This is What Blocks You From Authentic Relating with Starielle Hope| #45

Shownotes

• Why pure play is so important in healing

• The importance of trusting the pace of your body

• A simple practice to make emotions conscious

• Why relational wounding is healed in relationship

• How to access your partner’s deepest magic

• What you can do to become more magnetic

Bio

Starielle Hope is a relationship and intimacy coach who specializes in working with people who have found success in their careers, but struggle to find the same success in relationships.

She grew up in a constant state of loneliness that she thought was normal because it was all she had ever known. After feeling terribly isolated because connecting with others didn’t come naturally to her, she experienced a wakeup call in her early 20s when I learned that, not only was this not normal, but she could actually learn how to connect more deeply with others just as she could learn any other skill. So she set out to reverse engineer connection and intimacy for herself. 

Along the way, she discovered that she has a unique talent for taking abstract emotional concepts and breaking them down into tangible, step-by-step processes that those who are more comfortable in their logical/rational minds (like Starielle) can understand and adopt.

Learning how to connect more deeply with others has improved her happiness and well-being more than anything else she’s ever done, and she absolutely loves sharing what she’s learned along the way.

Starielle has been doing this work for over a decade now and loves every minute of it. She currently shares the knowledge she’s gathered through one-on-one coaching and online courses and will be publishing her first book later this year.

Discover more of Starielle’s work and connect with her on her website.

Timestamps

00:02:01 - Guest introduction

00:03:55 - How Layla and Starielle first met

00:08:30 - Starielle shares a powerful example of magnetism from Layla’s birthday

00:09:40 - Sign up for Layla’s newsletter at LaylaMartin.com

00:10:28 - Why pure play is so important in healing

00:11:34 - Starielle shares about her personal growth path

00:13:05 - True play is the opposite of trauma

00:18:13 - Feeling your feelings allows you to sparkle

00:23:24 - The importance of trusting the pace of your body

00:23:49 - Discover the VITA™ Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching Certification 

00:28:14 - Starielle shares a simple practice to make emotions conscious

00:34:00 - Relational wounding is healed in relationship

00:37:37 - 3 stages of dependence

00:43:11 - How to access your partner’s deepest magic

00:44:10 - Discover MOOD™ Sexy Supplements

00:45:19 - Get Layla’s free Orgasmic Breathwork Practice for deeper pleasure

00:46:30 - Reach your full pleasure capacity with Men’s Sexual Mastery

00:49:13 - The different energies of anger

00:52:43 - Men are meant to be warriors

00:56:20 - Expand your pleasure potential with Obliss Women’s Sexual Masterclass

00:59:52 -  Why reading women’s signals is so important for men

01:05:50 - One of the biggest issues Starielle sees with men

01:09:15 - What you can do to become more magnetic

01:11:36 - Starielle shares her experience in VITA™ Coaching

01:15:10 - Conclusion