Drinks & Kinks‪!‬ Drinks and Kinks Podcast

Oh hi! Did you miss us? We're back from our mental health vacation, and Senior is at full sass.



This episode covers some edge play, where we talk about breath play and inadvertently add in a little lesson on medical play too!

As we celebrate a year of being a podcast, we look at our Spotify unwrapped, celebrate the people who made us their #1 listened to podcast!



In this episode you'll learn about:


What a "coffee, regular" is
Bird's misadventures in sugar dating
Vanderpump Rules
Bird's Smutty Bookclub, episodes to come!
Senior builds a bed
Breath Play vs. Edge Play
Senior's got a thing for elaborate antiquing
Senior's a weird thing for "scuba diving"
Facesitting
Choking
Combining Medical Play with Fear Play



Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!

The drink this week is Gin and Cran-Pineapple!

Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo

Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself

Hosted by: Bird & Senior

Contact us: ⁠⁠⁠drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠

Website: ⁠⁠⁠https://drinksandkinks.space⁠

FetLife: ⁠⁠DrinksKinksPod⁠⁠

Instagram: ⁠⁠@drinksANDkinks_pod⁠


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This episode covers the broad topic of vetting and how to do. Bird and Senior cover some great questions you can ask while vetting someone. They may have taken a little "mental health summer vacation" for the last few weeks, but are back at it with some bratty shenanigans.



In this episode you'll hear:


Dating update for Bird
Why Senior doesn't do a whole lot of dating
A recent party with friends Vex, Goddess, and Chaos
Chaos did their first scene and what we learned from watching it
What is "vetting" and why is it important?
What questions are good for vetting?
Mistakes Bird made when vetting previously (that you can learn from)
Why it's not culturally appropriate to call women "females"
Barbie movie and Euphoria references
Senior and Bird's "dream scenes" they've always wanted to do
Senior bratting at his absolutely finest
Listener submissions! Thanks Rob and Bruce!



Some resources referenced in this episode and links we promised: Kynk101.com, michellefegatofi.org, kinkycuriosity.com, theduchy.com, submissiveguide.com, kinkweekly.com, beautifullybound.com



Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!

The drink this week is Little Beast Brewing Czech Style Dark Lager!

Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo

Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself

Hosted by: Bird & Senior

Contact us: ⁠⁠drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com⁠⁠

Website: ⁠⁠https://drinksandkinks.space

FetLife: ⁠DrinksKinksPod⁠

Instagram: ⁠@drinksANDkinks_pod⁠


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Our favorite brat, Vex, joins us for another awesome couple of hours to talk about pronouns and different types of sexualities! It's been a while since Bird gave y'all an update on her dating life, so today she gets to fill you in on the newest developments! And Senior's topic he's been prepping for: neo-pronouns!

In this episode you'll hear Vex talk about her experience as a trans woman, a whole lot of neo-pronouns, the difference between pronouns and neo-pronouns, how to handle mis-steps when those around you or close to you would like to identify as a new set of pronouns, demisexuality, and the wide variety of sexualities. We talk a little polyamory, and Senior does some polydaydreaming.



Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!

The drink this week is a Gin Bloody Mary!

Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo

Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself

Hosted by: Bird & Senior

Contact us: ⁠⁠drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com⁠⁠

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Instagram: ⁠@drinksANDkinks_pod⁠


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Special guests this week are a pair of badasses who specialize in rope bondage and educating the kink community, Mx. Knotty and Kingsly Killer!

In this episode you'll hear:

How they both got involved with rope.
Safety for getting started, because rope play is one of the most dangerous forms of kink.
Why you should avoid cotton rope for suspensions (but it's great for decorative ties).
Nylon is much different than cotton (and nylon is great for water scenes along with polyester).
6mm and wider is a better choice to mitigate damage.
No rope is "safe".
Mx. Knotty loves Jute!
Rigger vs. Top, bunny vs. bottom.
Mx. Knotty and Kingsley origin story
What is Knotty Productions?
Risk aware does not equal "safe".
Implicit Consent vs. Explicit Consent.
Rope Safety for new riggers and rope tops!

START SLOW. Start with basics.
Leave dynamics at the door for a minute to prioritize safety.


Or find a way to keep very honest, open communication during the dynamic.
No means no, especially in beginner ropes.
It's ok to speak up if the ropes feel uncomfortable.
Be specific.
Err on the side of caution: untie, reconsider, re-tie.
Informed consent is extremely important.
Rope is extremely dangerous, so it's important to educate yourself on the risks, especially if you're a bottom/bunny.
Communication is the most important part of tying with someone!
Continuous check-in's and nerve checks.
Prepare and care for your body before and after tying.
Stretch, warm up, eat food, hydrate, etc.
Aftercare.
Safety Shears!



