All Weddings For a Living Podcasts

Debbie Quain
All Weddings For a Living Podcasts

Listen and learn everything you ever wanted to know about being a phenomenal professional wedding planner. Learn more at WeddingsForaLiving.com

Episodes

  1. 18/11/2016

    4 (more) Wedding Planner Niches – WFAL400

    I am a HUGE advocate of specializing.  With a wedding planner niche or specialty, you’ll have less competition and will likely make more money. Here are four (4) not-so-obvious wedding planner specialties to consider Niche #1: Offer All Inclusive Wedding Planning Become a one-stop-shop for couples getting married in your area. If you have your own venue, this is a no-brainer.  But what if you’re home-based? Good question!  The answer is to bundle a group of wedding planner services from 3rd-party wedding vendors and offer one flat price to your clients. Your clients pay you the wedding planner directly and you pay each wedding vendor for their services.  The difference is your profit. Niche #2: Work with Select Local Wedding Venues, Only! Limit the weddings that you plan to a handful (2 or 3) local wedding venues.  Weddings happening anywhere else are bespoke and are accepted on a case-by-case basis. You become the wedding specialist for that particular venue. The couples getting married pay your fee directly to you OR the venue may choose to tack it on to their own advertised wedding planning package. Niche #3: Plan Pre- and Post-Wedding Celebrations With this specialty, you won’t actually plan weddings.  Instead you’re the go-to person for engagement parties, bachelorette or bachelor parties, hen or stag nights, bridal showers, wedding rehearsal dinners and post-wedding brunch events. Similar to the all-inclusive arrangement, you’ll need to spend time negotiating deals with area venues, entertainment, rental companies, etc. Keep in mind your clients may not be the engaged couple.  Relatives and wedding party members – the folks who are likely to be hosting these types of events – need to know that you exist Niche #4: Plan Speedy Weddings A wedding planner who specializes in putting a wedding together in a matter of weeks instead of months certainly stands out! Couples who are flexible and willing to do things differently – e.g. host a wedding on a weeknight, perhaps or forego some of the traditional ‘rules’ for tying the knot are ideal for this type of specialty. Repeat after me: “There are Riches in Niches!” A wedding planner niche is a good thing!  The wedding planning market is crowded.  Give yourself a chance and stand out by being different. Once you settle on a niche, you must promote it…don’t bury it.  And, it’s okay to turn away potential business.  Every wedding is not for you. Additional Wedding Planner Niche Episodes * Episode 370: Pop-Up or Quick Weddings as a Niche – WeddingsforaLiving.com/370 * Episode 390: “How Do I Select a Wedding Planner Niche?” – Weddingsforaliving.com/390 Would L-O-V-E to hear from you… * Call and leave a voicemail message 24/7 on the Listener Talkback Line: +1 (202) 681-2126 * Please share your comments about wedding planner niches or specializing in the box below * If the spirit moves ya, please leave a review on iTunes! 🙂  WeddingsforaLiving.com/itunes HAPPY PLANNING!   I am a HUGE advocate of specializing.  With a wedding planner niche or specialty, you’ll have less competition and will likely make more money. Here are four (4) not-so-obvious wedding planner specialties to consider Niche #1: Offer All Inclusive Wedding Planning Become a one-stop-shop for couples getting married in your area. If you have your own venue, this is a no-brainer.

    41 min
  2. 04/11/2016

    Wedding Guest Seating – WFAL399

    Here’s a basic overview of seating wedding guests at the wedding reception. Wedding Guest Seating Stationery When it comes to seating your client’s wedding guests, at the very least you’ll need: * An alphabetized list of attending guest names * Escort cards with each guest name and table assignment in alphabetical order * Place cards (if applicable) with guest names * Table signs (with either numbers or table names) for each table and a corresponding room layout * Seating chart(s) (if applicable) Keep in Mind: * You need your clients’ input to determine where guests should be seated at the wedding reception * Wedding guest seating arrangements are made during the final part of the wedding planning process – allow yourself enough time…you have lots to do! * Wedding guests are not likely to spend more than an hour and 15 minutes (give or take) seated together at a table. * Do whatever you can to avoid a bottleneck at the entrance to the main wedding reception room HAPPY PLANNING! Here’s a basic overview of seating wedding guests at the wedding reception. Wedding Guest Seating Stationery When it comes to seating your client’s wedding guests, at the very least you’ll need: * An alphabetized list of attending guest names * Escort cards with each guest name and table assignment in alphabetical order * Place cards (if applicable) with guest names * Table signs (with either numbers or table names) for each table and a corresponding room layout * Seating chart(s) (if applicable) Keep in Mind: * You need your clients’ input to determine where guests should be seated at the wedding reception * Wedding guest seating arrangements are made during the final part of the wedding planning process – allow yourself enough time…you have lots to do! * Wedding guests are not likely to spend more than an hour and 15 minutes (give or take) seated together at a table. * Do whatever you can to avoid a bottleneck at the entrance to the main wedding reception room HAPPY PLANNING!

