Called to Marriage

Thomas & Marcia

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CHRISTIANITY

A podcast for the bride of Christ. If you are called, come! As a married couple, the Oppongs talk about their marriage and life in parallel to their union with Christ the King. Through their conversations, they aim to glorify God and edify his body, at the same time leaving a legacy for posterity. Tune in! Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/calledtomarriage/support

27 JUN

#49 Navigating Wedding Culture with Intentionality and Faith

Marcia and Thomas challenge the conventional wedding and event culture, emphasizing a return to simplicity and biblical principles. They discuss the significant impact of societal norms on our celebrations and explore key themes such as financial stewardship, cultural traditions, and the true intent behind events. Through engaging conversation, they provide insights on navigating cultural pressures and highlight the importance of honoring God in every aspect of wedding and event planning. 00:00 Introduction and Today's Topic 01:33 Biblical Perspective on Weddings 02:19 Western Wedding Culture and Its Influence 04:27 Questioning Wedding Traditions 14:34 Financial Implications of Weddings 28:14 Cultural Expectations and Personal Values 34:09 Parental Influence and Setting Boundaries 45:27 Validating and Acknowledging Efforts 46:17 Setting Boundaries with Family 47:05 Intent Behind Events 52:20 The Value of Presence Over Gifts 58:45 Financial Wisdom in Celebrations 01:01:07 Challenging Cultural Norms 25:19 The Unnecessary Pressure of Big Weddings 26:30 The Temptation of Long Engagements 28:14 Questioning Cultural Norms 30:18 Redefining Cultural Expectations 33:11 Setting Boundaries with Parents 47:05 Intent Behind Celebrations 57:06 Living Within Your Means 01:03:43 Final Thoughts and Advice --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/calledtomarriage/support

1h 5m
14 MAY

#48 The Power of Contentment: Embracing Your Season

In this episode of 'Called to Marriage,' we delve into the significance of finding contentment and simplicity amidst the busyness of life. Beginning with a scripture from Ecclesiastes 4:6, we reflect on its meaning and relevance to our current season of life, which is characterized by living simply and making financial sacrifices. We share our personal experiences of choosing to live on one income, downsizing our home, and the challenges and joys that come with these decisions. We address the societal pressures that often lead to dissatisfaction and compare our journey to others, highlighting the importance of contentment and the dangers of succumbing to FOMO (fear of missing out). Furthermore, we discuss the importance of having a strong vision for the future to navigate life's challenges confidently and the role of sacrifice in achieving long-term goals. We emphasize that life is seasonal, and understanding this can help foster contentment and gratitude in every stage of life. Throughout the episode, we encourage our listeners to embrace their current season, find joy and contentment in the simple things, and remember that personal growth and character development are just as important as material success. We wrap up the episode by inviting our listeners to engage with us through comments and feedback, expressing our gratitude for their support and love. 00:00 Opening and Scripture Reflection 00:45 Embracing Simplicity and Contentment in Life 03:42 The Joy of Living Within Your Means 07:30 The Long Game: Sacrifice Today for Comfort Tomorrow 13:33 The Importance of Vision in Navigating Life's Seasons 17:19 Closing Thoughts and Call to Action --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/calledtomarriage/support

18 min
16 FEB

#47 Waiting on the Lord

What are you waiting on the Lord for? How are you waiting? What is your attitude and posture toward God in delay? Thomas and I answer these questions for ourselves on this episode. We are waiting, hoping, and praying for another baby. Feel free to agree with us in prayer 🙏🏾 😊 but we are genuinely grateful to and content with God and all He has given us. Be encouraged, and may God’s PERFECT will be accomplished in all of our lives. FOLLOW US FOR MORE CONTENT: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/calledtomarriage Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/calledtomarriage TikTok: tiktok.com/@calledtomarriage --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/calledtomarriage/support

