Psychoanalyze and Chill Z & Jade

Welcome back to Sex and Virginity Series Part 2! Z and Jade dive into the most googled sex questions and anxieties when going into a hookup or another spicy episode with a significant other. They discuss the rarity of orgasms, if size matters, and how to introduce kinkiness into the bedroom. Oh and of course, they’ll discuss how they’ve overthought everything from pregnancy scares to god awful “is it over yet?” sex as well.

Virginity can be a scary topic - good thing it’s a stupid social construct created by the patriarchy that doesn’t actually describe your worth as a woman! Listen to Z and Jade discuss the concept of virginity, their first times, debunk myths about poppin’ that cherry, and all the anxieties going into losing your beloved V card no matter how old you are.

We’ve all had different kinds of men in our life, some good, some bad, some funny, and some just straight-up disappointing. All these guys have left an impact in our lives some way or another. However, we sometimes forget the good that can come out of those dark days or mourning that comes with another failed relationship. This week, Z and Jade discuss men AND mental health and speak on their own personal experiences when it comes to dating in this generation and all the hookups, heartbreaks, and hurting that comes with it. Learn about the four major types of men: the firsts, the disappointments, the lessons, and the wolves in sheep clothing (TW: sexual assault).

How low is the bar really when it comes to dating, hooking up, or just getting to know someone? Listen to Z and Jade dissect gender norms surrounding the standard is for a guy to meet for girls versus what a guy expects from girls and how society negatively influences that. Things get heated when Z and Jade discuss the prominent double standards surrounding hookup culture and the pressure to constantly perform as a girl. Z and Jade also discuss how they’ve overthought in the past and how it shaped how they are today around hookup culture and the importance of females setting their own bar for men based on their own needs and wants and noticing that a guy should be respectful whether or not he wants to get in your pants. And remember, if he can’t joke about men being trash, he’s not the one;)

Listen to Z and Jade talk about their struggles with quarantine and the extreme lack of any physical connection.  Learn about how this sudden change of culture led to their idea of starting a show for overthinkers. They talk about the societal pressures concerning body types especially in quarantine and get real about how their outlooks on dating changed since first entering college to now. They also dive into the 4 main types of attachment styles and how their own has caused them to overthink, stress, and make decisions that they will probably regret once stay-at-home is lifted. TRIGGER WARNING: eating disorders

attachment style quiz: https://dianepooleheller.com/attachment-test/

Welcome to Psychoanalyze and Chill! We’re Z and Jade, and we’re here to overthink boys, college, and mental health for you. Tune in with us every Wednesday as we dissect hookup culture, dating, and parties while dealing with mental health at the same time. We’ve still in the middle of this shitshow but ride along with us as we tackle double standards, J-name boys, econ majors, and the god-forsaken dating app universe. Whether you're trying to get you daily dosage of dopamine like Z, or find your romance novel Prince Charming like Jade, we got you covered through the highs and lows of figuring out your identity and your social life entering college.