    29 min
  3. 20/10/2016

    How to Collect your Wedding Planner’s Fee – WFAL398

    If you’re planning weddings for a living then the goal is to receive payment from your clients for your professional services. This episode will walk you through the payment options that are available and provide advice on what you can do to ensure that you are paid on time for your wedding planning services. During this episode discover: * Why you need a business bank account for your wedding planning business * A quick explanation of ‘Doing Business As’ * Best practices for accepting cash, checks and credit cards for your wedding planner services * Fees associated with a credit card merchant account * A possible solution that lowers the risk of accepting checks * Affordable alternatives to a traditional merchant account * Advice if you’re charging clients a fee for paying you with a credit card Resources Evo Payments (formerly PowerPay) – If you’re looking for a new (or better) traditional merchant account, I recommend PowerPay.  This is the company I used before switching to Stripe (see below)  Great customer service. Visit PowerPay Square – Here’s a credit card reader that plugs into your smartphone or tablet giving just about anyone the ability to accept credit cards for payment. Visit Squareup.com PayPal HERE – Not to be outdone, ‘Here’ is PayPal’s triangular answer to the ‘Square’ credit card reader. Visit PayPal Here Card Reader PayPal Payments – This is the world’s largest online payment processor.  As long as your clients and customers have an email address, they can use PayPal to pay your wedding planning fees. Visit PayPal Stripe – This is my hands-down favorite option for accepting credit card payments online. To use Stripe, you’ll need to purchase an SSL certificate for your wedding business website (making your domain name or website payment page secure; indicated by ‘https’ instead of ‘http’).  Visit Stripe.com HAPPY PLANNING! If you’re planning weddings for a living then the goal is to receive payment from your clients for your professional services. This episode will walk you through the payment options that are available and provide advice on what you can do to ensure that you are paid on time for your wedding planning services. During this episode discover: * Why you need a business bank account for your wedding planning business * A quick explanation of ‘Doing Business As’ * Best practices for accepting cash, checks and credit cards for your wedding planner services * Fees associated with a credit card merchant account * A possible solution that lowers the risk of accepting checks * Affordable alternatives to a traditional merchant account * Advice if you’re charging clients a fee for paying you with a credit card Resources Evo Payments (formerly PowerPay) – If you’re looking for a new (or better) traditional merchant account, I recommend PowerPay.  This is the company I used before switching to Stripe (see below)  Great customer service. Visit PowerPay Square – Here’s a credit card reader that plugs into your smartphone or tablet giving just about anyone the ability to accept credit cards for payment. Visit Squareup.com PayPal HERE – Not to be outdone,

