and in fact he wouldn't mind me saying that he had always felt pretty sure that he didn't ever want to be a father. This was our first challenge as a couple.'

And this is where I stopped...find the rest of the story inside this episode.

You can sign up for the 5 part email series, Surrender to Intimacy, here: https://view.flodesk.com/pages/62e8105c05d720b6cfbe7a14

You can find more at www.rochellehubbard.com

And on Instagram @rochelle.a.hubbard


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In this episode of The Sounds of the Rising, I sit in conversation with Krissi Peterson. 

In the lead up to the launch of Surrender to Intimacy, I asked Krissi if she would sit with me in an open discussion about the work we have both been doing on Surrender in our marriages. Krissi joined a membership container I released last year, The Mothership, in which we did some gentle work into the process of Surrender. From group calls, and 1:1 conversations I have had with Krissi, I knew that her experience has been profound in many ways, and so I was so thrilled she was happy to come on and share with you all in this space.

I loved our conversation, and hope you find it useful for your own exploration of Surrender.

Surrender to Intimacy starts on the 5th September. It is a 10 week container where we will be digging into the healing we so desperately need as women, and in turn, in our intimate relationships. I describe it more at the end of this episode, and you can read about her as an offering here.

Her doors close on the 3rd September, but if you are reading this before 26th August, and want to join, then do message me for the offer code of 10% I have available until then.

With love, as always.



www.rochellehubbard.com

www.instagram.com/rochelle.a.hubbard


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The moments in-between ✨

True intimacy is built in the moments in-between.

I noticed a few years ago that when I have sex I fall very naturally into my feminine essence. On reflection I realised that Josh equally very naturally falls into his masculine. I really want to be led, and he very naturally wants to lead. And yet previously, when we would enter back into our every day lives, the roles would quickly reverse. Josh would often say to me: “How can we go from that, to this? How can you change so quickly?”.

The answer I realised was that I wasn’t doing the work of surrender, and building true emotional intimacy in-between.

Intimacy is built in every moment of our shared lives together with our partner, not just in the bedroom. In fact without true connection in the ‘in-between’ moments, the times of physical intimacy, whilst they might seem ‘more natural’ (as they did to me), are actually just a form of escape. Escape from the exhaustion most women feel, and escape from being controlled all the time, in the case of most men. Therefore we are not in a state of true connection, where we are able to share our wants and desires from an open heart, and in turn experience unlimited connection and pleasure.

And when we can do this, when we can come together physically in this way, we create strong roots for us to move forward again in day to day life with the desire to come closer together emotionally, and in our life vision.

The two worlds of physical intimacy, and day to day emotional intimacy, feed one another.

‘The moments in-between’ are in fact every moment when you are working on true intimacy with your partner - physically, emotionally, spiritually - together.

I go into this more in this 15 minute video. I’d love to hear your reflections either via email here or via DM into Instagram here.

This is our work in Surrender to Intimacy. We start on 5th September. I cannot wait to journey with you 🌙 You can find the details of Surrender to Intimacy here.


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For the first time in the Sounds of the Rising podcast, I sit in conversation with a man: my husband, Josh.

I asked Josh if he would come onto the podcast, as I couldn't think of anyone better to discuss the subject of Surrender in intimate relationships with, than the person I have been doing the work with myself.

It is a complex topic, with many facets, all of which I have been working on alone, with other women, or directly with Josh. Whichever way I have been doing the work though, the outcomes have all had an impact on my relationship with Josh, and have brought us to the place where we are today.

Our relationship now, looks very different to when we met. As of course it should. Life is about growth, and I truly believe we choose our partner in life in order for us to do the deepest healing and hence the most profound growth. I am in a marriage that I love, and I am falling in love with more and more as we know one another - and I truly believe this will continue as we journey through this life together.

I am so grateful that Josh sat in conversation with me here, and I cannot wait to hear your reflections. You can email me at hello@rochellehubbard.com

Or find me on social media (Instagram and Facebook) @rochelle.a.hubbard

You can join my 5 part email series on Surrender here.

You can learn more about my 10 week programme, Surrender to Intimacy, here.


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Meeting Ania really marked the start of me starting my own business. She will always be a very important person in my life, for so many reasons too beyond just the part she played in my evolution. She is a kind and wise woman, and a lot of fun to be around. She has grown a successful coaching business, and this is in large part due to her absolute passion for her work (which you will hear as she speaks). I know there is much more to come from her, and I am excited to be part of her world that I may witness it all.

I am thrilled to bring this conversation with Ania to you as the start of Season 2 of The Sounds of the Rising. Please do let both Ania and I what you take from our time together (find our details below).

In the episode Ania mentions 2 quotes, which I have included below for you to read again:

The first:

“Our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, 'Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous?' Actually, who are you not to be? You are a child of God. Your playing small does not serve the world. There is nothing enlightened about shrinking so that other people won't feel insecure around you. We are all meant to shine, as children do. We were born to make manifest the glory of God that is within us. It's not just in some of us; it's in everyone. And as we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same. As we are liberated from our own fear, our presence automatically liberates others.”

― Marianne Williamson, A Return to Love: Reflections on the Principles of "A Course in Miracles"

The second:

"It is not the critic who counts; not the man who points out how the strong man stumbles, or where the doer of deeds could have done them better. The credit belongs to the man who is actually in the arena, whose face is marred by dust and sweat and blood; who strives valiantly; who errs, who comes short again and again, because there is no effort without error and shortcoming; but who does actually strive to do the deeds; who knows great enthusiasms, the great devotions; who spends himself in a worthy cause; who at the best knows in the end the triumph of high achievement, and who at the worst, if he fails, at least fails while daring greatly, so that his place shall never be with those cold and timid souls who neither know victory nor defeat."

― Theodore Roosevelt, “Citizenship in a Republic" speech in April 23rd 1910, which, amongst many today is known as “The Man in the Arena"



You can reach Ania and find out more about her at:

www.linkedin.com/in/aniahulsman/



Find me (Rochelle) here:

www.rochellehubbard.com

www.instagram.com/rochelle.a.hubbard

I also have a pretty wonderful (non-spammy) email offering, which you can subscribe to here


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My dear friend Mairi asked me if I would like her to sit in conversation with me about my 31 day seasonal cleanse. She knows how foundational it is to my work, and she knows how passionate I am about its wisdom. I was delighted by the idea, and so here it is.

Yes you will learn why this cleanse is so incredible, but even if you choose not to do it, you will hear within this interview some truths that are very dear to my heart, and will hopefully inspire you to make change whether you join us or not.

You can find more about the cleanse, and register if you choose to, here:

https://www.rochellehubbard.com/31-day-seasonal-cleanse

And if you want to hear more of me and Mairi, do listen to the incredible episode I recorded with her, where she tells her story, which has been one of most listened to episodes to date:

https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/the-sounds-of-the-rising/id1575792842?i=1000551494960


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