Episode 14 - why my "vacation" was not really a vacation

Women are Odd - All of these stories are regarding females in my life -Sisters, Friends and co-workers.  One sister is in the hospital and the other is telling me to go to church.  Why do folks I've known for 40 years hide their trip plans from me when we "all" had decided to go.  I would really like a Significant other and just asking why someone who is lucky enough to find someone would hide them?