    41 min
  4. 05/10/2016

    Avoid These Newbie Wedding Planner Mistakes! – WFAL397

    When you’re new to an industry you’re bound to make a few mistakes. You don’t know what you don’t know.  And with no shortage of available online information, the endless options can be confusing. For a newbie wedding planner it is no different. In this episode I shed some light on some of the mistakes that I  have made so you can avoid making them too. MISTAKE #1: Not thinking like a business owner For the most part, planning weddings for a living means almost no recurring income; PLUS hiring a professional wedding planner is not a service that is in-demand (yet). What also tends to be the case is that most professional wedding planners spend lots of hours planning a wedding but do not bill for the actual amount of time spent working. This means that wedding planning tends to be a labor of love instead of a HUGE money generator.  Keep this in mind! MISTAKE #2: Not creating a business plan You may not need a traditional 25-page document to start your wedding planning business, but at the very least, you must be prepared to answer some important questions: * How much do you charge? * What type of wedding planner services do you offer? * Are you in tune with the local wedding scene? * Do you have an office? Where will you meet clients? * Are you certified? Do you even need to be? * How much money do you need to make each month? * What is my core marketing strategy? * How will I balance my business with my job? * Are you comfortable asking for the sale? MISTAKE #3: Not being local enough If you’re actively planning weddings, do you know: * How many weddings are happening in your area, locally? * How much couples spending on local weddings? * Who are the top 3 planners in your area? How much do they charge? Do your research before launching your wedding planning company. TIP: Survey local brides – ask them about their wedding experience TIP: Commit to being the local wedding guru; start a blog, a local YT channel MISTAKE #4: Underestimating the emotional side of weddings Weddings are emotional.  This means your emotions PLUS the client’s emotions are likely to be affected. As a professional wedding planner, you MUST ‘click’ with your clients.  But you must also be prepared to set boundaries and establish standards to increase the likelihood of a great working relationship. Remember: Not everyone will welcome you as a wedding planner; get used to it! No one owes you a thing as a business owner; not even a reply or common courtesy. MISTAKE #5: Not creating systems Document your professional wedding planning process (here’s the process I use).  Planning each wedding the same way – more or less – will save you time and allow you to grow. Create and implement telephone and email scripts, write down your planning procedures, use checklists and templates instead of having to repeatedly explain your processes to others. TIP: You need to implement systems for your wedding business MISTAKE #6: Not being accountable This is important for all entrepreneurs, even if wedding planning is your side gig.  You have no excuses as a business owner. Find ways to run your business effectively and figure out how you will provide your customers with the service they have paid you for! MISTAKE #7: Not discussing my business with my family Planning weddings affects your family and those closest to you.  You’ll likely forfeit your weekends and evenings; running a business affects your money and your mood. Talk to your family and discuss what they should expect. MISTAKE #8: Not being different enough Why should someone hire you as a professional wedding planner instead of the planner located a few blocks away?...

    42 min
  5. 08/06/2016

    More of Your Wedding Planner Questions, Answered – WFAL395

    If you’ve got questions about being a professional wedding planner, then, Weddings For a Living has answers.  This episode is a replay of part two of a live broadcast in response to several of your listener wedding planner questions.  (You can catch part 1 of the broadcast, here.) Questions and answers in this episode include: What are the top 5 things to do to become a wedding planner? What is the best form of advertising for a wedding planner? How old is too old to start as a wedding planner? I’ve been asked to coordinate a same-sex wedding. I’m clueless, what should I do? Where do I go to get wedding planner training? I can’t afford to hire additional staff for my wedding business, what should I do? My clients are going against my professional advice (in this instance, it’s about a Save-the-Date) what should I do? How else can I make money without having to plan weddings? What are the top 5 things to do to become a wedding planner? Dynisha asked for a rundown of the top five (5) things to do as a wedding planner.  Here’s my take (thanks, Dynisha!) 1. Get hands-on experience planning weddings for others – make sure this is something you truly enjoy doing. Work alongside a few local wedding vendors and professional. 2. Talk to and spend some time with professional wedding vendors already in the wedding industry 3. Make sure there’s a demand for professional wedding planner services in your market area 4. Consider a specialty or niche as a wedding planner 5. Develop a presence THE local wedding expert What is the best form of advertising for a wedding planner? Thank you Dawn for this question First, no matter what type of advertising that you invest in, make sure you have a professional website for your wedding business that your advertising leads back to. Print Ads – place in publications targeted to your ideal clients, especially a local one Bridal Expo – if you can locate a smaller or niche wedding expo (like Pamela Noxon’s Wedding Party – http://www.sandiegoweddingparty.com/about-us/) that your target clients are likely to attend, this may be a worthwhile advertising expense. WORTH CHECKING OUT: * WeddingWire.com, TheKnot.com ,Thumbtack.com each offer advertising opportunities for wedding planners How old is too old to start as a wedding planner? Molly is concerned about ageism in the wedding planning industry – thanks Molly! It’s not a requirement to look like your potential clients.  What is important, however, is that as a wedding professional that you provide a solution to a problem that your client is experiencing. Make sure you’re not inventing ‘situations’ for yourself as a business owner that don’t really exist.  Your work and past events should speak volumes! I’ve been asked to coordinate a same-sex wedding. I’m clueless, what should I do? Valerie is being considered for same-sex wedding but isn’t quite sure where to begin.  Thanks for writing, Valerie. Whenever you’re asked to plan a wedding that you’re unfamiliar with, it’s time to start digging around and conduct your own research.  Google, Amazon, Wikipedia, associations and social media are likely to divulge an avalanche of results. Once you decide that this is  a topic that you’re interested in pursuing (why bother if you’re not jazzed by it), look for one or two books on the subject and spend the next 48 hours learning all that you can. Believe it or not, with this focused approach of study you’ll know way more ...

