Dad Tired

Jerrad Lopes
Dad Tired

Dad Tired is a community of men who are taking their faith, family, and marriage very seriously. We are equipping Christian husbands and dads to lead their family well. Past guests include: Gary Chapman, Cody Carnes, John Mark Comer, John Eldredge, Bob Goff, Stephen Curtis Chapman, Risen Motherhood, MercyMe, Tony Dungy, Paul David Tripp, Louie Giglio, Darryl Strawberry, Lecrae, Beneil Dariush, and many more!

  1. 23 OCT

    Kaleb's Corner: Finding Jesus in the Wilderness of Your Soul 004

    In this episode, Kaleb Allen dives deep into the story of Elijah's wilderness experience and how it relates to the spiritual highs and lows we all face. Using 1 Kings 19 as a foundation, Kaleb reflects on Elijah’s journey from calling down fire on Mount Carmel to feeling utterly defeated and lying under a broom tree, asking God to take his life. Kaleb unpacks the lessons we can learn from Elijah about not taking ourselves too seriously, the importance of caring for our physical bodies, receiving God's love, listening for His voice in the quiet, and allowing God to renew our purpose. This episode is for anyone feeling worn out, frustrated, or spiritually dry. Through Elijah’s story, Kaleb offers practical wisdom and biblical encouragement to keep pressing on even in the wilderness moments of our lives. Whether you’re battling fatigue, discouragement, or the temptation to give up, this episode will help you find Jesus in the wilderness of your soul and remind you that God’s plans for you are not finished yet. Timestamps: 00:00 – Introduction to Part 4 of the 6-week series: Kaleb reflects on "pastor's fatigue" and the emotional crash after a Sunday of preaching. 01:50 – How adrenaline-filled Sundays often lead to discouraged Mondays and how relatable Elijah’s story is in this context. 02:24 – 1 Kings 19:4: Elijah prays to God asking to take his life. How Elijah’s despair speaks to the wilderness moments we face in life. 04:49 – Point 1: Don’t take yourself too seriously. Elijah’s dramatic prayer and the importance of laughing at ourselves in difficult moments. 07:11 – God’s response to Elijah: He sends an angel to feed Elijah instead of rebuking him. The kindness and grace of God in our weakest moments. 09:32 – Point 2: Taking care of your physical body is essential. Addressing the spiritual and physiological connections in wilderness seasons. 11:55 – Point 3: Let God love you. The importance of receiving God's love even when we feel we’ve failed or are frustrated with ourselves. 14:16 – Elijah’s search for God in the dramatic (earthquake, fire, wind) and realizing that God often speaks in the gentle whisper. 16:42 – Personal reflection: Kaleb shares a story about fatherlessness and the temptation dads face to give up when feeling unappreciated. 18:25 – Practical steps: Laugh at yourself, care for your body, let God love you, listen for God's whisper, and allow Him to renew your vision. 20:49 – Reflection on immaturity: God lavishes His love on us even in our immaturity. How we can receive His grace no matter where we are in life. 23:12 – Final encouragement: Elijah’s highs and lows illustrate God’s mercy. Even when Elijah wanted to give up, God still had a plan for him. 23:55 – Closing thoughts: Press on, even when you're in the wilderness, and lean into God’s plans and love. Connect with Us: Instagram: @dad.tired Website: DadTired.com Leave a Review: If this episode encouraged you, please leave a review and share it with a friend!

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Dad Tired is a community of men who are taking their faith, family, and marriage very seriously. We are equipping Christian husbands and dads to lead their family well. Past guests include: Gary Chapman, Cody Carnes, John Mark Comer, John Eldredge, Bob Goff, Stephen Curtis Chapman, Risen Motherhood, MercyMe, Tony Dungy, Paul David Tripp, Louie Giglio, Darryl Strawberry, Lecrae, Beneil Dariush, and many more!

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