26 min
12 JAN

#46 Finding the Right Partner: Christian Marriage Essentials

Key Qualities to Look for in a Christian Marriage Partner In this episode hosts Marcia and Thomas discuss essential qualities to look for in a potential Christian marriage partner. They emphasize that choosing a spouse aligned with Christian values and beliefs is crucial for a harmonious and fulfilling marriage. The episode outlines seven key qualities, including being a Christian with shared biblical values, adaptability, selflessness, faithfulness, a vision for the future (especially for men), and respect (particularly important for women to have towards men). Marcia and Thomas illustrate the importance of these qualities through practical examples and biblical references, stressing that these traits contribute to a strong, unified marriage that reflects Christ's relationship with the church. They encourage listeners to seek and develop these qualities within themselves and in their potential partners. 00:00 Welcome & Introduction: The Importance of Choosing the Right Partner 02:07 The Foundation of Faith in Marriage 12:11 Adapting and Compromising: Key Qualities for a Successful Marriage 18:55 The Impact of Adaptability on Family Dynamics 23:50 The Importance of Self-Sacrifice in Marriage 25:34 Embracing the Mind of Christ for a Stronger Union 25:39 The Significance of Being a Believer in Marriage 28:13 Demonstrating Selflessness: A Key to Marital Success 31:18 The Role of Commitment and Faithfulness in Marriage 36:30 Seeking a Partner with Vision: Guidance for Women 39:22 Respecting Your Partner: A Foundation for Marriage 45:51 Concluding Thoughts on Marriage and God's Glory Summary of qualities to look for in a potential spouse: 1. Equally yoked (not just a professing Christian, but shared/biblical values) 2. Flexible/Adaptable 3. Self-sacrificing 4. Committed/Faithful Bonuses: *A man with a strong vision or devotedly seeking *A woman who respects and admires you FOLLOW US FOR MORE CONTENT: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/calledtomarriage Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/calledtomarriage TikTok: tiktok.com/@calledtomarriage --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/calledtomarriage/support

47 min
22/12/2023

#45 Downsizing to Upgrade

After a few lovely years in our last apartment, we have decided to move! Some would consider it a downgrade, but we consider it a great move for us in this season! God has prospered us, and we are trusting Him in our new place and in this new season! We are just sharing some life updates for testimony and posterity sake. FOLLOW US FOR MORE CONTENT: YouTube Instagram Facebook TikTok --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/calledtomarriage/support

39 min
01/09/2023

#44 Marital and Pre-Marital Counseling

Counsel is important for life in general, and especially when making one the the most important decisions of life, which is who to marry. On this episode, we discuss the value of counseling at every stage of a relationship, whether simply interested in someone, actually seeing someone, about to get married, or married for several years. The Bible said that in the multitude of counselors there is safety, so we conclude that it is wise to get counsel from family, godly friends, seminars, workshops, books, and so forth as you navigate your romantic relationship life. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/calledtomarriage/support

43 min
18/08/2023

#43 Lessons we've learned from Charlie

Lessons we’ve learned from Charlie 1. The activity of the flesh causes visceral reactions in us. We should apply grace but also discipline! (00:43) 2. We are made to be moving constantly! (9:06) 3. From a young age, we have the capacity for extreme focus and diligence (17:10) 4. We are born with courage that we should work to protect. Fear hinders you. (Release your inhibitions!) (22:00) 5. *bonus* Eating habits are learned. (24:55) --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/calledtomarriage/support

30 min
26/06/2023

#42 The Wisdom of the Ancestors

We’re talking about the wisdom of the ancestors! NO, we aren’t talking about soliciting the voice of your dead ancestor through seance or mediums. We are talking about walking in the GOOD ancient path referred to in Jeremiah 6:16. We are talking about not forgetting the old, good ways of the past that societies sometimes lose value for as they advance in technological conveniences and modernize in culture. FOLLOW US FOR MORE CONTENT: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/calledtomarriage Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/calledtomarriage TikTok: tiktok.com/@calledtomarriage CALLED TO MARRIAGE PODCAST: https://anchor.fm/calledtomarriage You can listen on several different platforms, including Apple Podcasts, Spotify, Stitcher, etc. --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/calledtomarriage/support

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Thomas & Marcia
Years Active

2019 - 2024
Episodes

49
Rating

Clean
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Called to Marriage

Called to Marriage

#49 Navigating Wedding Culture with Intentionality and Faith

#48 The Power of Contentment: Embracing Your Season

#47 Waiting on the Lord

#46 Finding the Right Partner: Christian Marriage Essentials

#45 Downsizing to Upgrade

#44 Marital and Pre-Marital Counseling

#43 Lessons we've learned from Charlie

#42 The Wisdom of the Ancestors

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Called to Marriage

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#49 Navigating Wedding Culture with Intentionality and Faith

#48 The Power of Contentment: Embracing Your Season

#47 Waiting on the Lord

#46 Finding the Right Partner: Christian Marriage Essentials

#45 Downsizing to Upgrade

#44 Marital and Pre-Marital Counseling

#43 Lessons we've learned from Charlie

#42 The Wisdom of the Ancestors

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