    1h 2m
  6. 23/05/2016

    Your Wedding Planner Questions, Answered – WFAL394

    When you’re a newcomer to planning weddings for others, you’re bound to have questions.  This episode is the first part of a live broadcast dedicated to answering questions sent in by WeddingsForaLiving listeners. Here are the questions (and answers) discussed in this episode: Should I complain to wedding vendors on my client’s behalf? What’s the best way for a new professional wedding planner to find clients? Should I charge more for planning an extended or long-distance wedding? What’s the best way to set-up a wedding planner agency? What if I become labeled as the ‘day-of’ or ‘month-of’ wedding planner? How should I market my wedding planner services to my family and friends? What Should I do if my Clients are Unhappy with a Wedding Vendor’s Service or Product? This question comes from Kathy about her role as a day-of or month-of wedding coordinator (thank you, Kathy!). When hired as a day-of wedding coordinator, your primary function is to make sure that the wedding your clients have invested so much time and money planning goes off without a hitch.  One area that is not your domain, however, is the hand-picking and hiring of professional wedding vendors. Your clients do that. By the time you – the day-of wedding coordinator – come on board, your clients will/should have already confirmed, executed contracts with and booked their wedding vendors. Keeping this in mind, Kathy, in her role as a day-of wedding coordinator asked what her position should be if her clients are unhappy with the service or product that a vendor provides on the actual wedding day?  Should she say something to the vendor, or not? What’s the Best Way for a New Wedding Planner to find Clients? Joe asked for help with finding clients.  “Thank you Joe!” Begin with your family and friends and let them know that you’ve transitioned from being a dabbler or hobbyist to being a professional wedding planner who charges for your services. Business cards are an inexpensive yet memorable way to spread the word about your wedding business. A professional website that reflects the style and budget of the weddings you aspire to plan is a must and lets the world you know you mean business! Develop a shortlist of professional wedding vendors and venues in your area and build relationships with them.  They deal with engaged couples all day long and will likely send potential clients your way. Should I charge more for an extended or long-distance wedding? Ashley typically is the last person to leave her clients’ wedding, but, wondered what she should charge if the wedding goes on past midnight or is located several hours away from her office.  “Thanks for writing, Ashley!” You should have a baseline price for your wedding planner services that includes a certain number of hours.  Charge extra for any additional planning time. If you’re asked to travel beyond a certain radius from your office, you should also charge extra for travel and accommodation costs. Don’t forget your incidentals. Don’t price these types of services – extended time or travel – on the spot.  These are custom or bespoke wedding planning services.  Take time to calculate all of your associated expenses and then get back to your potential clients within 24-48 hours with your fee. What’s the best way to set-up a wedding planner agency? Sabrina asked for help with setting up her wedding company similar to the way a law firm operates. “Love this idea, Sabrina!” Assuming you know what planning a wedding entails, creating a system is key when setting up an agency type of wedding...