Get comfortable talking about uncomfortable things! Speak your needs, especially when it comes to ropes.
What's in Mx Knotty's rope kits that she brings to her scenes.
Safety sheers.
How to negotiate a scene, and negotiating a scene that's already in progress.
Know your body (both as a rigger and a bunny).
Rope space.
As a rigger, know your bunny's body language.
Setting the scene.
Energy transfers through the rope.
It's ok to tap out if it isn't working, as a top or bottom!
If someone has something they need to tell you about their body, say "thank you for telling me".
Arousal/Eroticism in ropes
Riggers Chess
Debriefing after scenes are over.
Tie yourself before tying others so you know how it feels.

You can learn more about Knotty Productions at www.knottyproductions.com
Damn Good Rope Company can be found here: www.damngoodropecompany.com (we highly recommend the beginner kits! Knotty Productions website has a discount code, too!)
Shibari Study: shibaristudy.com
The Duchy ("dutch-ee"): www.theduchy.com
Rope Study: ropestudy.com

Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!
The drink this week is a Lavender Lemon Drop!
Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo
Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself
Hosted by: Bird & Senior
Contact us: ⁠drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com⁠
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If you've ever been curious what Goddess had in her suitcases (from Episode 2, Season 2), we're here to tell you all about it! Join us, with returning guest Goddess and special guest Vex as we get into more toys than we could have ever expected!

As a DISCLAIMER: you will hear a partial scene between Goddess and Vex as they demonstrate some of the toys (and Vex shows off how great of a brat she can be)! They have played together many times, and have been in a dynamic, so everything you hear is consensual!

This includes a few hits from a paddle, a whip, a shock collar, a taser, and a dragontail, with genuine reactions, begging, bratting, saying "no please don't", and noises from these objects so be prepared that if these are triggering for you, this episode does contain those things sprinkled throughout! Again, all of this is done consensually, and within the bounds of their dynamic. They have discussed boundaries, safe words, and are doing this all willingly and both are having fun.

In this episode you'll also hear about:


Bratting at it's finest
Sloan Sodas recipe
Clone-a-Willy
So. Many. Weiners
Spanking devices, whips, paddles, and floggers
Shock collars
Ball crushers and "Penini" presses
Barf bags and mindfucks
Tasering
Vex's favorite toy, the Dragontail
Cautiva Leather
Corncob pegging
Chain flogger
Window screen rubber flogger
Clothespins and Michael Scott paperclips
Eraser whip
Showercap breathe play
Normalizing HSV
Vibrating gloves
Anal hooks
A 3 ft. paddle
How Goddess prepares for a scene as a Dom/Domme
Connecting with your bottom
Aftercare
Wrapping up a scene
Starting as a bottom/sub before you Top/Dom someone
What do we get out of a scene?
What is aftercare that Dom/Dommes do?
Scenes start with negotiations, and end with aftercare
Drop after a scene, and how to navigate it



Sloan Sodas


½ oz Jamaican rum (Appleton Estate Signature)
½ oz over [94] proof black rum (Kraken)
1 oz spiced rum (Capt. Morgan)
1 lemon or 1 Oz Lemon juice
1 oz mint simple syrup
or
1 oz simple syrup
2 splashes mint extract


Shake with ice
Fill with your choice soda and enjoy!



Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!

The drink this week is SLOAN SODA!

Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo

Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself

Hosted by: Bird & Senior

Contact us: ⁠drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com⁠

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This week we dive into the world of spanking, spankers, spankees, and spankos. Last week we had a pretty epic recording session planned, however Bird lost her voice so we'll have to save that episode for the future! Senior passed his final exam for the ropes bondage class, and Bird is now working towards becoming a certified sex educator coach.

Some highlights from the episode:


Negotiating a scene.
Vetting.
Spank the butt and GTFO.
Go ham or go home.
Tears are ok!
Senior gets assigned some homework, aftercare!
Drop for Doms and subs after a scene.
Don't break your toys.
Where to spank.
How to warm up.
Bird gets mindf*cked a little bit.
Pain tolerance changes.
Prime positions for being spanked.
Getting off during spankings.
At what part do you bring out the baby crocodile nipple clamps?
Warming up and cooling down.



Stay Curious! Stay Sexy! Kink Responsibly!

The drink this week is: Spoils of War from Grains of Wrath

Music: Forever Dreamer - Magiksolo

Mixed and edited by: Bird Herself

Hosted by: Bird & Senior

Contact us: ⁠drinksandkinkspod@gmail.com⁠

Website: ⁠https://drinksandkinks.squarespace.com/⁠

FetLife: DrinksKinksPod

Instagram: @drinksANDkinks_pod


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