Your Authority Paradox - Why Experts Stay Invisible, with Linda Ugelow

Ever notice how the most brilliant experts often remain hidden in plain sight? 💡 Here's a mind-bender: what if the thing holding back your business isn't your expertise or strategy, but simply your relationship with being seen? In this episode, I speak with Linda Ugelow, author of "Delight in the Limelight" about transforming that fear of visibility into genuine confidence.

Linda shares her own journey of overcoming decades of speaking anxiety despite being comfortable performing dance on stage. Her story demonstrates how our relationship with visibility is often rooted in past experiences rather than present reality.

What fascinates me is how Linda approaches this transformation - not through "managing" fear with breathing exercises and affirmations, but by actually removing the fear at its source. This resonates with my own journey from avoiding visibility to embracing it as a crucial part of building authority.

Three key takeaways that you can implement today:

🎯 Start with private practice before going public. Create daily "captain's log" style videos just for yourself to normalize being on camera without the pressure of an audience. This builds genuine comfort with video presence before tackling the separate challenge of sharing content.

🎬 When recording content, focus on connecting with your "right-fit" third rather than trying to please everyone. Recognize that roughly one-third of people will naturally resonate with your authentic style - these are the ones worth showing up for.

🔍 Watch yourself back with curiosity rather than criticism. Look for what you like and appreciate about your presence. This shifts your relationship with self-expression from judgment to growth and makes rapid improvement possible.

Linda's perspective adds an important dimension to my work helping experts build visibility and authority. Her framework shows how addressing the psychological barriers to visibility often matters more than technical speaking skills or content strategy.

Let me know if this episode resonates with your own visibility journey. What's your biggest challenge when it comes to showing up more boldly in your business?

About Linda,

Linda Ugelow (YOU-guh-lo) is a speaking confidence coach, podcast host, and author of the book, Delight in the Limelight: Overcome Your Fear of Being Seen and Realize Your Dreams and hosts a podcast of the same name. Formerly stricken with public speaking fear herself, she now helps entrepreneurs, coaches, and business leaders transform their experience of speaking from dread to delight whether online or on stage, in the media or the meeting room.

https://lindaugelow.com/

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