    59 min
  7. 20/10/2015

    Wedding Cake ‘Crash Course’ – WFAL393

    This episode is an information-packed audio class primarily for the new (but could certainly help even the more experienced) professional, wedding planner and it’s all about wedding cakes. Yum! What could be more symbolic of a wedding than a wedding cake?  So special that it gets its very own, spot-lit table, a wedding cake will be photographed, cut, and oftentimes kept as a special keepsake for what is a very special day. For centuries weddings have been celebrated with a special cake.  And they have evolved drastically! The ancient Romans would finalize their wedding ceremonies by breaking loaves of wheat bread over the heads of the newlyweds to bring luck and prosperity. In medieval Europe [5th century – 15th century AD], the bride and groom would attempt to kiss over a super-tall stack of spiced buns.  If they were successful, a prosperous future was almost certainly guaranteed! Between the 17th and 19th century in England, Bride’s pie was an important wedding dish which eventually evolved into bride cake—the forerunner of the modern-day wedding cake. The multi-tiered wedding cake, as we know it today, has it origins in a creation for the wedding of Queen Victoria’s daughter Vicky, in 1858 (although only the bottom tier was actual cake).  The first tiered wedding cake made entirely of cake was made for Prince Leopold’s wedding in 1882. Because most Victorian bakers lacked the skill to stop the top layer of a wedding cake from becoming the bottom layer it took 20 more years before columns were used to separate the cake layers. Wedding Cakes Today Today, the wedding cake takes center stage at the wedding reception and will be forever immortalized in photos.  It can be one tier or seven!  Cakes can be sleek and modern if that’s your client’s preference.  Or maybe a lavishly ornamented cake more closely resembles the style they have in mind. In some instances, the wedding cake doesn’t even look like a cake at all! Tiered Wedding Cakes Visit any wedding planning website or blog and you’ll see picture after picture of multi-tiered wedding cakes.  A multi-layered cake has to be carefully constructed and reinforced internally to prevent the top layers from collapsing on to the bottom layers. (Which is why it’s so important to entrust this task to an experienced professional!).  For support, dowels are inserted into each layer of cake in addition to foam or cardboard inserted underneath each layer.   For adventurous couples who want to inject a sense of fun into their wedding, a topsy-turvy cake is a whimsical favorite.  Wedding guests always get a kick out of a crooked cake.  And just so you know, the cake isn’t really crooked, it’s just constructed to look that way. Other Types of Wedding Cakes Cupcakes are another trend at weddings.  This stylish alternative is a personal favorite; however, don’t assume that these individual morsels will cost less than a traditional tiered wedding cake.   Creating cupcakes is a labor-intensive process. In the UK, the traditional British wedding cake is a fruitcake covered with marzipan. Inside, the cake is made with fruits, prunes and raisins soaked in brandy or whiskey. The top tier is saved as the ‘christening cake’ for the couple’s first baby. In France the magnificent ‘croquembouche’ [kroh-kuhm-BOOSH] is a truly unique wedding cake. A cone-shaped tower (sometimes more than 5-feet high) of profiteroles (cream or custard-filled cream puffs) are stuck together with caramel and covered with spun sugar.  The croquembouche evolved during the time of King Charles II and was quite the status symbol since sugar, at the time, was a rare commodity. Wedding Cake Frosting & Fillings Wedding Cake Frosting or Icing Your clients have several options for the type of icing for their wedding cake.

