How Not to Die Alone - Logan Ury

Unlonely with Dr. Jody Carrington

Some relationships feel like a game of emotional tag—you’re either chasing or being chased. This week, Jody sits down with Logan Ury, author of How Not to Die Alone, to untangle the complexities of attachment styles, from the anxious-avoidant loop to the quest for secure connections. They unpack the psychology of modern dating, the burnout of endless swipes, and why a little self-awareness goes a long way. Logan shares wisdom on crafting dating profiles that spark conversation and her upcoming Netflix series, The Later Daters, highlighting love stories for those over 55. Whether you’re navigating breakups, parenting, or making the first move, this episode is a roadmap to more fulfilling relationships—one mindful connection at a time.

Logan Ury is a behavioural scientist turned dating coach and the author of the bestselling book How to Not Die Alone: The Surprising Science That Will Help You Find Love. She works as Hinge’s Director of Relationship Science, conducting research on modern dating. She also writes the popular weekly newsletter — Logan's Love Letter.

Find Logan on Instagram:

@loganury

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