Why Every Great Love Story Needs Conflict: Lessons From Powerful Couples | Ep 58

Intimacy can be transformative, but what happens when we make it sacred? This episode dives into the raw, transformative power of sacred sexuality through the stories of three couples who’ve been through it all—breakups, reunions, and those messy, beautiful moments that define a relationship. They’re sharing how rituals and shared practices have not only strengthened their bonds but helped them navigate conflict in a way that feels... well, sacred. Whether you're coupled up or just curious about deeper love, this one will make you see connection in a whole new light.

When it comes to conflict, these couples are refreshingly honest, offering a glimpse into the ways they tackle tough times together. They’ll talk you through some seriously cool approaches to handling disagreements—think “calls to greatness” instead of arguments. It’s all about building something that feels safe, respected, and still exciting. They’re not just sharing tips—they’re giving a genuine look at what it takes to build trust, feel seen, and truly support each other. It’s the kind of understanding that goes beyond advice and into the heart of what makes love last.

And, in perhaps the most beautiful part, they explore what “home” means in a relationship—a feeling of joy, safety, and shared purpose that isn’t easy to put into words but is felt deeply. Whether you’re partnered or single, these stories will get you thinking about love, connection, and how we all crave that deeper sense of belonging. 

Key Timestamps:

[00:01:43] Sacred sexuality and relationships.

[00:03:54] Energy fluency and kundalini activation.

[00:09:06] Common expressions during orgasm.

[00:15:07] Evolution in relationships.

[00:18:31] Compromise versus settling in relationships.

[00:20:28] Relationship ethos and values.

[00:31:14] Parenthood deepens love and commitment.

[00:37:58] Communication in relationships.

[00:39:27] Safe words in conflict resolution.

[00:52:23] Relationship priorities and dynamics.

[00:55:20] Gender dynamics in relationships.

[01:00:12] The power of feminine love.

[01:08:29] Energy creation in relationships.

[01:12:58] Scheduling intimacy in relationships.

[01:17:24] Peak life experience.

Memorable Quotes:

"Get rid of the idea that sex is only about pleasure because sex is about life itself. And so if you want full spectrum aliveness, you have to open yourself into a portal of sexuality that allows you to express the fullness of your being."– Layla Martin

"Sacred sexuality is… instead of needing to look outside for that aliveness, you really get to find it in your partnership—and it's because of the partnership, and the safety of your partnership that you get to then go so deep." – Johann Urb

"Once your kids... your children come into the world, then you understand the word compromise—because your life changes for them, as well as for each other, because you have to help make each other better parents and be there for each other." –  Richard Schiff

Where to Find Our Guests:

Layla Martin’s Website: https://laylamartin.com/

Dr. Baback Amen’s Website: https://www.dramenfunctional.com/

Sheila Kelley’s Website: https://bysheilakelley.com/

Richard Schiff’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/therichardschiff

Rachel Pringle Urb’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/positivepringle

Johann Urb’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/urbjohann

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