The BPD Bunch The BPD Bunch

Have you struggled with setting boundaries or asking for what you want in an effective way? This episode is for you! Lena shares her wisdom as a DBT therapist, teaching you how to use the DEAR MAN skill for interpersonal effectiveness.The DEAR MAN skill is a powerful technique used in Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT) to help individuals effectively communicate their needs, set boundaries, and assertively make requests. It is an acronym that stands for:D - Describe the situation objectively.E - Express your feelings and opinions about the situation.A - Assertively ask for what you want or need.R - Reinforce the benefits or positive outcomes of your request.M - Stay mindful and focused on your goal.A - Appear confident and maintain good body language.N - Negotiate and be willing to find a compromise if needed.By using the DEAR MAN skill, individuals can enhance their communication skills and improve their ability to navigate difficult situations while maintaining self-respect and healthy relationships.
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About Us:
The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!
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Disclaimer:

Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

In response to some of your comments on last week's episode, Xannie, Solène and Jack come together to discuss over apologizing with BPD. They share their experiences with over apologizing, cover the importance of self respect, as well as their top tips for finding balance in the context of making amends.

Next week we’ll be back for a conversation about Splitting. Can't wait? Join our BPD besties or BPD buddies tiers on Patreon and watch our Patreon exclusive extended version of the episode Now!
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About Us:
The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!
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Disclaimer:

Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

Sometimes its good to take a break from the hard work of BPD recovery and just be silly! Having a tough moment? Try watching this video as a distraction until your emotions are at a level that's easier to handle. Want an extra level of distraction? This episode features a drawing game! Grab a pen and some paper, and draw along!

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About Us:
The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!
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Disclaimer:

Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

Instead, we hope that by sharing our stories and what was helpful for us, you can gain some insight and direction into your own recovery ❤️‍🩹

Xannie, Hak Ja, Jack, Melanie, and Mo continue their discussion from last time on making amends when living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). They consider how self forgiveness affects the process of making amends, and how apologies can, at times, feel performative.

Next week we’ll be back for a conversation about Splitting. Can't wait? Join our BPD besties or BPD buddies tiers on Patreon and watch our Patreon exclusive extended version of the episode today!
https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch

🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨

🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch

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About Us:
The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!
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Disclaimer:

Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

In this episode, Xannie, Hak Ja, Jack, Melanie, and Mo come together to discuss the challenging topic of making amends when living with Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). They openly share their personal struggles with apologizing, recount stories about their experiences with making amends, and provide valuable insights and tips for effectively managing the apology process. Join them on this journey of growth, understanding, and learning as they shed light on the complexities of living with BPD and offer guidance for navigating the path towards healing and reconciliation.
Come back on Friday for a minisode about the concept of self forgiveness in the context of making amends!

Next week we’ll be back for a conversation about Splitting. Can't wait? Join our BPD besties or BPD buddies tiers on Patreon and watch our Patreon exclusive extended version of the episode today!
https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch

🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨

🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch

________
About Us:
The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!
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Disclaimer:

Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

We often hear that recovery isn't linear, but what exactly does that mean? What does recovery look like and how do we manage slip-ups or making mistake? Join Xannie, Melanie, Solène, and Katja as they get together for brunch to answer these questions and more!

🌟 Love what we do? Your support fuels these important conversations on BPD and mental health. Consider joining our Patreon community to help us continue this valuable work and unlock exclusive content. Every contribution makes a difference! 🌈✨

🔗 Support us on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/thebpdbunch

________
About Us:
The BPD bunch is a YouTube talk show, featuring a panel of people who are in functional recovery from Borderline Personality Disorder. Each week we discuss BPD-related topics to help give you insights into the different ways BPD can be expressed in someone’s life. We also cover the different paths we followed on our recovery journeys to give you hope and direction for your own ❤️ Thank you for being on this journey of healing with us!
________

Disclaimer:

Although several of our panelists work in the mental health field, we are all coming to you as people in functional recovery from BPD, and are not here to provide professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.

Instead, we hope that by sharing our stories and what was helpful for us, you can gain some insight and direction into your own recovery ❤️‍🩹