The Healing Trauma Podcast Monique Koven

We are joined again with therapist Dr. Mark McNear to discuss what spiritual bypassing is and how important it is to understand the whole person.
Dr. Mark McNear, a licensed clinical social worker, and author of the book Finding My words, A Ruthless Commitment To Healing Gently After Trauma. Mark shares his personal journey of healing from childhood trauma and finding his words.
Dr. Mark McNear's website:
https://markmcnear.com/
"Finding My Words" book:
https://www.amazon.com/Finding-My-Wor...
Meet with Monique
https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com/


Thank you Mark for sponsoring the episode.

Trigger warning: Childhood sexual abuse.
On today's episode I am joined with Dr. Mark McNear, a licensed clinical social worker, and author of the book Finding My words, A Ruthless Commitment To Healing Gently After Trauma. Mark shares his personal journey of healing from childhood trauma and finding his words.

To learn more or to purchase Dr. Marks book, head to the link below:

Get his book here: https://www.amazon.com/Finding-My-Wor...
Mark's website:https://markmcnear.com⁠

This episode was sponsored by Mark M.McNear LCSW.
https://www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com

On today's episode I am joined with Michelle Mays.
Michelle Mays is a Licensed Professional Counselor and expert in treating sexual betrayal and trauma. She's also the author of the book The Betrayal Bind: How to Heal When the Person You Love the Most Has Hurt You the Worst.  She reveals the depth of the devastating dilemma that betrayed partners face when their significant other is unsafe to connect with, yet connection is the key to healing.
Michelle looks at betrayal through the lens of attachment, as our attachment system is the very thing that connects us with anyone in our lives, and how betrayal causes a break in the attachment bond to the person we are closest with, shattering trust, and leaving a betrayed partner feeling unsafe and violated.


This was a very informative and rich conversation.

If you can't see the video here, watch and subscribe to my youtube channel https://youtu.be/YEq9BNBD9zs

Michelle's Website & Resources www.michellemays.com

https://michellemays.com/braving-hope-coaching-program/

Her Book⁠ can be found here:

https://www.amazon.com/Betrayal-Bind-Heal-Person-Worst/dp/1949481778/Thank you to PartnerHope LLC for sponsoring this episode



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*Trigger warning: Talk of Sexual abuse

On today's episode I sat down with Amy Nordhues, author and survivor of both childhood sexual abuse and sexual abuse as an adult at the hands of a mental health professional.
Her story is detailed in her book “Prayed Upon, Breaking Free From Therapist Abuse.”
During our conversation Amy touches on some of the following:

The inner workings of the abuse process of adult victims 
-How past childhood trauma can make an adult vulnerable to predators
-Understanding how an otherwise functional adult can be duped provides much needed healing for the victim and aides loved ones in providing support
-Recognizing and bringing “into the light” the defective beliefs that are causing victims to doubt their own realities and become ensnared by abusers
and more.


Thank you so much Amy for sharing your vulnerable and personal experiences with the world in hopes of helping others feel less alone and more empowered.
Watch the episode on video on YouTube https://youtu.be/pp4WMClu7eM
Thank you for your sponsorship as it helps to keep this podcast going.

Link to purchase Amy's book https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09HR9TN3N
Amy's website:
www.amynordhues.com

Monique’s website www.thehealingtraumapodcast.com

I am still in vacation mode and have taken a little break from recording and sharing, however I was inspired to record a short video after I shared a post over on IG which says "Feeling Safe is Essential To Healing." I realized a little video may be helpful to elaborate just a tiny bit. Should be back to recording sometime in August.

https://youtu.be/PayC5jfGKvQ

Today I am sharing a video episode to watch or listen to. Dr. Lindsay Gibson joins us on the podcast to discuss “Emotionally Immature Parents”.
Dr. Gibson has been a psychologist for over thirty years, working in both public and private practice. In the past, she has served as an adjunct assistant professor in Clinical Psychology, teaching doctoral students clinical theory and psychotherapeutic techniques.
Dr. Gibson is the author of four books: Who You Were Meant to Be, Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents, Recovering from Emotionally Immature Parents and Self-Care for Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents: Honor Your Emotions, Nurture Your Self & Live With Confidence. Lindsay’s book “ Adult Children Of Emotionally Immature Parents” prompted me to reach out to her to ask her more. YouTube video https://youtu.be/FCN6u2Cb0Uw ***Note *** I will be taking some time away. I have some great guests conversations lined up for when we resume. Take good care everyone!