    42 min
  8. 30/09/2015

    LIVE! Family discounts, Certification angst, Customer follow-up – WFAL392

    It’s time to answer a few of your wedding planner questions. Each question and answer is listed below, however, you’ll gain lots more info if you listen to the entire episode (it’s 38 minutes long). The Family & Friends Wedding Planning Discount It’s inevitable that those closest to you will ask for your help with their social events. Tailor’d Events would like to know: How do you help family and friends with their weddings without losing money or being taken for granted? Here’s what I suggest: Send your  family and friends a Wedding Business announcement letter — think new baby announcement but, instead, of sharing newborn vital statistics, make this announcement all about your new wedding business.  Include your web address, details about your specialty, a picture of your office, a copy of your most popular article…all the stuff that you’re proud of and can’t wait to share. This heartfelt communication lets each recipient know that you have transitioned from wedding hobbyist to entrepreneur.  Doing this should curb some of those ‘free’ requests that you’re resentful about. It’s also a good move to create a policy for what you will and won’t do or discount for family and friends.  If you decide to discount your services, make sure you cover your expenses. And then of course, you have to stick to your guns and walk the walk!  This means making sure that each wedding and special event that you work on is handled professionally:  by being upfront about your fees (discounted or otherwise), using a professional wedding planner contract, preparing (and sticking to) a budget, keeping track of your time and all the other tasks that separate the wedding planning dabblers from the true hustlers. How to Follow-up with Potential Clients The magic is in the follow-up.  Ever heard that?  Thien asked me: How many times should you follow-up with a prospect?  Is there some sort of system that should be in place? Here’s what I do: If after meeting with potential clients for the very first time I learn that they are not ready to sign a contract, I suggest that the prospect contact me a few days later at specific time.  This way the pressure is on them, not me and I don’t feel like I’m hounding anyone for a sale. But my communication with a prospect doesn’t end there. * I immediately send my potential clients a hand-written thank-you note – In an envelope. With a stamp. In the mail. Regardless of how well (or not) the meeting went, each prospect gets one of these. * In a few days, when/if the prospect contacts me as planned, we either move forward with a contract/deposit (yay!) or if they opt not to hire me, I thank them for the opportunity and for taking the time to let me know and I wish them well.If I don’t hear from the prospect as planned, it’s on to step #3 * I send a short, no-pressure, follow-up email letting them know that I’m still ‘here to help’ if they need me and then I direct them to helpful wedding planning content – articles, podcast episodes, newsletter, etc. – ideally with a local slant and created by yours truly.  I also make sure to let prospects know about any current promotions or discounts for services or items that they have expressed an interested in. And, that’s it. Once I’ve had a face-to-face meeting with a couple who have expressed an interest in what I do, hopefully there’s a connection  and I’m the one (the wedding planner, that is) for them.  But, that may not be the case  for any number of reasons. Remember as a business owner, no one owes you a thing.  Nothing.  Zip. Nada.

    38 min
  9. 07/08/2015

    Q: Should I Join a Wedding Planner Association? – WFAL391

    Most professional wedding planners work alone. Becoming a member of a wedding planner association is like being a part of a team. 4 Reasons to Join a Wedding Planner Association Reason #1: Wedding Planner Networking opportunities * Most wedding planner associations sponsor member events where you can connect with your peers, share and brainstorm ideas and get much-needed advice about what it takes to be a professional wedding planner. * Looking for a wedding planning mentor? Your wedding planner association might have just the right person for you to work with. * Give serious consideration to becoming a committee member or leader within your association.  Even if you’re a newcomer to the wedding industry, you have valuable information to share with others and once you do, you’ll be considered an expert. Reason # 2: Find wedding planner jobs and clients Depending on which wedding planner association you join, member benefits may include help with finding more clients.  Each association manages this benefit differently.  Here are some methods: * Inclusion in the association’s membership directory or database – by making the directory public, potential clients are likely to find you Providing local wedding leads – this gives members the opportunity to ‘bid’ or contact prospects, who are looking for a wedding planner, directly. * Use of the association’s logo on your website and other marketing materials is equivalent to having a stamp of approval and is yet another way to help with how your wedding planning business is perceived by clients, vendors and the media. As the owner of your own wedding business, your wedding planner association is a good place to find employees and/or interns who work a. Alternatively, if you’re looking for a job as a professional wedding planner, certain wedding planner associations provide their members with access to a job postings that may not be advertised anywhere else. Reason #3: Information, Education and training for wedding planners A good wedding planner association is a wealth of knowledge for both new and experienced wedding planners.  Membership may include access to: * Special wedding industry events and conferences * Resources to educate members  on ‘best practices’ for the wedding industry * Wedding industry data – global, national and local – perfect for business start-up * Online webinars and classes throughout the year * Breaking and relevant news about tools, products, software, services and more related to the wedding industry * Member-only publications – magazines, newsletters, white papers, etc. Reason #4: Wedding Industry discounts Many companies for whom wedding planners are customers, will promote their products and services to wedding planner association members (i.e. YOU) with special rates and discounts which  means more profit for you. Wedding Planner Association Homework As you consider your options for possibly joining a wedding planner association, it’s important to do your due diligence: * Ask for recommendations from others in our industry – wedding planners, professional wedding vendors – and existing and past wedding association members. * Keep in mind that some wedding planner associations have protocols and requirements before accepting you as a member, so, get your paperwork in order. * Membership association fees vary, but, most are reasonable. What can you afford? Special rates may be available for active students, so ask. * Pay attention to the response time and level of ...

    37 min

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