No Deep Dives by FlexMami

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No Deep Dives by FlexMami

Join Logie-Nominee, best-selling author, and award-winning podcaster FlexMami in decoding the riddle of life. Each episode is earnest, optimistic, opinionated, sometimes superficial and never judgmental. Perfect for ruminators, over-thinkers and serial generalists searching for meaning (never resolution!).

  1. 6 DAYS AGO

    clock into your internal world please

    Ok, hold on tight because in this episode we’re getting intimate with this sometimes strange concept of ‘doing the work’! Examining through various lenses including philosophy, personal growth & astrology (naturally).    Posing the question - how profound can our daily routines and disciplined efforts be in our lives? We’re getting juicy as we delve into philosophies like Carl Jung’s shadow work, Brene Brown and more!   Dipping into vibes of the Sixth and Tenth Houses in astrology we reflect on how these houses are all about mastering yourself, giving back, and shining in the public eye. We’ll chat about how to juggle your everyday tasks while staying true to your bigger goals, shake off old biases, and break free from what society expects. It’s all about boosting self-awareness and making real, meaningful changes in your life! Timestamps 00:00 it’s me again 00:33 what even is doing the work 04:17 what we do in the shadows; Shadow Work and Self-Examination 07:51 therapeutic and healing work 14:55 perfecting the process; thank you sixth house 21:43 hello tenth house giving us every day maintenance 24:21 the essence of Leo in the sixth house 24:40 is it what’s inside that counts? Balancing validation and internal work 27:00 the natural zodiac and sixth house rulership 28:34 the sixth house is deep 31:57 Mercury's influence on the sixth house 33:29 let’s get to understand the tenth house 35:16 GO TIME: Societal Expectations vs Personal Ambitions 40:44 we love synergising energies in the Birth Chart 41:59 shadow work journal prompts 42:52 you know where to find me

    43 min
  2. 18 OCT

    Unpaid interning in my mental prison

    I love being a statistic. Mindfulness and routines are actually working for me. As in, I don’t wake up with a pit in my chestgood  and a looming sense of Iike that later is validated by the horror’s on my timeline.  Who knew that structure can equal freedom, they should teach us this in school , or maybe they did & I wasn’t listening! I’m chatting about some of the things that make up my regular routines, yoga, massages, and morning pages. I’ll break down the sticky, tricky world of discipline and how those vexatious thought loops can hold us back. I’ll also share some thoughts on why traditional talk therapy might not tackle the bigger picture. With a sprinkle of wisdom from the Gita and my counselling studies, I’ll talk about syncing your values with your actions, consciously uncoupling from overthinking, and making choices that help you grow. As always, astrology is linked to EVERYTHING so you can hear all about how the sixth house connects to this discussion. This episode really has it all, listen immediately! Timestamps 00:00 sweetie pies, it’s me 01:13 talk therapy woes 04:34 neoliberal influence on self-optimisation 07:13 I feel so ME with my somatic and daily routines 14:43 action vs. intellectualising 17:11 soft muscles = emotional growth 21:12 getting out of your mind to get into yourself; breaking intellectual thought loops 23:47 taming perfectionism and self-doubt 25:11 action vs. inaction: lessons from the Gita 28:09 the pleasure of simple mindfulness practices: disrupting the mental loop 31:32 bridging the knowing and the doing through embodied values 32:25 final thoughts and farewell, miss you dearly

    34 min
  3. 20 SEPT

    026: How do you outsmart passive aggression?

    WHAT THE HECK IS GOING ON!!! I'm tempted to say it's because Mars moved out of witty and superficial Gemini, into sensitive and self protective Cancer. This episode brings me to the eternal question: does passive aggression ever get the job done? From a surreal confrontation with strangers demanding silence by the river to deep dives into emotional intelligence, we’re exploring how our demons often sneak up on us sideways. Is passive aggression a form of self-protection, or just emotional avoidance? And how does the astrological vibe of Mars in Cancer intensify this sneaky behavior? Along the way, I reflect on lessons from yoga, breathwork, and astrology, as we unpack how to turn our emotional triggers into conscious action instead of passive stand-offs. Plus, we explore philosophical insights from the Bhagavad Gita and how it challenges us to reflect on the deeper distinction between self-awareness and self-knowledge. We also break down how over-intellectualizing our emotions can lead to dissociation, particularly during yoga and other mindfulness practices. We’re drawing from ancient philosophy, yoga insights, and that cosmic question, “Is it better to speak or to die?” Tune in for a mix of wit, wisdom, and just the right amount of chaos. Rate five stars—don’t make me ask twice! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Miss you! Flex's Instagram   TIMESTAMPS 00:00 hi am i better now? 00:24 pass-agg river confrontation 08:51 mars is in cancer!!! 15:35 emotional processing update 27:42 self awareness vs. self knowledge 30:49 i fear discipline works

    36 min
  4. 12 SEPT

    025: What if you're wrong about you? feat. Jordan Stacey

    AHHH! WE HAVE DONE IT AGAIN. Genius insights, but this time with philosopher and TikTok creator Jordan Stacey (@jordstac). Despite battling a scratchy throat, we explore Jordan's fascinating journey from science enthusiast to spiritual seeker and unpack how those two worlds collide in unexpected ways. We discuss the dichotomy between nakedness and mess when revealing our vulnerabilities and reflect on how dreams can be a tool for subconscious processing. Together, we critique the limitations of short-form content in building genuine empathy, diving into how the internet's binary narratives fall short of replicating the depth of real-life interactions. 🪐 How studying science ironically led to a spiritual awakening 🪐 The tug-of-war between creativity and aesthetics 🪐 Why dreams might hold the key to subconscious processing 🪐 The anxiety trap of constantly evolving your self-concept 🪐 The struggle between leading with your nakedness vs. your mess 🪐 How short-form content might be killing real empathy 🪐 Why real-world chaos beats curated online peace We emphasize the importance of embracing chaos and unpredictability in a world obsessed with curated peace. Tap in for a conversation that’s full of sharp insights, deep laughs, and more questions than answers. Rate five stars—don’t make me ask twice! ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ Miss you! Jordan's TikTok Jordan's Podcast   TIMESTAMPS 00:00 hi, missed you 01:33 science to spirituality pipeline 07:06 creativity is spirituality 13:14 challenging self concept 18:23 dreams for subconscious processing 34:04 masking & personal intimacy 34:47 high school social experiments 35:13 racism 36:11 the layers of friendship 38:16 pursuing knowledge is a xxxx 54:11 empathy, sympathy, and pity 01:03:05 online vs irl  01:06:39 bye!!

    1h 7m

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Join Logie-Nominee, best-selling author, and award-winning podcaster FlexMami in decoding the riddle of life. Each episode is earnest, optimistic, opinionated, sometimes superficial and never judgmental. Perfect for ruminators, over-thinkers and serial generalists searching for meaning (never resolution!).

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